jimbu
Bluelighter
i'm single.
*sobs*
*sobs*
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Catch-22
Bluelighter
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miss apple: I am not venturing into parenthood for the next 3-5 years exactly because I don't want to do a half-assed job of it....
Here are some more questions: Do you date? Have you had good relationships in the past? Why did those fall apart? Do you have a hard time meeting people, or just a hard time finding someone suitable for a relationship?
I actually talked to an attractive 30 year old girl with a college degree who had never been on a date before!
I don't know how people can find a relationship without dating, otherwise you are just waiting for something to happen randomly. And it must be tough for ladies who don't like being "forward"....
I haven't had a whole lot of good relationships in the past, mainly because I have never really been looking for them. I have enough experience to know what I am doing, but am kinda lucky not to be carrying lots of excess baggage.
My past relationships ended usually ended because of lack of effort. I am concerned if I will be able to flip a switch and suddenly start valuing a new relationship....I am kind of untested there. I knew my past relationships weren't permanent because I always knew I didn't want to marry before 30. So past relationships were always considered temporary.![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
I don't have a hard time meeting people. I am pretty outgoing and don't mind taking chances, so I get enough social circulation. I might be a little lazy considering my last two relationships sort of just happened, and I will need to concentrate on being more proactive to secure good relationships in the future.
This thread is good because it is making me sort all this stuff out.
[ 25 May 2002: Message edited by: Catch-22 ]
Here are some more questions: Do you date? Have you had good relationships in the past? Why did those fall apart? Do you have a hard time meeting people, or just a hard time finding someone suitable for a relationship?
I actually talked to an attractive 30 year old girl with a college degree who had never been on a date before!
I don't know how people can find a relationship without dating, otherwise you are just waiting for something to happen randomly. And it must be tough for ladies who don't like being "forward"....I haven't had a whole lot of good relationships in the past, mainly because I have never really been looking for them. I have enough experience to know what I am doing, but am kinda lucky not to be carrying lots of excess baggage.
My past relationships ended usually ended because of lack of effort. I am concerned if I will be able to flip a switch and suddenly start valuing a new relationship....I am kind of untested there. I knew my past relationships weren't permanent because I always knew I didn't want to marry before 30. So past relationships were always considered temporary.
I don't have a hard time meeting people. I am pretty outgoing and don't mind taking chances, so I get enough social circulation. I might be a little lazy considering my last two relationships sort of just happened, and I will need to concentrate on being more proactive to secure good relationships in the future.
This thread is good because it is making me sort all this stuff out.
[ 25 May 2002: Message edited by: Catch-22 ]
Plaz you took the words out of my fucking mouth
Fucking werd!!
If I don't find a soul mate, i'll be content by myself. I've always been a very individual person. "Lonelly" has undue social negativity implied by it, my experiences have not been negative at all.
*hugs Plaz*
Fucking werd!!
If I don't find a soul mate, i'll be content by myself. I've always been a very individual person. "Lonelly" has undue social negativity implied by it, my experiences have not been negative at all.
*hugs Plaz*
RobertRollie
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Anyone whos here and desperately doesnt want to be should just go to anna's place on the weekends, apparently its hookup central. 
raverchik
Bluelighter
/me moves to melbourne with sydkiwi :D
*goldie*
Bluelighter
/me ponders moving to melbourne in a serious-type fashion
...maybe... it's cold in Adelaide... but not as cold as melbourne
[ 28 May 2002: Message edited by: *goldie* ]
...maybe... it's cold in Adelaide... but not as cold as melbourne
[ 28 May 2002: Message edited by: *goldie* ]
Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
*insert comment about warming goldie up if she moves to Melbourne*
Oh hang on... couples thread... *whisks goldie away*
[ 28 May 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
Oh hang on... couples thread... *whisks goldie away*
[ 28 May 2002: Message edited by: Tarsarlan ]
*goldie*
Bluelighter
*pokes head back in from the couples thread*
You're right sydkiwi , quite a sound piece of logic that!
/me ponders further...
You're right sydkiwi
, quite a sound piece of logic that!/me ponders further...
Pleonastic
Bluelighter
^^^^^
Pokes head in? LOL! You've got more posts in here than most other people!
Same goes for you Tars...
Pokes head in? LOL! You've got more posts in here than most other people!
Same goes for you Tars...
*goldie*
Bluelighter
*grin* ;P~
well, living over here sometimes makes me feel like I'm single!
(well, I thought it was a good enough excuse )
well, living over here sometimes makes me feel like I'm single!
(well, I thought it was a good enough excuse
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RobertRollie
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Shak is able to say stuff like that now that he actually has a gf and managed to get laid.....im not sure whether that restores my faith that there is a god or cements firmly in place that there isnt one.....
if there is, he must hate me
if there is, he must hate me
plazma
Bluelighter
No Corch, there is no god, but you'll KNOW he hates you if Dante hooks up and you're still single.
-plaz out-
-plaz out-
miss apple
Bluelighter
Originally posted by Catch-22:
[QB]Here are some more questions: Do you date? Have you had good relationships in the past? Why did those fall apart? Do you have a hard time meeting people, or just a hard time finding someone suitable for a relationship?
I actually talked to an attractive 30 year old girl with a college degree who had never been on a date before!
I can't believe I'm going to answer these questions!! But yes, I've had 2 very close relationships. The first one didn't work because we were young and grew up in different directions. The second one didn't because he had commitment issues, and I was a stereotypical moody, troublesome girl. I've learnt a hell of a lot from both relationships, as well as the encounters I've had in between.
I don't have a hard time meeting people at all. If I like the look of someone I might be nervous going up and saying hello, but I have no problems talking to new people. I have problems finding people suitable for a relationship for a number of reasons, mainly that the person is normally already taken. Secondly, cause I admit I have fairly high standards and won't tend to give someone a go if I don't like them straight away. If it's not there from the start, then it's not there.
I don't think I'm a person who could 'date' though. Firstly, my problem is in meeting eligible men to date in the first place, secondly I just think if I keep doing the things I love to do, that I'll eventually run into someone in my travels who loves doing the same things. Perhaps a cop out on my part but I just can't see that looking for a boyfriend is something you can actively go out and do. It just happens.