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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

see i agree with you queen beat but what happens when your all over him and he is still hooked to you and when ever your out with the new boy.. he gets Psychotic, and just followz you around all the time telling you he loves you and your meant to be???!!!!!!!
I mean you cant help the fact that he isnt over you...some people need a big push...(or a BOOT up the ass) Im tryn to get on with my life and forget how horrible he was to e... but he is the one like.....stalking me......... i just dont know what to do........ :(
 
I hate being single. I just broke up with my gf of 25 months 3 weeks ago, AND SHE HAS A NEW BF ALREADY! and im stuck all alone :(
Im missing all the nice times on the couch, cuddling up, sharing pizza and watching a movie.
I think i need to get out more
where can i get one of these fleshlights?
 
ok.. here goes.. *deep breath*
*dicey takes the pictures down from the wall and puts it deep inside the photo albums
it took me seven months and i've finally done it... took me long enough!
after a couple of times going out ending up in disastrous tears for absolutely no reason other than that.. ALCOHOL IS BAD! oh and its time to take those damned photos down, stop the reminiscing and move on with a deep breath and a huge smile..
i'm going to have a good day tomorrow :)
apollo : and i have great loving friends, because they love me! warts and all :)
 
Originally posted by Queen Beat:
One of the worst things about the post break-up period is watching your former boyfriend/ girlfriend start dating again. It hurts so much to think that your ex may start saying things to someone else which they once said to you only. The idea of them making plans wuth someone else and falling in love again is sometimes too much to bear. I do honestly want him to be happy but the selfish side of me wishes he wouldn't find his happiness with another girl. I guess it's all just another step towards moving on and getting on with life.

*sigh* fuck this shit. reading this made me cry cos i know exactly where you are and what its like to have a selfish ex who wont even talk to you. fucking throwing away an awesome frienship. *double sigh*
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Only two words of advice for you people, actually wait, I'll raise you to three. Are you ready for this, because its going to be harsh as a motherfucker.
FUCKING DROP IT
Yeah, that's right its that fucking simple. Its not ever JUST about someone else, remember it takes two to fucking tango, not necessarily an absolute truth, but there's always a certain extent to how YOU react to shit, and how that affects the outcome.
Now I'll admit as much as anyone its PAIN to see someone you invested feeling in dating again. So I won't tell you how to deal with it, but don't just post the same shit in here every day, please, it gets boring to read, even for me.
Its time I think that people started reading other people's posts and started offering SOLUTIONS instead of just following the trend and bitching and whining ceaselessly about it. Now I've been in my time as guilty of that as anyone else I might care to point the finger at, but the thing is, get over it, start offering useful ways for people to get over problems, ways you dealt with stuff, start emailing each other advice, begin a friendship circle, fuck, go and buy a bunch of kombis and throw flowers for all I care about just STOP filling this thread with the same shit for months on end, then going and posting bipolar opposite happy bullshit in the couples thread for a few months while your tragic drugfucked relationship gives you the good vibes, then posting in here again, frankly I don't give two shits about your love life, and this is about dealing with being single or dealing with being in a relationship, which is about offering solutions to problems, rather than just fucking whinging.
-plaz out-
[ 11 August 2002: Message edited by: plazma ]
 
lmfao plaz! wrong side of the bed dude?
now I guess we should expect a mass of "then don't read it" posts....
anyway....
horse :)
 
I do agree plaz but it is all about the whinging too, people need to winge, maybe there should be a whinging thread then.
and i dont think the couples are having "drugfucked" relationships either, thats way harsh.
-funki-
 
Nice rant plaz :)
The thing is, a thread like this is always going to end up like this, unless all the posters go out with each other and all move to the couples thread. The solutions given are mostly going to be the same, which would create something more monotonous than this thread.
You're upset coz u have to read all the replies? I've been half of a couple for more than 6.5 years now, and I still get to read them all ;)
IHMO there's no problem with the thread tho - people need a place to vent. I agree that something constructive now and then might be nice tho...
Now lets see if this can go without turning into a flame war. :)
 
"Bluelight Singles Part XIV -- plazma doesn't give two shits about your love life"
I'm tellin' ya....
Sometimes this stuff just writes itself!
 
Bahahah - have a look at this...
Involuntary Celibacy...
Check out the definitions page! And why not join the mailing list?
I probably shouldn't be laughing, I'm involuntarily celibate at the moment...
:)
 
apollo - thats just terribly disturbing.. and unfortunately too funny
*dicey runs off with the wizard of oz..if he can't fulfill my wishes he can atleast lie to make me happy!
 
Thank you for that extremely enlightening post plazma. As usual you seem to have very little sympathy for people's emotions unless they are yours.
Fuck it I probably should'nt be so anal about it but honestly....
The same things may get repeated over and over again but guess what, that's because the same fucking things happen over and over again in every fucking relationship around the world.
I'm exceedingly sorry that you are frustrated by other people's problems. And so very, very sorry that everyone's heartache is such a burden on your Bluelight reading time. I'm sure now you've pointed out this problem we can all adjust our post to fit into plaz's idea of valuable posting.
I hope everyone's laughter gave you a sufficient ego boost.
 
Personally i thought this thread was here for one thing: HAVING A WHINGE.
Maybe u should start an anti whinge thread or something.
No one is forcing you to read the singles thread.
Remember there are people attached to these bluelight names who have feelings. Sometimes I think some people are insensitive enough not to relise that.
Im not pointing my finger at anyone in particular..
But yes we all need some constructive advice at times and no one needs a put down.
 
ROFL @ Plaz and Mr Horse *grin*.
and ROFLMFAO @ Sydkiwi!
robertrollie: at least none of my last boyfriends left the country.
Remember there are people attached to these bluelight names who have feelings. Sometimes I think some people are insensitive enough not to relise that.
Im not pointing my finger at anyone in particular..
:D
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ROFL @ plaz
You are having a bitch about people bitching.. Ow dear God my eyes are blinded by the harsh light of irony. :)
I have decided to forgo any potential oppertunities presented to me on the relationship front. I am jaded. Ow so very jaded. So what am i going to do? Well, I am going to deny the entire female gender the oppertunity to have a piece of my man-beef. At first you girls may find it hard to come to grips with the fact that no girl can have me! A period of denial and maybe even delusion will follow. But in the end you shall realise that I have too much to offer you.
Girls you have fucked me around too much, I gave you many oppertunities, hell a few times I even took the risk. But in the end I have realised that I have too much to offer, and you don't deserve one stinking bit of it.
:D
So who else will join my club of self(ish)-dellusion ? :)
fb1 -- Master of Space and Time
 
FB1 - I'll join your club.
I think I have a lot to offer someone, but I am not going to fucking plead for their rarely given out affection.
I find it hard these days to meet somebody that is actually sincere.
So, I'll just enjoy myself with my friends.
 
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