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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Shnouzerpuff said:
The trick is simply to find someone who you get along with as a friend - yet still want to see naked.
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Easier said than done,do they want to see you naked?
 
breakyaself said:
I am so horny all of the time. I really need to get into a relationship. I dont want an emotional one, just a sexual one. I really dont like being in relationships, I have no time for them. I do have one hour a day though that I need .. to be satisfied ;) however . I have no idea why I am so god damn toey all the time ! make it stop:X
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Fuck buddies ain't hard to find, especially if you're female ;) although if it's just going to be sex you need to have a really good sexual connection and one of you not fall for the other and it not be reciprocated otherwise that can just be emotional chaos 8o
 
AGGREEDD 100%. It is not just like you can pull someone to the side and have sex with them. There is a special kind of connection that is needed for a physical relationship. However, these relationships are always healthy, and can with time lead to deviation. Primarily because the focus is on personal gratification of the senses, which become de-sensitized and in order to get more out of the experience, you look for new and exciting ways to stimulate yourself.

I guess it really depends on your idea of deviation however. I believe a good friendship alongside a physical relationship is critical to keeping a physical relationship sustained.

The unfortunate this is, well, it is not really unfortunate, more intriguing than anything else, but people do change, and whether you are in an emotional or physical relationship, you move apart simply because your interests or needs differ to your partners. The great thing is though, that a strong love tends to be balanced and compromising on both sides. In which case there is not much fear experienced within the relationship.

So in conclusion, I would say that finding a good fuck buddy is as hard as finding a good friend. All it takes is the right type of mood and lighting. ;)

doofqueen said:
Fuck buddies ain't hard to find, especially if you're female ;) although if it's just going to be sex you need to have a really good sexual connection and one of you not fall for the other and it not be reciprocated otherwise that can just be emotional chaos 8o
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YAY! I have returned to this thread...actually to this forum....actually to the internet as a whole........why be with someone if you can't waste hours and hours of your weekend time trailling through the 20 or so internet forums you've signed up for....

....time to read back and see what Ive missed........
 
I met this chick last week and she seemed quite keen on seeing me again, although that was probably the drugs or something. Anyway, we agreed to do something this evening if she wasn't working. I couldn't get her on the phone last night but briefly spoke to her today. She was with what sounded like the same guy that was hitting on her last week. I overheard him ask who it was and I also overheard her say she didn't like me.

Now before this turns into a sob story over this incident, here's a bit more background information:

This guy had recently broken up with his girlfriend of over a year. He's been posting up some besmirching (wow, never thought I'd use that word) remarks about her on a certain rave forum and it all came down to them both accusing each other of cheating. He's being a real dick about it.

This girl is rather disliked, hated even, on said forum by all the other girls. She was also 'between homes' when I met her. There's probably a hell of a lot of other stuff but I don't care to post it. Basically, she's nuts. Possibly psychotic.

If my hunch is right, they fucking deserve each other. No skin off my back.

As for me, I think I've resolved more clearly what it is I want from a partner in light of last week's transpirings. I need someone who is my intellectual equal and who shares the same interests as me. Sounds simple, but it's fucking hard to find someone like that in my social circles and I'm sick of lowering my standards like this.

*sigh* It's been a bad week. :(
 
I think working out who you don't need in your life is actually a sign of a good week.

I know where you're coming from though. She sounds like a bitch. Send her some Tena pads as advertised by McWigga.
 
I think I would rather be single than waiting around for my ISBC to come and visit for one week out of every four.

But hes great, too good to give up on, just because I am a horny motherfucker.

GAH!

I think its true when they say womens sex drives go through the roof at around the 30 mark, in my experience anyway its true.

Is it true that its all downhill for the menfolk after their peak at around 18? I bloody hope not...
 
hmm im over being single ..... its so strange ..... i used to be so confident in myself and lately ..... well im just not anymore :(
 
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