Smil-E
Bluelighter
Why dont you jsut have a BL singles party and you can all pair off, and all of us Bluelight Couples can stop whinginga about the excessive use of posts relating to unsatisfied sexual tension
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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!
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Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
hehe, nice title Pleo... Dodgy mofo 
And don't think this means I won't be around, I may not be single (but not yet technically joining the BL Couples), but I'm still a moderator, and I'll still be adding my commentary to this stream of threads...
Hehe, I wonder if Adz has any idea what he started
And don't think this means I won't be around, I may not be single (but not yet technically joining the BL Couples), but I'm still a moderator, and I'll still be adding my commentary to this stream of threads...
Hehe, I wonder if Adz has any idea what he started
plazma
Bluelighter
*Laughs*
Oh dear.
At least now we don't have to have Tarsy starting the goddamn threads.
Still single. Now looking for perfection.
Expected search time : ?
Expected result : ?
*Roffle*
-plaz out-
Oh dear.
At least now we don't have to have Tarsy starting the goddamn threads.
Still single. Now looking for perfection.
Expected search time : ?
Expected result : ?
*Roffle*
-plaz out-
RobertRollie
Bluelighter
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Tars got some? TARS got some? This is the tars that has been in the singles thread since forever right? So whats next, the speed of light changes?
Dante
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Well, after taking a walk down memory lane, and reading the last 8 threads, I can safely say that I'm the KING
Joined the series last August, but I've been single for... hang on...
*pulls out fingers and starts counting*
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Just over 4 years.
And as I've said before, the only real relationship was a bit of a fucker... Feel free to read back a few threads and read about it. :/
So, who's up for actual real useful suggestions on how to change this? I'm keen, but I don't have any... (In otherwords, tell me what to do)
Joined the series last August, but I've been single for... hang on...
*pulls out fingers and starts counting*
.....
Just over 4 years.
And as I've said before, the only real relationship was a bit of a fucker... Feel free to read back a few threads and read about it. :/
So, who's up for actual real useful suggestions on how to change this? I'm keen, but I don't have any... (In otherwords, tell me what to do
)strangerinthe_woods
Bluelighter
hhmmmmm well i think that i will join the club of long term single people. but when all else fails there is always DRUMM'N'BASS!!
...gods thats right ... sorry got carried away..
umm......still looking
any body going to yaki 6th birthday?
[ 20 May 2002: Message edited by: strangerinthe_woods ]
...gods thats right ... sorry got carried away..
umm......still looking
any body going to yaki 6th birthday?
[ 20 May 2002: Message edited by: strangerinthe_woods ]
RobertRollie
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dante: get a hooker ;P
or just stop being so 'nice' and start being a little more assertive with girls you like, they dont go in for that meek shit, trust me, it didnt work for me either
...but then neither has the asshole bit
or just stop being so 'nice' and start being a little more assertive with girls you like, they dont go in for that meek shit, trust me, it didnt work for me either
...but then neither has the asshole bit
nezo
Bluelight Crew
damn..I knew I shouldn't have given up so easily
Dante
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RobertRollie:
But I'm not going to change the way I am for anyone, and if that's the only way I can change the situation, then I'm not gonna bother.
I'm me, and I'm slowly beginning to like me more and more. So why change myself? I really don't see it as being important enough to do that to myself.
And how many times do I have to say it, it's not about SEX FFS
But I'm not going to change the way I am for anyone, and if that's the only way I can change the situation, then I'm not gonna bother.
I'm me, and I'm slowly beginning to like me more and more. So why change myself? I really don't see it as being important enough to do that to myself.
And how many times do I have to say it, it's not about SEX FFS
2 of Cups
Bluelighter
What can I say nezo, I couldn't resist the purple afro!
Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
*nods wisely at Dante*
I've changed somewhat over the years, but those changes have mainly been in self-confidence, not fundamental personality changes... Not as far as I can tell anyway, perhaps my friends can say differently...
But regardless, there is no need to change who you are, and frankly if you change yourself with the intention of impressing someone else, then you're impressing them with someone fake...
But one thing tho... *cough*whatdyameanitsnotaboutsex?*cough* hehehe
Seriously tho, if you're becoming happier with yourself, that's all you really need... Allow the self-confidence to grow and then things will get easier for you...
