belisimo
Bluelighter
And Nate it's not usually the car that pulls the chiks (i'd never go 4 a shithouse commodore), it's how well they *play the game*. 
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doofqueen
Bluelighter
so does anyone wanna play a game with me?
i understand y i have alot of guy friends now..im ugly
lol
i understand y i have alot of guy friends now..im ugly
lol
Fetish Jester
Bluelighter
Okay, here is a strange observation that I had after meeting even more Bluelighters in the not to distant past.
Of all those BLer's I've met and who are single, I really found it surprising that they are. Single that is.
I mean, I'm talking about above average looking people, capable of intelligent conversation who are all in all nice people, yet for some strange reason... we're all fucking single.
I mean I just find it strange...
I like to live the lie that I'm single by choice, but the truth is a much more interesting story.
Of all those BLer's I've met and who are single, I really found it surprising that they are. Single that is.
I mean, I'm talking about above average looking people, capable of intelligent conversation who are all in all nice people, yet for some strange reason... we're all fucking single.
I mean I just find it strange...
I like to live the lie that I'm single by choice, but the truth is a much more interesting story.
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
it's okay oopsz, i'm ugly too. hang on, no it's not. you're right, it sucks
doofqueen
Bluelighter
i dont care how cliched it is but i truly believe that beauty come from within...sure we have our preferences when it comes to looks but really its just the wrapping...id rather the present myself 
miss apple
Bluelighter
the quote from When Harry Met Sally is one of my favourite quotes ever. it's so true.
However men and women can be friends without the sex part getting in the way if the guy has a girlfriend. Then, even if he lusts after the friend, it's OK cause nothing will happen because he's in a relationship. He can deal with his lusty thoughts cause he's getting sex from somewhere else.
The friend on the other hand gets an awesome friend and no sex.
hmmm...who decided this was a good theory?
However men and women can be friends without the sex part getting in the way if the guy has a girlfriend. Then, even if he lusts after the friend, it's OK cause nothing will happen because he's in a relationship. He can deal with his lusty thoughts cause he's getting sex from somewhere else.
The friend on the other hand gets an awesome friend and no sex.
hmmm...who decided this was a good theory?
huxley
Bluelighter
Originally posted by hoptis:
Nothing just happens buddy, you have to make it happen. If you want something to develop, you have to actually make a move, or else she'll just think you're gay or really friendly but not interested.
Yea, I've been guilty of this far too many times in the past, but this time around I did make a move (though probably far too late), but unfortunately by the time I'd made it from her neck to her mouth she'd already said "I don't want to do this". Now of course if I was on the ball I would have asked "you don't want to now, or you don't want to ever?" Now I've got to give it one more try to find out the answer.
The rest of your post is damned good advice hoptis
She's probably writing on some message board right now something like
Even though it's very unlikely, it actually freaked me a bit thinking that one day I might be telling a story like this, and another bluelighter will be reading it and think "shit, that's me he's talking about!"It's wierd enough when you've been flirting with bl's you know of already, and finally meet in person
belisimo
Bluelighter
Back to the topics of ugliness and assholes.
I dont even go for hot guys they just have to be an asshole. The problem with me is i can't tell the difference between a nice guy and an asshole until it's too late. This is why I remain single. I have it all figured out now.
How did the call go hux?
I dont even go for hot guys they just have to be an asshole. The problem with me is i can't tell the difference between a nice guy and an asshole until it's too late. This is why I remain single. I have it all figured out now.
How did the call go hux?
Good work hux, let us know how it goes!
BTW, how did her neck taste you sly bastard? :D Hehehehehe...
nate: everything you said is pretty accurate, my only answer is, IT is not sexy!!! Computer geeks NEVER get the girl!!! J/K... well a bit anyway. I think it might seem like your loser high school mates pull all the chicks, but they pull particularly types of chicks. The type who want a boyfriend who tinkers with their car all day.
I'm not entirely of the opinion that all girls go for assholes. Certianly a majority of girls can be like that, but it depends where you look, if you look at clubs for example than certainly, but even there: the older women get, the more experience they've had with men and the more mature they are, the less inclined they are to go for the knob with the fast car and shit attitude.
I think a growing pain for most young women is to learn to pick the assholes from the nice guys after they decide they've been fucked around by enough. It's a matter of developing a better bullshit detector and being able to spot when a guy is after Just One Thing.
