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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

originally posted by apollo:
Queen Beat would you mind if I fucked your mother?There's something about 49 year old, menopausal, married women that really do it for me.
A word for word quote. I tell no lie. ;)
And Sllip you can find nearly all those things in a really good friend. I do understand what you're saying though. There are some spaces that friends just can't fill, however much you love them.
The thing I miss the most when single is just feeling special. The knowledge that out of all the people in the world, your partner thinks that you are the greatest person they've ever met.
And on a more personal note can I just say a big thank you to a few friends who've been really helping me out lately, you know who you are. :)
[ 06 August 2002: Message edited by: Queen Beat ]
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Like I'd ask you first Queen Beat - if I wanted to have my way with your mother all I'd need to do is wave $20 in the air...
From my own experience recently, you can find those 4 things in a friendship... Not so much the 4th one, obviously... But the point still stands.
:)
 
$20? Man I got her last night for $3.75 in pocket change.
Oh, and you can get #4 from a close friend if they are the right kind of friend...I dont mean just your regular fuckbuddy either....you can be 'intimate' with someone you are just friends with on the occassions you need it without it having to be a relationship.
 
Apollo and Robert Rollie, are you those two guys on the lounge in the ads about the noodles.
“You know who else loves it?, Ya Mum!”
That was you two, wasn’t it!!!
Nothing else to add, so I’ll just take my spot in the grandstand, and wait for the response from my question above.
 
**trudges back up the grandstand, and crashes onto his bean-bag**
sorry guys, mission time, had to get more popcorn and alcohol.
this is starting to be fun.
**throws popcorn at the rowdy-boys. settle down mofo's (literally :D )!!!**
carry on!
 
*considers charging a 'seating fee' for all the people that now appear to be in the grandstand*
ADVICE: Occasionally (when your confidence is up to it) go out into the big bad world and just see who you bump into. Alot of positive things have been happening to me lately to help ease the (occasional)strain of being single - alot of these things probably wouldn't have happened if I had stayed home and been a hermit to the world. <----- this would normal course of action btw.
In the process I have met some really great female's who, if I was ready to start seeing people again, would be great people to get to know on a more intimate level.
Anyway, I guess all i'm trying to say is a) get the hell off my grandstand ;) and b) take baby-steps to venture back out after any potential 'unhappiness' with past relationships - no need to head back in at full speed! :)
meh...way nuff said!
 
I still stand by my list. I just doesn't feel the same waking up naked next to my room mate after I've just spent all night massaging him, and feeding him chocolate dipped strawberries. I think it would be much nicer to do this to a girl.
 
Me = Single = Happy :)
I actually enjoy being single alot :)
Sure sometimes i get lonely, but that is pretty rare... cant remember when i was last...
Only thing that shits me is that all my good friends have bf's so i am always the 3rd or 5th wheel or whatever, for eg. its our college ball this weekend and out of four girls i am the only single one on the table!!!
Anyways if i *REALLY* wanted a bf i am pretty sure i could have one by the end of the week, i think it is pretty easy for me to not be single... but i am just so over it at the moment, i really dont think i could be fucked bothering about having a bf, i wanna be selfish and concentrate on myself :) And just wanting a bf or gf just for the point of it or coz you are lonely is a really stupid reason to go try find one i think.
Neways whatever... i am gonna enjoy my single status to the fullest whilst it lasts :) and hopefully that will be for a while :)
Bye bye and have fun :)
Boppychick.
 
i think i have the bridget jones syndrome.
and i am yet to decide whether this is a good or a bad thing sinc i'm only 21.
i basically had a whole bottle of red wine.. to myself and some weed almost by myself since i was having to share a room with a couple that has their 5 month togerness event tonight.
frankly, single has been fun, and it could be more fun, but sometimes just the thought of being amused and comfortable in someone's arms for long periods of time while watching tv or just talking and enjoying each others company is worth more than the nights i had fooling around on the dance floor.
and so goes on the saga...
 
