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Originally posted by Russ:
What, you mean more women voice their opinion that there is no decent guys left than guys saying there is no decent girls left?
yes that's what i meant... i havent heard any men complain about the lack of decent women. for a while, women were also guilty of sprouting the cliche that goes something like "the only good men are married or gay"
I think guys are more inclined to not compromise when it comes to relationships. And are happy to just wait for that someone special come along.
that is debatable... one can also say that men are less discerning, hence, they never complain about the lack of decent women, cos there is no lack in their eyes ;) :D
Women find a guy that is not quite right, and then try to change him. But that hardly ever happens.
whoa... i think some of the more opiniated female regulars of this thread would have something to say about that ;)
so is it true? do more women try to change their partners, than men? are men more laidback and ready to accept the whole package, the good and the bad?
(hopes he hasnt started a gender war)
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so is it true? do more women try to change their partners, than men? are men more laidback and ready to accept the whole package, the good and the bad?
I've had a few guys try to change me, but I've also had a fair few say to me that they like me just the way I am.
I wouldn't base that on gender though. I'd rather base it all on the person........
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What pisses me off about a lot of women, is that they complain that there is no decent guys left anymore.
If you want to meet a really nice guy then stop dating good looking ass holes.
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Originally posted by vurtomatic:
whoa... i think some of the more opiniated female regulars of this thread would have something to say about that ;)
Who might you be referring to there vurt?? ;) I can't really comment though. I haven't met a boy to try and change him. Though I'd like to think I'd accept a boy warts and all. Changing doesn't work, and going into a relationship hoping to change them doesn't work either.
that is debatable... one can also say that men are less discerning, hence, they never complain about the lack of decent women, cos there is no lack in their eyes
I think this is more the reality. Though my problem is not so much about being picky, as just not meeting available men at the right time (ie when they're ready for a relationship). I stand by the fact that all the good ones (at my age anyway) are either taken or gay. It may sound cliched but it's damn true. Cause all the boys I meet who I think would be possibilities are either already living with their girlfriend or gay.
so is it true? do more women try to change their partners, than men? are men more laidback and ready to accept the whole package, the good and the bad?
I think as long as the boy's getting sex he's not all that fussed ;) lol I'm kidding!!
Seriously though I totally agree that in general men are more laidback and are more accepting of faults in their partner. I'd like to hope I'll be like that with my future boy but sometimes I can't help being a stereotypical girl. :\
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Seriously though I totally agree that in general men are more laidback and are more accepting of faults in their partner. I'd like to hope I'll be like that with my future boy but sometimes I can't help being a stereotypical girl.
No you were right the first time. As long as we get sex we're happy. Us men are simple creatures. But a beer won't go too far to say.
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ohh poor wombat, you never know anita might come back into your life again. dont worry dude theres a Mrs Wombat out there for you, so you can dance like teapots together!
 
*pictures baby wombats running round everywhere*
awwwwwwwww the cuteness is making me feel sick!!
i think everyone should stop worrying about being single and relationships, they will come eventually and its the ones that come along when you least expect it, and are not trying that are ofen the best!!
that being said, i think we should have more single meet ups, if not for anything else but mass bluelight orgies!!! ;)
 
I've had a few guys try to change me, but I've also had a fair few say to me that they like me just the way I am.
hmmm decisions!!!! to change or to like? how about changing into just the way we like you? *cough*
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I agree with Miss Mist. SDB needs to revise his joke book. A random unexpected ice pick stabbing is only good for a few posts. Once all the mainstream killers start using ice picks it begins to loose its charm. You need to mix it up bruva.
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The problem with many women I know or have known is that they consider themselves to be perfect and men to have too many faults.Hence the statement of "there are no decent men left".
When the reality is EVERYONE ("Including myself of course") has faults.Sadly,women I know consider themselves to be perfect when in reality they are far from it.
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When the reality is EVERYONE ("Including myself of course") has faults.
Woah, lets not go nuts. Some of us are perfect. Just joking. If I was perfect do you think this arm would be growing out of my butt?
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Man how often can you guys make sweeping generalisations about the opposite sex?
All this guys suck, girls suck is really getting on my nerves. Guys are nasty and you know what girls are too, HUMANS are nasty, all you can do is hope to find someone who appeals to you and is willing to put up with you.
 
If that last post was directed at me, your off base because I said 'many' women I've met,women I know.Of course I realise all women ain't like this, I was just giving an example of how SOME I know act and carry on.
So,calm down :)
 
no it was not directed at you, it was directed at every person who says "guys suck" or "girls suck" which is a recurring theme in this thread.
heh i really should have "this is not directed at anyone in particular" as part of my sig or something.
 
Kitty, it is not a sweeping generalisation, it is an observation which I think most people have made. I thought we could discuss it, and get to some of the reasons people think like this.
Maybe that is just asking to much?
 
Originally posted by doon:
ahhhh 4:30 in the afternoon and i am drinking beer!!
any one want to join me???
I'll have a beer with you :)
Yes...this is one of the advantages of being single, being able to do what you want when you want without having someone close to you make you feel bad about it - of course you also then miss out on having someone close share all the other stuff as well.
I think the trick is being able to balance being considerate of the other person without simply giving in to every request and demand. It's been my experience just recently that it you do let a girl 'walk all over you' they soon loose all respect for you, while you continue obliviously thinking that you are being a nice guy.
Why did I always give in? Because I thought that if I didn't then my gf wouldn't like me and she'd eventually leave. Funny thing is I got so sick of being nagged about every little thing (it seems the more you give in the more you cop), and even more sick of the fact that I was giving in all the time, than eventually I was the one who left! So I'm single again, but hopefully a little wiser...
Originally posted by Sllip:

If you want to meet a really nice guy then stop dating good looking ass holes.
Reminds me of the Nice guys thread...Don't want to go there again ;)
If I've learnt anything it's that you have to be confident in who you are, without being arrogant about it, and also be willing to change things if they are good for you, and not just because they are good for your partner.
There will always be people who will like who - the hard part is getting into an environment where you can meet them! And of course having the balls to do something when you do find someone :)
Originally posted by miss apple:

I stand by the fact that all the good ones (at my age anyway) are either taken or gay.
If I had the traits of the typical Oxford st gay boy, being straight, I'd probably be taken too! I take it you are looking for a considerate good looking boy with a good sense of style and a hot bod too? ;) (sorry, couldn't resist!)
hux.
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Originally posted by huxley:
I take it you are looking for a considerate good looking boy with a good sense of style and a hot bod too?
you got it in one.
actually, no, the hot bod doesn't matter. just a considerate, confident, intelligent boy who cares about how they look, who loves music, and who likes me as much as I like them is all I ask. Oh and they have to be taller than me. but that's it! you wouldn't think it'd be that hard would you?
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When people have a criteria for their perfect (or even not so perfect) partner, they'll never find what they're looking for.
I thought the aim of the game was to find someone who makes you happy? Pardon my ignorance if the rules have changed all of a sudden.
Most people find what they're looking for in the most unlikely of packages.
 
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