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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Hey, I'll take em as I can get em. Singles or doubles, all will be accepted.
Stop splitting hairs.
Anyway, back to the topic at hand......
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hmm déjà vu
I'm sure I posted in a Bluelight singles thread before, ahh that’s right I did in the old thread, and I'm still single :( lol ahh well.
But I have come to realize that I have to be happy with my own company, before anyone else would be. :) (I think I read that somewhere on bluelight)
So I am just going to go out and PARTAY, and enjoy the single life :D
Who's coming with me hehe
Mikey
 
I think these singles threads are getting a bit mundane, everyone keeps repeating themselves, saying the same things over and over, with nothing terribly new or interesting to say (like this post actually!!)
Yeah, your single, wow! your whinging! wow! others agree! wow! you arent interested in any other bluelighters! WOW! THEN GET OFF THE INTERNET AND TRY SOMEWHERE ELSE?
 
^^^^^
Correct me if I'm wrong, but nobody forced you to open this thread...
Say something new and interesting if you think it's boring - you're free to steer the conversation in any direction that might improve the quality of discussion to a level you'd be satisfied with. Either that or I guess we could just close the whole thing down. Don't think many people would be in favour of that though, so if anyone's got a better idea I'm all ears...
 
Daimo...to be perfectly blunt...if you don't like it fuck the hell off. {edit: oops that wasn't very mod like of me. /me puts mod hat back on}
we might say the same things. we might be whinging. but this thread is a place for me to vent. fuck knows I need it sometimes. it's better to vent here than bore all my real life friends with everything that goes through my head (and yes, I do have a 'real life' away from this place. as does everyone else on this thread).
[ 01 August 2002: Message edited by: miss apple ]
 
^^^ Russ but not all 18/19 year olds are all 18/19. Just like some 22 y/os so arent 22.
Personally I have always been rather older than my years, Ive just turned 20, but damn i feel so much older. Its a good thing, AND a bad thing. I grew up too fast, and i dont really have that much personally to show for it. (ive never had any REAL relationships... but ive nearlly finished my degree... sucks but i guess its worth it)
Point to this post, mainly, is that just because someone is young, doesnt make them "not a woman", and just because someone is older doesnt make them any more woman-like. If that makes any sense at all.
I've still got my eyes open... but im hoping something to happen sooooon aaaaargh
 
Well, I've recently come to the conclusion that I can no longer tolerate the drinking scene.
...so there goes my sex life ( ;) )
Nah, seriously, going out and getting pissed used to be the best way for me to meet women.
I tried it again the other night and, after a coupla hours, ended up back at a friends' place trying to find out if there was a rave on that night.
 
Cheers to my last drink on March 12th 2002!!!
Drinking used to be why I drooled on myself for no apparant reason. Now when i dribble on myself I know there must be a perfectly good explanation.
I am hating the single life at the moment with a burning passion and it doesn't help when my grandma tells me she wants me to get married before she dies. She's 87. I hope she's in it for the long haul.
 
Gosh.. haven't read a thread that caught my interest like this one has in quite a while *grin*, but then I don't often get mentioned by people I've never met.
I guess I can contribute since I'm technically single (although I do get to see RR again in nine days!! *dances around*). It's wierd to hear people who are younger than me complain about feeling old. The thought crosses my mind occasionally but then I remember I'm only as old as the man I feel (who is 23 on the day he arrives here :D ), which is some consolation. I think we only feel old because society remembers that for previous generations you got married younger,and we are part of a generation that has so much more 'youth'.. I don't figure on becoming an adult til I'm 30 at least ;) .. heck I'm just going to keep doing what makes me happy forever and if I don't feel like clubbing anymore I'll move on to something else. Fuck this idea of age as a barrier, especially to relationships. You know that things happen when you least expect them.. my advice? Plan a hefty overseas trip, commit major finances, tell all your friends you're going and THEN you'll meet someone fabulous.. it worked for me ;)
 
originally posted by Russ:
Anyway, back to the topic at hand......
Fuck the topic at hand.
I find that most people who have some preconceived idea that everyone else there age is immature usually have a lot of growing up to do themselves.
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** claps vigourously **
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to what prom said.
** chucks another bag of popcorn in the microwave **
ps. on the age thing, ppl, me included, do tend to get a bit picky as they get older, but it's only 'cos we know ourselves better, and so know what we want with a bit more certainty. but live a little, try something new, and give something that seems a bit out of the ordinary a chance. and like momma said, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you meet prince charming.
oh, shit, hang on. i want a girl. damn! :D
[ 01 August 2002: Message edited by: mr_fluffy ]
 
arent most of u thinking/intellectualising/rationalising too much about relationships? do u approach a potential relationship with all these in mind? i find that pretty scary.
ofcos i dont mean to be flippant about relationships either but i find it more gratifying when things fall into place cos they''re just "right".
its all about synchronicity ;)
 
...yeah, but it gives people something to complain about ;)
But an interesting point Vurt... I often wonder of how much use it is trying to be think logically about a situation which is mostly emotional and highly illogical.
 
Originally posted by Jakoz:
But an interesting point Vurt... I often wonder of how much use it is trying to be think logically about a situation which is mostly emotional and highly illogical.
it's absolutely no use at all. but it gives us something to think about on sunday mornings when we wake up by ourselves yet again.
I'm boring myself with all this negativity. it's friday. be happy :)
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Hehe, well mr fluffly: a saying for a man ,as my momma used to say ;) , is "You gotta slay a lot of dragons before you find the princess".
 
Miss Apple & Pleonastic - at least you are still passionate, thanks for your response. It wasnt a personal dig at anyone in particular.... Your right, no one forced me to open it, I guess after seeing so many singles threads.. it is a popular & passionate topic. I guess I just feel that people are too eager/keen to hit "ADD REPLY" to see their name/response up, without thinking "is this worthwhile? or just clutter?" I'm the first to admit, I didnt have anything worthwhile to add, these threads are hard to keep up with sometimes because of the speed at which they grow, so I guess it's quality vs quantity (I know not everyone agrees). I just wanted to make people stop and think for a moment......
Anyway... i wouldn't be posting on the singles thread if I wasnt single, so I'm in the same boat as the rest of you. Is this a bluelight curse? a curse of the party lifestyle/culture we live/enjoy? - 1 thing I have been thinking about a lot more recently (i'm 27 & old & jaded - but you should all know that by now) - I seem to know what i DON'T want in a partner.... but I find it increasingly difficult to work out what I DO want. This seems to be my main dilemma...
Once again, if any of you disagree, or think this post is totally worthless, feel free to flame the hell out of me.
 
Originally posted by Taliana:
^^^ Russ but not all 18/19 year olds are all 18/19. Just like some 22 y/os so arent 22.
I've still got my eyes open... but im hoping something to happen sooooon aaaaargh
I totally agree, it is just that what I am looking for is not usually found in someone that much younger then me.
So, Taliana, you are still looking? Well, how about a drink? I never got to talk to you at Utopia.
Yes! Good. I'll buy you one at Cheap Tricks next weekend. :)
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