Well put Boppychick.
Almost sums up my views on the subject completely.
Although I think that my reason for not wanting a relationship is that I've got so much to sort out with my life at the moment, and that's much easier to do when you don't have to worry about hurting a partner in the process...
I just feel so good at the moment, not because of any drugs, just because I feel that I've reached a fork in the road, and after a swift kick to the behind by my old man last night, I'm ready to make a decision. :)
Thank you :)
[ 07 August 2002: Message edited by: Schizo ]
 
Originally posted by dicey:
frankly, single has been fun, and it could be more fun, but sometimes just the thought of being amused and comfortable in someone's arms for long periods of time while watching tv or just talking and enjoying each others company is worth more than the nights i had fooling around on the dance floor.
That's what gets me, I'm totally happy being single until I start craving that sort of stuff. I've figured tho that like with any sort of craving, it does go away for a while... before coming back stronger when you least expect it.
Although I can get a "fix" from being with my friends it's kinda like being broke and having to drink cheep wine - sure it gets you drunk but it's just not the same.
That in no way detracts from the relationships I have with all my friends, I love them to pieces but it's not the same as being with that special someone.
[ 07 August 2002: Message edited by: PsychoKitten ]
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i figure that after being hurt 24/7 by n e guy i go with.. maybe i'm better off single... i mean having a partner around is always a bonus.... but thats why i have great friends... to make me laugh and maybe the occasional shag jumps in there tooo......but the best thing about being single is.. HAVING FUN
 
Originally posted by dicey:
frankly, single has been fun, and it could be more fun, but sometimes just the thought of being amused and comfortable in someone's arms for long periods of time while watching tv or just talking and enjoying each others company is worth more than the nights i had fooling around on the dance floor.
Depends on the kind of friends you have :)
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Timing is everything, I learnt the hard way tonight.
She thought, I thought.
The girl I have been thinking about for months.
I hadn't seen her in ages, we had both been busy, work, family ect.
Tonight I finally see her... ask her...
I find 2 weeks ago she met someone else :(
She tells me she really really liked me but after all this time thought I didn't want anything more then just casual, I should of said something to her last time I saw her, but I thought it was too soon. She wanted me to say something to her earlier.
Ok I’ll stop ranting.
/me hands back the leaving the singles thread paperwork.
 
Oh yeah, been there mikeyk...
...Met a lovely girl, spent 3 weekends in a row hanging out together, a decent slab of each weekend too, and on the third weekend I even stayed at her place... If anything was gonna happen then it didn't get the chance 'cos I was a little careless with the g consumption ;)
And then the next weekend was a party at her place... I decided I was gonna find out for sure then whether or not she was as interested in me as I was in her... It seemed that way, I figured a girl whom you've only just met doesn't hang out with you three weeks in a row, and let you stay at her place, unless there's some interest there...
...But then I get to the party and there's another guy there with her... And there's definately some chemistry between them, and not of the illicit substance kind...
*sigh*
 
Kitty : Chateau Le Cardboard rocks my world, don't you DARE diss the goon. It is not only better than real wine, its got less cred! :D
Tarsy : In my opinion, the BEST chemistry is the kind you pay out money for, and its measured in doses. At least you know where you are with it. ;)
Don't be too busy looking ahead of you guys, because in the distance there is death. Keep your eyes fixed on that goal the whole time and you'll miss the scenery, the scenery's what life is all about. Appreciate where you are, even if you can't change it, especially if you can't change it.
-plaz out-
 
plaz: I disagree, I think you know where you are with the chemistry some of us pay for just as little as that emotional chemistry...
Its unreliable and unsafe, but we'll take the chance on it anyway because when it works, it feels so good...
 
i could tell you something...but then id have to kill you ;)
suffice to say...i got juice! but my lips are sealed (er...my fingers? are sealed? whatever!)
and tarsy *hugs* i know the whole chemistry thing...and *hugs* for mikeyk too cos that just plain sucks!
 
One of the worst things about the post break-up period is watching your former boyfriend/ girlfriend start dating again. It hurts so much to think that your ex may start saying things to someone else which they once said to you only. The idea of them making plans wuth someone else and falling in love again is sometimes too much to bear. I do honestly want him to be happy but the selfish side of me wishes he wouldn't find his happiness with another girl. I guess it's all just another step towards moving on and getting on with life.
The other thing I've discovered lately is that friends can be the best healers. I never truly believed that they could help me when I was really hurting, but I now know I'm wrong. One person in particular (who I know will be reading this) has made me smile and laugh when I thought the world was seconds away from ending.
/end soppy and sleep deprived post. ;)
 
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