Good day peoples.
BTW, how did her neck taste you sly bastard? :D Hehehehehe...
nate: everything you said is pretty accurate, my only answer is, IT is not sexy!!! Computer geeks NEVER get the girl!!! J/K... well a bit anyway. I think it might seem like your loser high school mates pull all the chicks, but they pull particularly types of chicks. The type who want a boyfriend who tinkers with their car all day.
I'm not entirely of the opinion that all girls go for assholes. Certianly a majority of girls can be like that, but it depends where you look, if you look at clubs for example than certainly, but even there: the older women get, the more experience they've had with men and the more mature they are, the less inclined they are to go for the knob with the fast car and shit attitude.
I think a growing pain for most young women is to learn to pick the assholes from the nice guys after they decide they've been fucked around by enough. It's a matter of developing a better bullshit detector and being able to spot when a guy is after Just One Thing.
Good day peoples.
Russ
Bluelighter
I agree with Hoptis. Nate, your mates maybe pulling chicks, but are they really the type of girls you would want anyway?
What sort of girl lets themselves be treated bad, gets knocked up and made to have an abortion? Not the type of girl I am sure someone like yourself would be interested in anyway.
You need to find a smart girl. Someone that won't jump into bed with you on the first night, that also has a good job and thinks like you do.
Then you will have a great relationship. You can have good discussions about relevant topics in todays society. Someone that stimulates you. Someone that you really enjoy being around.
And these girls your mates get with just wouldn't do that.
(Some action would be great though)
What sort of girl lets themselves be treated bad, gets knocked up and made to have an abortion? Not the type of girl I am sure someone like yourself would be interested in anyway.
You need to find a smart girl. Someone that won't jump into bed with you on the first night, that also has a good job and thinks like you do.
Then you will have a great relationship. You can have good discussions about relevant topics in todays society. Someone that stimulates you. Someone that you really enjoy being around.
And these girls your mates get with just wouldn't do that.
(Some action would be great though)
punch e punch
Bluelighter
^^Right on, Russ!
Hey Belismo, what exactly is a "nice guy"? What is the defintition these days? I mean, I've watched that show 'Ed', but I still can't really figure it out.
If the definition of a "nice guy" is a man who is somewhat humbled because he doesn't get enough sex, then call me Mr Nice Guy
Hey Belismo, what exactly is a "nice guy"? What is the defintition these days? I mean, I've watched that show 'Ed', but I still can't really figure it out.
If the definition of a "nice guy" is a man who is somewhat humbled because he doesn't get enough sex, then call me Mr Nice Guy
doofqueen
Bluelighter
Originally posted by Oopsz:
The question I pose to you, then, is who opens the present with unappealing wrapping? its all abouyt perception of whats unapealing....one person may find ur wrapping gorgeous while another doesnt....i find that the present inside makes the wrapping beautiful
why isnt anyone flirting with me? *pout*
hehehehehe
belisimo
Bluelighter
doofqueen i'm flirting with you
punch - i don't really know what a nice guy is, guess its just having respect for women. but i know what an unnice guy is because i was in an abusive relationship for a year. we stayed together that long because we still had alot of fun. but i'm not saying anyone should do that... it's still bad for the soul.
They say best men are moulded out of faults, And, for the most, become much more the better For being a little bad
- SHAKESPEARE
punch - i don't really know what a nice guy is, guess its just having respect for women. but i know what an unnice guy is because i was in an abusive relationship for a year. we stayed together that long because we still had alot of fun. but i'm not saying anyone should do that... it's still bad for the soul.
They say best men are moulded out of faults, And, for the most, become much more the better For being a little bad
- SHAKESPEARE
You are asking questions to which there are no answers. If there was a answer, the question could not exist. Who knows why people act like they do? We all act the same, thats what makes us different.
Reflecting back on my childhood I remember a all too common phrase "enjoy these years while you can". As a nine year old boy I had no clue as to what the meaning behind this was. Today I finally understand. Its the chant of the unfulfilled dream, of a life taken for granted, it is regret.
I am 20 years old in three days, life is no better or worse than when I was nine. But I can say with confidence that I have no regrets. I have pity on those who say ones childhood years are the most valuable. They are children lost in the dance of life.
