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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

[EDIT - Whole post edited as it would make it unfair to all otehr male members of society - Kitty]
[ 11 February 2003: Message edited by: SupaDiscoBreaka ]
 
edited cause i can't believe i gave SDB the satisfaction of biting :(
[ 11 February 2003: Message edited by: PsychoKitten ]
 
well don't I wish I was reading BL last night LOL!!
go get a room you two
hux...I'll be at tech:lucid and sweetchilli as well. well, my body will be at sweetchilli, can't say my mind will be anywhere in the vicinity ;)
 
Hey well done hux :) I know that feeling... but once the phone starts ringing, you know you can't chicken out so the rest will just play itself out. Hope it goes well.
How's this for a first date. Friday night, I'm meeting her at a peace rally in the city after work... then we're going back to my place to drop a pill together. This is *her* idea funnily enough... well considering we met at the biggest gay and lesbian dance party of the year I guess nothing else can seem all that strange. Never dropped at home before so should be interesting regardless.
 
Originally posted by miss apple:
hux...I'll be at tech:lucid and sweetchilli as well. well, my body will be at sweetchilli, can't say my mind will be anywhere in the vicinity ;)
did you forget I was stalking you :D 'course I have valid excuses, best friend is a tecnho freak, and I love prog, so it's all just a coincidence ;) It's going to be a messy weekend - hope I don't talk too much shit...
Originally posted by hoptis:
How's this for a first date. Friday night, I'm meeting her at a peace rally in the city after work... then we're going back to my place to drop a pill together. This is *her* idea funnily enough... well considering we met at the biggest gay and lesbian dance party of the year I guess nothing else can seem all that strange. Never dropped at home before so should be interesting regardless.
Got a feeling that this is one first date that is going to go very well! Did you meet at Red Raw? My first ever dance party was one of the NYE parties at the docks in melb - have also been to Winterdaze and Resurrection (my sis in melb has a lot of gay friends)
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wow look how big this thread is already and i dont think i have even posted in it!!
not that i ever really post anything of significance :)
i met up with a girl on the weekend that i had met about a month ago and hung out etc went out drinking and stuff, we really hit it off, but the one problem was that she was (for want of a better word) a goody two shoes i.e. never touched drugs etc
me being in a nice drunken mood thought fuck it, if she wants to accept me for who i am then why not just tell her, so i did, she didnt seem to mind, but from the brief rolling of her eyes, i knew that she didnt really approve
and therein lies the problem, because i dont think i could ever be with someone who doesnt have the same interests (habits ;) )or who doesnt approve of them, and i sure as shit aint going to change my ways for someone
so this brings me to a question - do you think this is why alot of us are single?
we are to incompatable with most of society?
see the problem is i dont really ever meet people at raves, well meet them in that sense, so then most of the people i meet in that capacity arent into the scene like me
i think we should have more bluelight singles meet ups!! :) since there are so many of us desperate and dateless people!
 
The problem is when you meet people at Raves, you are not in the mind set to "Pick up". I am not interested in picking up someone, as I am just there to have a great time with my mates and fellow randoms.
But, when you go drinking, anything can happen. The fact that you sometimes regret it in the morning is besides the point.
And yif you find someone when you are out on a drunken binge, the odds are that the person you just pashed on the disco floor listening to Barnsey, doesn't take drugs.
But to your question. I don't know why we are all single.
 
chances are if you pashed someone and barnsey was playing, she is most likely gonna be a someone who is wearing acid wash jeans and a flanny, you would never want to remember that :P
and i realsie that you are not in the mind set to pick up at raves, i dont think i have ever had any intentions or urges to do that at a rave, just doesnt feel right somehow!
 
dOOn: I've know that fact that I'm incompatible a giant section of society for a long time. I started that thinking when I figured out there is pretty much only 2 pubs in the city that I actually like the people in. It's even gotten to the point that I find pretty girls unnatractive if it even looks like they are goody 2 shoes.
*sigh*
such is lif(sic)
 
