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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Just had the best conversation with my ex. He came over last night for a booty call and in typical drunken styles wanted to get back together. This morning he still felt the same way and so I was starting to think he was serious... after dropping him home I open and email he'd written after I left saying he didn't actually want to be with me. Fairly expected.

So I call and we talked for nearly 3 hours about why we didn't work, what we hated about each other, what we loved about each other, favourite memories and how we'd deal with this in the future.

I feel good. I have been reminded of all the thoroughly shitty things he did while still appreciating the good. Lets hope I stay this way for as long as possible.
 
^^ Its always good when you look at the big picture like that.. sometimes our emotions get the better of us and we fail to notice ALL the facts. I know when relationships break up its only the shit that stands out.. but you gotta remember, something must have attracted you to him in the first place ;)
 
^ Heh. The problem is more that I can only remember the good and not the bad - which would help me get over this. He was giving me examples like, 'Remember the time I asked for your friend's phone number? Remember when I dictched your housewarming to get stoned at home? Remember the night when I pretended I'd left my phone in the car so I didn't have to go meet you in the city? Remember when you set your kitchen on fire and wanted me to come over to help and all I did was say I'd cook you breakfast in the morning? Rememeber when I left you stranded in the city with no money?' etc etc and I was like, 'Fuck! You're an asshole! Thanks for reminding me.' ;)

It's weird when the person you want to hate is trying to help you hate them.
 
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Damn that housewarming party was a funny night... my ankle still hurts from when I fell over in the gutter. I still think you should have deleted said ex-boyfriend's whole list of phone numbers from his mobile ;)

I'm still in this thread, but not bothered. I don't see myself leaving it in the near future, seeing as I don't think I'll be leaving my house for the next 5 weeks of uni.

*laughs*
 
Fuck Yarni he really was an asshole wasnt he!

and slightly more on topic I shouldnt even be in here cos I'm actually enjoying not being single. who would have thought it.
 
Why is this thread called 'Living without justification'???

How the hell is being single living without any justified means? Its this kind of talk that makes people disparaged at not having any kind of partner. Its fun being single, a different type of fun to being involved with someone -- but still heaps of fun.

??????
 
iamtha1 said:
Why is this thread called 'Living without justification'???

How the hell is being single living without any justified means? Its this kind of talk that makes people disparaged at not having any kind of partner. Its fun being single, a different type of fun to being involved with someone -- but still heaps of fun.

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im on the same boat you are.. im still trying to figure it out.
 
I thought i was veering out of singledom the last few weeks .. but i managed to successfully re-adjust the situation .. and have fully embraced the power of being a single girl once again.

And its fucking great, i kid you not ;)
 
iamtha1 said:
Why is this thread called 'Living without justification'???

How the hell is being single living without any justified means? Its this kind of talk that makes people disparaged at not having any kind of partner. Its fun being single, a different type of fun to being involved with someone -- but still heaps of fun.

??????
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Let's close this one and have a new topic =D
 
^^ I think it's an excellent idea!
Um... 1234, are we allowed to do that? Can you please archive said 'Justified' thread? :D
 
^ Are you serious? Because of the title of a thread? Does it really matter?

I'm sure BREAKaBEAT had her tongue firmly planted in her cheek when she came up with it anyway.

I did something today which I wrote about it in my LJ.

I just did something really, really weird. And I KNOW it’s weird, I even knew it at the time but I couldn’t help myself. I was at Mac Centre and saw a guy who looked a lot like Louis, I think it was his eyes. Anyway, I just kept staring and staring and he smiled at me, probably because he thought I was a psycho bitch and would stab him if he wasn’t careful. Suddenly I found myself walking up to him and saying, “Hi, I’m Yarni. I was just wondering if you’d like to go out for a drink sometime?’

Come on, who does that?

Luckily he seemed almost flattered and we ended up exchanging phone numbers [and I realized how long it’s been since I’ve flirted with anyone!] but it’s not like I’m actually going to call and I’m sure he was just being polite


I don't even have any interest in kissing, fucking or dating any other guy. I thought I was getting over my ex but I guess I've still got some issues to deal with. ;) I mean asking someone out who you haven't spoken to just because they bear some resemblence to your ex is so lame. So so lame.
 
^^ Haha, that's really cool that you did that, girls never do that.

The fact you did it cos he looks like Louis... that's definitely a little bit twisted haha
 
<3

Originally posted by up all night
^ Are you serious? Because of the title of a thread? Does it really matter?

^Well, that and the fact it has ninety four pages. :|

-=Scoots out of thread=-
 
up all night said:
^ Are you serious? Because of the title of a thread? Does it really matter?
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YES!!

Lol ;) No I'm not that anal. But it is a pretty long damn thread.
It's be good to have a new one!

I mean asking someone out who you haven't spoken to just because they bear some resemblence to your ex is so lame. So so lame.
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Nah it's not too bad. You seem level-headed more then some in the fact that you know its not you. And the lame-o girl version would proceed to go out with said guy due to the resemblance to the ex ;)
 
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Originally posted by iamtha1
1234, are we allowed to do that? Can you please archive said 'Justified' thread? :D


threads are archived when they get to 5,000 posts :)

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yarni: you're crazy <3
 
up all night said:
I don't even have any interest in kissing, fucking or dating any other guy.
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all aboard the muffdiver express
TOOT TOOT chuggachuggachuggachugga TOOT TOOT
 
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