I'm unsure of what I am trying to say here. Perhaps you should take a chance in life, perhaps life is more than a wife and kids, being single, owning a house or being happy. Perhaps my self indulgence has gone far enough.
Wherd up to the singles crew.
Reflecting back on my childhood I remember a all too common phrase "enjoy these years while you can". As a nine year old boy I had no clue as to what the meaning behind this was. Today I finally understand. Its the chant of the unfulfilled dream, of a life taken for granted, it is regret.
I am 20 years old in three days, life is no better or worse than when I was nine. But I can say with confidence that I have no regrets. I have pity on those who say ones childhood years are the most valuable. They are children lost in the dance of life.
I'm unsure of what I am trying to say here. Perhaps you should take a chance in life, perhaps life is more than a wife and kids, being single, owning a house or being happy. Perhaps my self indulgence has gone far enough.
Wherd up to the singles crew.
Mean Girl
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Sign me up fb1, I'm joining the singles crew.
And sure, the basic 'enjoy the time while you can' was certainly told to me in my childhood as well, from those people who did indeed regret lost opportunities in their own youth.
Nobody listens to it as a child. You don't comprehend the message, all you hear is the whining tone. So the vicious cycle continues, in which everyone wishes they had made the most of their childhood and didn't, and just pass the message onto their offspring.
Maybe it is for the better? Being older and finally grasping what the elders are trying to say means that you can begin to make the most of your time, because you learn from your own youthful mistake...
And sure, the basic 'enjoy the time while you can' was certainly told to me in my childhood as well, from those people who did indeed regret lost opportunities in their own youth.
Nobody listens to it as a child. You don't comprehend the message, all you hear is the whining tone. So the vicious cycle continues, in which everyone wishes they had made the most of their childhood and didn't, and just pass the message onto their offspring.
Maybe it is for the better? Being older and finally grasping what the elders are trying to say means that you can begin to make the most of your time, because you learn from your own youthful mistake...
huxley
Bluelighter
Originally posted by belisimo:
How did the call go hux?
So now for the next chapter of my never ending and amusing single love life...
Well, I nearly chickened out on the phone call - why is it so damned hard to make a simple phone call to a stranger?? Thank god for sms and email - imagine life if we always had to communicate in person
Remember how you used to have friends who would dial a phone number of someone you liked, without you noticing, and before you had time to run away would thrust the phone at you just as they answered?! Well, i still play that game with myself, and so I dialled her number and once it started ringing it was too late...
Of course she was busy having dinner with friends, and said she'd call me back - but what the hell, I did it! So now there's been an sms, and actual voice to voice phone call, so now I think I can take the easy road and send an email tomorrow
Not that I mind too much...it's my birthday this sunday, my best mate us up from Melbourne, got a huge weekend planned - tech.lucid at the dendy friday, sweetchilli sat, maybe halfway house sun, and then the day off work monday - and I might even get to meet miss apple along the way
hux.
doofqueen
Bluelighter
Originally posted by belisimo:
doofqueen i'm flirting with you
punch - i don't really know what a nice guy is, guess its just having respect for women. but i know what an unnice guy is because i was in an abusive relationship for a year. we stayed together that long because we still had alot of fun. but i'm not saying anyone should do that... it's still bad for the soul.
They say best men are moulded out of faults, And, for the most, become much more the better For being a little bad
- SHAKESPEARE
its about time this hippy got some action round here, cheers bels
i also know the definition of an arsehole as my last long term relationship was the perfect example of one...no one plans on being used and abused...mine got out of habbit and turned into this whole mind control thing and he made me feel like i was lucky cos he loved me..well i dont want that sort of love thanks
a definition of a nice guy to me is just someone who teats me and others with respect...thats enough 4 me
SupaDiscoBreaka
Bluelighter
miss apple: I never said it was a good theory. I said it alluded to the fact that it was an accurate theory.
Fetish: I've noticed that a lot of attractive BLers are single too. And all the female BLers should call me on XxXx XxXxXx.
[EDIT - Number removed because we don't want to bring the entire telecommunications system down with the number of calls - Kitty]
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Indy! They're digging in the wrong place!
Fetish: I've noticed that a lot of attractive BLers are single too. And all the female BLers should call me on XxXx XxXxXx.
[EDIT - Number removed because we don't want to bring the entire telecommunications system down with the number of calls - Kitty]
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Indy! They're digging in the wrong place!