Originally posted by huxley:
Got a feeling that this is one first date that is going to go very well! Did you meet at Red Raw?
Hyuk, hyuk... yesh indeed. *EVIL GRIN*. Might consider Resurrection too... if nothing else is on Easter.
As for meeting girls/guys that don't do drugs. I think it's quite obvious that our recreational use of pharamaceuticals is a very big barrier. Ever see a pretty girl at a park or down at the bus stop and think... gee... I'd like to talk to her... but then think, nah, she probably thinks I'm a drug addict. *sniff* <= (leaky nose from all those lines)
I know lots of couples though where one wasn't into drugs before they met their partner, so as long as they're open minded and you can make them understand what it is you see in the scene/pills I don't think it's impossible. Even better, if they're interested you can probably convert them and then they'll start doing it every weekend and before you know it, she'll run off with some cute, young boy she met at Kandy who wears phat pants and a Pikachu backpack.
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Originally posted by doon:
so this brings me to a question - do you think this is why alot of us are single?
we are to incompatable with most of society?
my last gf had a bit of an issue with my consumption of illicit substances, was always on about how it had to be the right situation, and shouldn't be excessive, etc, etc - but I think that was more that she was a control freak more than anything.
I'm usually pretty responsible with that sort of thing anyway (with the odd binge), and so I don't really care what someone else thinks - take it or leave it. But I do think that in a relationship you have to be on some sort of level playing field, you can't have one person doing, or wanting to do, excessively more than the other.
I have a bad habit (or good depending on how you look at it) of giving away pills when I'm out and meet someone, so I figure out pretty quickly where they stand on the issue. Usually after a about 10 minutes of chatting I'll say 'so, do you do pills?' , and if they say "no" or "not really" then that's cool. If they say yes then it's "here, eat this" :D pretty easy way to make friends :) (disclaimer: they are always tested, and I would never give one to someone who did not say an adamant yes, would not risk someone who is a newbie).
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^^^ So your explosively rich or a dealer then? :P
Sorry couldnt resist.
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Being single doesnt suck, its just being single. Alternatively its starting to shit me right up that I dont have anyone to keep me warm or cuddle up to whilst I'm watching the tv though :)
Valentines day just around the bend sigh :P
I really have met about 5 of the loveliest girls in the last week, simply by saying 'Hi' when I was errr... on the train, buying a potato cake, sitting in the park, in the newsagent, at the video store.
Granted I didnt ask if any of them wanted my number or to 'come back to my place luv' - the point was just that 100% of my greetings were answered.
Were just people, next time you see someone you like, smile, say "Hi im <name>" and hold out your hand. Works wonders :P
 
Originally posted by huxley:
I have a bad habit (or good depending on how you look at it) of giving away pills when I'm out and meet someone
When I'm out I have a No-Free-Pills policy when it comes to girls, just my way of making sure I'm not buying someone's company. I'm partial to buying a drink or shouting a line to friends, but never to girls I've just met. The way I see it, I'd rather be sure they're interested in me and not what I can give them. Especially having watched my friends get used like spanners before.
Oh and get this, I got stood up for tomorrow night. :( She has a family commitment...
waaaaaahhhh!!!!
*sad*
*cries*
*shuffles*
*moves on to the next girl*
:D
...my friend wants me to go to a club. Don't think so, any other night, sure, but not tomorrow night.
Valentines Day twelve months ago I was very, very happily in love... in fact this time last year I told a girl I loved her for the first time in my life. Since that all went to shit I've been partying like it's 1999, partly cause I want to have some fun, but also partly so I don't have to slow down and think about what I lost, but tomorrow is one night I don't think being off my head in a club will do. Neither will picking up.
*gets out address book*
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FB1: Happy birthday man... you and my brother share the day (14/02) i believe... hope it was a good one...
Doofster: I agree completely with you - i have very cler ideas about what i find attractive and what i do not, but more often than not if i cannot see beauty in a person's personality, then i could never consider being with them. Example: I met a really nice looking guy the other day and was talking to him. The more i spoke to him, the less attracted to him i became because i couldn't see any sort of beauty in what he was saying...
SDB: I relate to what you're saying about the "goody-two-shoes" thing - I've come to realise that i would much prefer to be with someone who was a little less than conventional; someone who thinks about things and questions stuff, rather than just going along with whatever they're told...
I was at a friend's house the other night and when we came to go to sleep we were just lying in her bed. It'd been a bit of a long day and i had been thinging a helluva lot. I felt like i really needed a hug, and so asked for one. When she hugged me, i just burst into tears - i don't know why, but i think it could have been a culmination of events transpiring in the last month. It helped me to get over the fact that i am single, and get on with stuff.
As FJ said, i would love to pretend that i revel in my singularity, but in all honesty i must admit that i would love to be able to wake up to someone in the morning.
 
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