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Somebody please, please tell me wtf he ^^^ is on?
I believe that there's more than one soulmate for each person. You live and grow and constantly change throught your life, the thought that as you grow and change you still are meant to be with the same person doesn't sit right with me.
 
sometimes i just don't get it...
For the first time in a while i met a girl who i actually really like and things went really well, had a good night out and exchanged numbers, so i call her the next day and leave a message on her phone. Another couple of days pass, no reply and she still on my mind, so i give her a call and get to leave another message on her phone. Kinda perplexed about the whole not calling me deal, i start chatting to my mate about it, and it turns out that my mates girlfriend told this girl i'm the occasional drug user that i am. And right after that she told me she has to go home, i'm like yeah thats cool i'll call you soon. Not long after she gone home my mates girlfriend is trying to set me up with her friend. who i can't see being anything more than a friend with/i hate people trying to set me up.
Now i think i'm going to ring up my mates girlfriend and tell her where to go, but then again thats not me to yell at her, even if i want to. Still i guess she would have found out about my drug tendencies sooner or later. oh well, still i'm mean how does that come up in a conversation, "by the way did you know he likes drugs?" WTF. oh well at least theres bluelight to vent my frustration.
 
I don't ascribe to the soulmate theory. I have known three different girls with whom I could be happy spending 50 years together. It might be the right girl, but that doesn't mean I know her at the right place or the right time. Overall I don't regret anything.
masheadatronic: This is pretty much just a place to talk about being single without the exhibitionist and dick-sizing qualities that run rampant through the SLR forum.
[ 14 July 2002: Message edited by: Catch-22 ]
 
elevhein: Not cool dude...
I don't think he was serious:P
I agree with Miss Apple.. I think there's more than one 'soul mate' for each of us.. and in a sense there's none. Nobody will match us perfectly, all relationships need work, just some more than others.
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Well I'm like 'UberJihadSingleGuy' now.
Just havin a hell of a lot of fun messin about, livin carefree and unattached.
It's still as fun as ever, so I've got nothin at all to whinge about :)
But the rest of you, by all means, take it away kids! ;)
Cheers.
 
Looking at the amount of BL mods that have posted in here, compared to the general BL population, it's probably pretty fair to say that mods don't get out too much. ;)
*sigh... back to the keyboard* ;)
Kill da kitty! =<',,'>=
It's all about the multiple stabbings! :)
[ 14 July 2002: Message edited by: Jakoz ]
 
Leecie: Hon I know youre hurting bad right now, but holding on is only hurting you more. Its entirely possible that you guys will be together again in the future when both of you have grown, but for now I think you would be better of letting go and moving on. Yes its hard, but you have plenty of people who care about you alot to help you thru it :) *hugs*
Personally, I think youre soulmate is not necessarily the person who youre bound to fall in love with and spend eternity with. As far as relationships are concerned, people change over time and its rare that 2 people change in sync with one another. Someone who is perfect for you today might not be in 10 years time.
 
*hugs the hell outta Miss Apple* thanks for those words hun...it made me feel a bit better...and RobertRollie *huge hugs too*
its not that i hate being single because i know full well i can handle being single. i just cant handle the sudden loss of the person i love more than anything and im really struggling considering he was my rock and not only have i just lost him but everything else in my life has just come crashing down around me too. i wish more than anything i had him back but im trying to focus on fixing everything else first then proving to him it can work.
 
Jakoz on soulmates... ;)
Yes, I believe each of us have a number of soulmates, as Catch-22 suggests, but I think most people don't recognise them as easily as he does, and most of them just drift by.
I'm in the fortunate position of having gone out with mine for the last 6 years, and believe me when I say that I wish you all the very best. You are all good people and deserve the happiness that is a great relationship.
 
Leecie, i dont know you or anything really about you, but when something like that happens, the best thing you can do it let GO.
I really do feel with you i now it is hard, and if its all you think about it will be one of the hardest things you will EVER have to do.
Pick life back up again, make yourself good and good for life, show everyone how fine you are, how you can shine, how you have learnt from the experience, how confident, happy and in control of life you are.
I say again it is hard
I am trying to do this now, but it is to do with a life matter not a relationship and i am slowly, quite slowly making my through,thanks to some really great people, who have made me looks past the barriers i set for myself. Into the future.
Its no good living a lie or living for something that just wont work. If a person is your soulmate (if you beleive in that sort of thing ) they should love you back equally as much as you love them, if they dont, its not to be and your REAL soulmate is out there waiting for you to find him.
hope it all gets better for you
.Funki.
 
I'd like to second Funki and RobertRollie comments, you guys are spot on.
Moving on and or letting go can be so hard to do, but in the future you look back and wonder why it was so hard.
Mikey
 
not only have i just lost him but everything else in my life has just come crashing down around me too.
I know it may seem like that hon, but youre only looking at the negative side of things again, and that is only going to upset you more. Yes, life is hard - it seems to be a common theme for you and me and a handful of other people atm, but its in times like these when everything comes crashing down that you find out whats left standing when the dust settles - the people who you know care about you and who you can depend on always. *cuddles*
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My Utopia Night
1. This nice girl id been talking to over icq for just a few nights, was going to be at Utopia, so i ring as im outside to find her.
2. I find her...OMFG! Shes beautiful, and has the nicest eyes ever, so seductive! I had allready kinda been thinking about her for a bit cause she was easy to talk and seemed so bright, so this was going great.
3. Later on i call her, and we hug and im thinking this is soo nice (guess whos pill came on real strong real fast!) :)
**Forgotten part - We went on a mission and were dancing and walking through the crowd hand in hand (how could i forget this!!) It was soooo nice, man the smile on her face was unbelieveable.
God this is starting to hurt now :(
4. Time moves on, im missing her and really want to chat, cause i got that nice vibe (1/2 good pill, 1/2 oh im so taken by her)
5. I call, no answer...must be dancing.
6. I wait, then call again, nothing doing.
7. I try to forget about her, call again, no answer. Pills kicking out. At this point in time i have to say thanks to Taliana, she didnt have an idea about what was going on - but her, well being her, so sweet and nutty, made my night, and i pulled through till the end.
8. I walk outside, freezing fucking cold!!
9. There she is...OMG. She sees me and says something like she was unhappy we didnt get to spend more time together (you're telling me!) and then gives me a huge hug and i didnt want it to end....ever. :(
Had to put this in point form so i could remember. Its so weird you know, but i got the nicest vibe from her ever since that first hug. She lives in Nowra, i live in Newcastle, it's not sposed to be, but fuck am i getting used to that these days!!! Ahh i dont want your pity, sharing my pain helps me get over it, and to top it all off ive lost her icq number somehow!! I could call her but im hopeless on the fone, and well - whats the point now..
Jeez im sorry, didnt mean to ramble...
*thinks about her and smiles* :)
 
Moocho man, what the hell?
Dood don't let a little distance spoil your day.
Coz if there's one thing that's true, if there's a will there's a way.
Life isn't easy and we all know that's true
So don't just get slack assed and let love come to you.
HEY MOM! I CAN RHYME! ;)
-plaz out-
 
Moocho, she's pretty and she's from Nowra?.. Better not be my Farken Half Brothers, Sister! LMAO!!..
[edit] meh, so what if it is? :P [\edit]
Whats the go Thoth?
[ 16 July 2002: Message edited by: deeCee1 ]
 
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