And you don't need to stop being nice... I might order 2 of Cups around a bit, but I do it nicely
*huggles 2 of Cups*
nezo: Don't worry about it dude, you never had a chance
I've changed somewhat over the years, but those changes have mainly been in self-confidence, not fundamental personality changes... Not as far as I can tell anyway, perhaps my friends can say differently...
But regardless, there is no need to change who you are, and frankly if you change yourself with the intention of impressing someone else, then you're impressing them with someone fake...
But one thing tho... *cough*whatdyameanitsnotaboutsex?*cough* hehehe
Seriously tho, if you're becoming happier with yourself, that's all you really need... Allow the self-confidence to grow and then things will get easier for you...
And you don't need to stop being nice... I might order 2 of Cups around a bit, but I do it nicely
*huggles 2 of Cups*
nezo: Don't worry about it dude, you never had a chance
*moocho pokes head in*
Fark, you guys still here??
You know you're missing all the wonderful sunshine and there's ducks swimming in the pond!
Oh well, here's some advice, for the dudes - give up looking completely, then you'll find her.
*moocho grabs shotty and goes after those ducks*
Fark, you guys still here??
You know you're missing all the wonderful sunshine and there's ducks swimming in the pond!
Oh well, here's some advice, for the dudes - give up looking completely, then you'll find her.
*moocho grabs shotty and goes after those ducks*
Insecurity
Bluelighter
Tarsy's gone from our ranks?? WTF!?!?
I've resigned myself to single, (non)celibate life.
I might as well find a group of raving nuns...
I've resigned myself to single, (non)celibate life.
I might as well find a group of raving nuns...
Boppychick
Bluelighter
Dante, seriously, listen to what Moocho says, if you stop looking and worrying and thinking about it so much you will be more likely to find someone... i have always found that this is what happens and i think most others would agree.
Pleonastic
Bluelighter
"Stop looking and you'll find someone"...
Bullshit
Is there any proof that that's true? Really? Sounds to me like a mystical cross between Murphy's Law gone wrong and a vague type of Karma...
*keeps looking*
Bullshit
Is there any proof that that's true? Really? Sounds to me like a mystical cross between Murphy's Law gone wrong and a vague type of Karma...
*keeps looking*
Boppychick
Bluelighter
If you come across all the time as wanting someone and looking for someone and needing someone- or wanting someone anyways you are more likely to scare people off or look desperate or something, if you are looking for something to fullfill you your life and make you happy, such as a partner, then atm it is obvious you are not to happy with yourself because a happy person can be happy alone as well as happy in a relationship, not JUST happy in a relationship. And noone wants to be with someone who is not happy with themself. You have to be able to come to terms with being single and be happy being single before getting into a relaitonship. And seriously if you do stop worrying about it and thinking about it , it wont bother you... and then you will have nothing to worry about, you will be happy... The more you think about how lonely you are or whatever the more you will want a partner and the more lonely you will feel. If you stop thinking about it time will pass quicker in this respect and when you "find" someone it will feel like it has taken no time.
Ok so the above does not really make much sense in the aspect of drawing conclusions, if people could just not give a shit about their relationship status and be happy as themself and not necessarily as a couple or single then they are more likely to be able to find someone who is compatable with them.
And anyways it is unlikely you will find the RIGHT one by looking, sure you may find someone and then you wont be single no more, but is it the RIGHT person, i seem to find that people that are looking for love go all the wrong places to find it, dont know what they are looking for and ultimately settle for something worse than they could really get.
[ 21 May 2002: Message edited by: Boppychick ]
Ok so the above does not really make much sense in the aspect of drawing conclusions, if people could just not give a shit about their relationship status and be happy as themself and not necessarily as a couple or single then they are more likely to be able to find someone who is compatable with them.
And anyways it is unlikely you will find the RIGHT one by looking, sure you may find someone and then you wont be single no more, but is it the RIGHT person, i seem to find that people that are looking for love go all the wrong places to find it, dont know what they are looking for and ultimately settle for something worse than they could really get.
[ 21 May 2002: Message edited by: Boppychick ]