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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

*hugz* and flowers and *kisses* to you all.
Don't let this day get you down too much, it'll pass.
"All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope all the while wondering if somewhere and somehow there is someone searching for us."
- Kevin Arnold, 'The Wonder Years'
...there is. So stop stressing.
Have a great day singelettes.
 
Just a question. Do you think going out tonight would result in meeting lots of single people?
Because I think anyone in a relationship will be doing the romantic thing.
So, the whole city will be just one big singles bar.
Well, I hope so.
 
someone please stop me from ringing any of my exes and ex fuck buddies today ...ive quit smoking and i need sex and its valentines day :(
 
The only thing I like about this day is that's close to my birthday.My birthday's tomorrow(15/2) :) :) :)
 
Fuck this.
Thanks to corporations such as Hallmark that make it seem necessary to "celebrate" days such as Valentine's Day, I feel like total shit today.
I'm still one of the longest stalwarts of this thread and it's subsequent incarnations, and I used to think I didn't really care. I thought that I felt fine about not having a special someone, and I also thought that by surrounding myself with exceptional friends, that it wouldn't matter.
I was so wrong.
This day exists purely to make money for companies, and to make those that aren't of the norm (ie, that aren't with a partner) feel worthless and not good enough.
Thanks Hallmark.
 
^^^^^ that link was sent to me by my closest male friend
bastard LOL
I'm so indifferent to valentine's day. Sure it's a hallmark occasion but if you don't spend any money what's the big deal.
Couples can have a picnic on the beach (even though they could do this any time of the year....it seems a bit silly for couples to do anything for valentines day). Singles can send valentines emails to a secret admirer, or go and snog someone in a bar using valentines as an excuse.
If you can forget about the americanism of it and just have a bit of fun then there's no problem.
I'm going to be getting my valentine's snogs tonight if it's the last thing I do ;)
 
Originally posted by Dante:
This day exists purely to make money for companies, and to make those that aren't of the norm (ie, that aren't with a partner) feel worthless and not good enough.
I understand where you're coming from Dante. I really do. But try looking at it as a day to celebrate being single.....to use it as a reason to go and talk to a girl or randomly snog someone or send someone you've been liking for a while a silly card or something. it's less embarrassing than at any other time and carries less risk....and you never know what might come of it.
If anything, I think valentines was made for singles...not for couples. Switch your thinking around and you won't feel 'worthless and not good enough'. cause although I understand where you're coming from, that's not a happy, or a healthy way to view it :(
And I strongly detest the money making aspects of the day as well. But we're stuck with it...so you may as well have a bit of fun with it.
[ 14 February 2003: Message edited by: miss apple ]
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Originally posted by miss apple:
I understand where you're coming from Dante. I really do. But try looking at it as a day to celebrate being single.....to use it as a reason to go and talk to a girl or randomly snog someone or send someone you've been liking for a while a silly card or something. it's less embarrassing than at any other time and carries less risk....and you never know what might come of it.

I've never been the kind of person in any way, shape or form to do anything like this... it's not just me. If I could just go up to someone and start randomly talking about nothing in particular, then I'm pretty sure that I would be doing so by now.
And celebrate being single? Yeah, fair enough, you don't have all of the "strings attached", but how is that better? It's nice to be able to be sitting around and realise that you've got commitments due to someone that cares about you...
I've kept all this quiet for however long now, and I'm just fed up. Thanks yet again Valentine's Day.
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dante: i know exactly what you mean. (or at least i think i do). there's no way that i can just go and chat to some random girl...it's just not something that i'm able to do. and a random snog, uh uh...i wish :)
the thing is, if i did have this talent, and i think this is what you were saying too, i most likely wouldn't be in this thread. seriously...i think there's a definite *three* categories of people in this thread (looking back at all the previous comments, i think it's pretty easy to sort) - those people who may or may not enjoy being single, but are still single by choice; those who are single because they haven't found someone that they have any strong sort of feelings for; and (and i suspect dante's in this group...and i *definitely* am) those who hate it, are looking, and just aren't being *found*.
i know this sounds like a total whinge..i guess it is, but i'm not *blaming* anyone! my lack of confidence is no one's fault but my own, but i'm just kinda saying...it sucks :(
</rant> :)
 
Originally posted by onetwothreefour:
dante: i know exactly what you mean. (or at least i think i do). there's no way that i can just go and chat to some random girl...it's just not something that i'm able to do. and a random snog, uh uh...i wish :)

you guys all need to drink more alcohol ;)
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Originally posted by onetwothreefour:
and (and i suspect dante's in this group...and i *definitely* am) those who hate it, are looking, and just aren't being *found*.
Yer, as much as you say you aren't looking for someone, you've always got your eyes open and scanning...
It's all about the companionship IMHO. Fair enough, people can have relationships that might be pretty heavily based on sex, and how good each other can make the other feel... But for me, it's about the comfortable friend. Having someone that you can wake up with, look at, smile, and go back to sleep. Someone you can sit around with and just be content. Someone that you can call your best friend.
And while you are single, it's somewhat hard to have that. :(
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/\ /\ yous are RUDE! :D
huge huggles for Dante
and a red rose for all of you! Mwah!
****edit****
just got 6 red roses delivered to ma house... for my sister (bitch!)
[ 14 February 2003: Message edited by: belisimo ]
 
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