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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

up all night said:
I bet it's magpi.
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i bet it's not.

i don't remember which thread but there was a post by some new person called doofking, if it's him, he must think he's in like flynn :p ;)

tell us doofie, we can all keep a secret =D
 
Well Magpi was either in sydney or down south this weekend so i think he can be safely ruled out..

Doofking might be it but maybe it's a coincidence too..
 
I'm in love... I just can't say with who! :)

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; I love you because I know, know other way than this: Where does not exist, nor You, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

And so comes the bad news.... she doesnt love me! :(

Oh well.... Lost causes happen all the time...

shals :)
 
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single but its justified for sure.

*no strings attached*
couldnt ask to be in a better situation right now
 
Necessary Existential Crisis Time

*sigh*

Is there anything wrong with WANTING to be single? I've been thinking about this...there's a guy I've been kind of serial fucking for the last month and a half (this is the closest I've had to a long-term relationship in the past 4 years, believe me). My problem is, as much as he's a cool guy and really switched on to it and cute and all that stuff (and the sex is REALLY GOOD, which I keep forgetting until we actually do it again), I don't want our relationship to progress any further. I like where we are at the moment, where we're basically fuck buddies (or I think the polite term is "friends with benefits"). BUT...I don't know if this is because I legitimately DO like where we are and where my life is, or because I'm scared to become the person I was last time I was in a relationship.

On one hand, I really do like being single, with the freedom that brings. On the other hand, I wonder if I'm just fooling myself thinking that, when it seems like the rest of the world is all about falling in luuuurv.

On the third hand, maybe I'm just analysing it all too much and need to just chill the fuck out.

Advise at will. 8)
 
hmmmm single is good. i met this boy im stoked on, thats always fun.. maybe i'll see him next week- what a hot body.. i wanna rip his clothes off everytime i see him, but yea who wants to commit..no point to being in any kind of stressful relationship..possibly could just be that i haven't had good experiences.. or that the nature of being in a relationship is stress... some light hearted soothing fun... in between the insanity of life is a great thing.
 
You can't describe perfection in words, you just need to see it for yourself... then you realise :) and it all makes sense...
 
Re: Necessary Existential Crisis Time

Raz said:
Is there anything wrong with WANTING to be single
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No. We are programmed from the day we are born to *want* to be in a monogamous relationship. We are told it's the thing that will make us feel complete.

...bullshit to that I say. I've seen too many things to take that as gospel any more.

I'm not saying that one can't be happy in a conventional relationship but life is more complex than this rabid meme makes it out to be.

*subversives* ;)
 
galintojoints said:
hmmmm single is good. i met this boy im stoked on, thats always fun.. maybe i'll see him next week- what a hot body.. i wanna rip his clothes off everytime i see him, but yea who wants to commit..no point to being in any kind of stressful relationship..possibly could just be that i haven't had good experiences.. or that the nature of being in a relationship is stress... some light hearted soothing fun... in between the insanity of life is a great thing.
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Yeah that's all well and good, but how will you feel if he doesn't commit and then goes and starts screwing other women?
 
^ I'll snuggle with you babe as long as you promise not to vomit on me. ;)

I've discovered my fatal flaw. I only like boys who are unreliable and yet I get pissed off when they're unreliable.
 
^
I like ambition girls, then get pissed off when they try and organise me and when all they talk about is work.:\
 
What the hell I'll jump in!

Two girls this year have given me the 'I don't want to hurt you by starting a relationship and breaking up with you' spiel, only last time I thought to say 'That's all well and good but I don't want a relationship, I just want another date with you.'

And sure enough it'll happen again many more times this year. Can't they just say I'm not their type or something?! :X

Speaking of which, I go to uni with a guy who just recently got married at 20. That's way too early, I foresee a messy divorce around when they're out of uni.
 
Um, I just realised that this whole thread is redundant. After all what are we doing but justifying ourselves for being single, no more posts from me in here as I don't need to justify myself...
 
hmm.... yeah. time to start a new singles thread.

perhaps it should be titled - bluelight singles - post here for a date. =D
 
^^^ - *Laughs* - Desperate and Dateless Bluelighters thread!

Hi My names Josh and I'm 21 from Sydney
I enjoy taking drugs, clubbing and surfing drug websites.
Are you the kandy girl for me?
Call me 555-6252.

shals :D
 
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