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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

yeah put me down for the singe who like to spoon group as well

nothing like a good snuggle

specialy in winter
 
up all night said:
Okay so maybe I'm turning small coincidences into something much more important [as I am apt to do] but he makes me smile... and that's what's important, right?
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Totally. :)

And to kill two birds with one stone, I'll answer the comments below up all night as well...yeah, spooning is da bomb. Sometimes that's all I want, and it's kind of difficult to organise when everyone I know on a more intimate level than "friend" is "fuckbuddy". :\ 8)
 
spooning, as nice as it is, sometimes shits me. that damn other arm!!!! seriously, anyone who has spooned with me has heard me bitch about how i want to cut one of my arms off... anyway...
 
I have been totally off sex lately. Don't want to play with my play mates anymore and can't be bothered meeting anyone new. i have decided that casual sex leaves me empty and is just not worth the effort so i'm not even going to bother with it anymore. it's way too much hassle anyway and i'm not having sex again unless it's with someone i actally care about and they care about me. Maybe i'm growing or something? who knows...
 
Fuck Yeah! - Sex is GOOD but I mean the complete constant randomness can be fucked after awhile. I think maybe your just maturing more doofer and looking for something more fulfilling. I mean, sex is good, great and wonderful, but I think at some stage you start certainly looking for more then just "sex"!

I'm not at that point yet! but everyones time will come *mwahaha*

Im still a playa!

shals :D
 
yeah i think sex with playmates etc (and not randoms, people i know etc) was ok for a while because i wasn't ready for anything more and just wanted to be sexually satisfied and wanted some attention and company i think without any commitments.

now though...it just doesn't feel right and i feel completley empty so wait wait wait i will do until it does feel right again.
 
thats a good point there harraser
the best solution I've found was to stick it down the gap between the mattress and the bed frame (for people who have a frame thingie). Sure, your arm freezes at night and it gets ravaged with splinters, but it makes it all so much more comfy.

Maybe amputation is an idea after all =\

sucky that i'm right handed and i prefer to lie on my right side

- moe
 
doofqueen said:
yeah i think sex with playmates etc (and not randoms, people i know etc) was ok for a while because i wasn't ready for anything more and just wanted to be sexually satisfied and wanted some attention and company i think without any commitments.

now though...it just doesn't feel right and i feel completley empty so wait wait wait i will do until it does feel right again.
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Yep doofer! And you will find what your looking for. I promise.

Life always brings you the most amazing things when you least expect them, or when your not looking for them. Time is all we have in this world. Tiktok, Tiktok!

shals :D
 
I was wondering how important is physical attraction to people???

You could say i'm still young and naive but i feel like there always has to be at least *some* sort of physical attraction there for things to be able to work..?

Also i've heard of people who will actually not go out with someone because they're not particularly attracted to the smell of the other persons natural B.O. This kinda seem absurd to me... but i once watched this doco on TV about male and female attraction and that liking the smell of your partner is important cos it means that your genes are a good match or something like that???
 
i enjoy being single too... ive been single for awhile.. starting to get used to it.. dunno if thats good or not though..
 
doofqueen said:
I have been totally off sex lately.
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Could be a seasonal thing. My libido has gone south for the winter as well.

Or is that just me taking way too many drugs lately... ;)

Oh well, it comes back... eventually.
 
Drugs can make ur doodle go small...

Papermate told me :D

shals :)
 
harraser
put the bottom arm between the sholder and pillow so that there head/neck rests on it and the top arm draped over the top of them

if you are both realy comfortabel with each other you can then hook the bottom arm up and place on the top breast and the top arm around to rest on the bottom breat
equily you can just drap teh top arm down to place on a breast and leave to bottom layed out or pull it up to hold onto there sholder
 
I'm with Shal on the whole spooning thing :D

Enjoy being single, but every now and then wouldn't mind a nice *pash* and a *snuggle* ;)
 
BopGirl said:
Enjoy being single, but every now and then wouldn't mind a nice *pash* and a *snuggle* ;)
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/me offers..... ;)

oh wait.. wrong thread.... ;)


hehe.. well, i may be officially out of this thread soon, but i aint gonna post details, cause every time i do, i seem to get flamed... :(
 
and the cuddle factor is the reason i sleep with my teddy :\

but i'll agree, sleeping next to someone all snuggled up is the greatest thing in the world (second to after sex sleep ;) )
 
I'm starting to feel like being unsingle. I like single life, but I like simple things. I like cuddles and spooing. I like doing fun, nice, normal, intimate things... I'm just unsure what I'm looking for in a person....

Or maybe I'm unsure about what I'm looking for in me...

I don't know. Life is very confusing...

shals :D

PS: I'm totally crazy for this amazing, beautiful, intelligent, divine, real, female I can't be with.. that the saddest part of the whole story. I guess something simply arnt meant to become. Life can be cruel... Though in entire honesty, I have never met anyone like her, and still I have all the time in the world for her... She just doesn't realise it...
 
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i'll second that completely.
i can even empathise with some of the things you wrote in you P.S. not to quite the same extent, but i know exactly what you mean, i've been there and it's not the nicest place to be.

shal, from the small amount of communication i've had with you, you seriously seem like such a great person, things will start rocking for you soon :)
 
Hehe. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels the fucked up feelings.

Thanks for the warm comments Astro *hugs*

Lifes just a journey, not a destination!

shals :D
 
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