AussieRaver
Bluelighter
bein single is ok sometimes i think, but sometimes u get lonely 
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Yeah, I actually introduced Syntech to this sordid world. Well the sordid bit didn't come till I showed her how to party BLer style.
But it shows that if you do the things you love and enjoy life then people pick up on your happiness and they will want to spend time with you.
But it shows that if you do the things you love and enjoy life then people pick up on your happiness and they will want to spend time with you.
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
Sllip said:
heh
congrats you guys!
bluegirl
Bluelighter
Taliana said:Tarsy- thats awesome fucking news mate, sooooo happy for you
maybe but i doubt it - she's a brissy girl like me!
now tarsy has an extra reason to come a visiting north
bk
Time for another postcard from single-world.
I got a story for ya, and it's bound to bring ya down kids.
I was at a club on Saturday night and ran into a girl I'd met the weekend before. So we were chatting and she tells me she came with a friend, and I said, where's she? And this girl said her friend was off in the corner picking up some cute boy.
Anyway we're chatting for a while, and I ask this girl, "Aren't you worried about your friend, where's she gone?" She says to me... "yeah I am a bit worried".
Her friend is in her early twentys and that night, for the very first time, had kissed someone. I made some crude joke about maybe she'd decided to go all the way but she said "Nah... I don't think so". Neither did I.
Cut to three hours later, she'd found her friend. I run into her and her friend, she pulls me aside and says... "You won't believe this... she had sex with him, and she can't find him and she's really upset".
Not that I lost my own virginity in the most glorious circumstances, but there are some things I hear and see when out that can still shock me. No, this girl wasn't on drugs, never done a pill before either... a real innocent. The only thing I could think was that if perhaps this girl hadn't been so busy trying to chat me up for drugs, she might have been there to stop her friend losing her virginity to some faceless loser in a car on Chapel Street.
I got a story for ya, and it's bound to bring ya down kids.
I was at a club on Saturday night and ran into a girl I'd met the weekend before. So we were chatting and she tells me she came with a friend, and I said, where's she? And this girl said her friend was off in the corner picking up some cute boy.
Anyway we're chatting for a while, and I ask this girl, "Aren't you worried about your friend, where's she gone?" She says to me... "yeah I am a bit worried".
Her friend is in her early twentys and that night, for the very first time, had kissed someone. I made some crude joke about maybe she'd decided to go all the way but she said "Nah... I don't think so". Neither did I.
Cut to three hours later, she'd found her friend. I run into her and her friend, she pulls me aside and says... "You won't believe this... she had sex with him, and she can't find him and she's really upset".
Not that I lost my own virginity in the most glorious circumstances, but there are some things I hear and see when out that can still shock me. No, this girl wasn't on drugs, never done a pill before either... a real innocent. The only thing I could think was that if perhaps this girl hadn't been so busy trying to chat me up for drugs, she might have been there to stop her friend losing her virginity to some faceless loser in a car on Chapel Street.
Insane Platypus
Bluelighter
^^^ Not particularly shocking. People do have to think through their actions a bit more though...
up all night
Bluelight Crew
What an introduction into the world of sexual politics.
What a naive girl.
What a common story.
What a naive girl.
What a common story.
doofqueen
Bluelighter
hmmm think i have been going through a lonely patch in my life and have just been missing my most recent ex (well what i felt and had with him anyway)
I think i'm over it... (maybe)
I do like being single...i like going out and doing my own thing...meeting new people and playing with who ever i want
When your in a relationship you tend to forget your friends (well not always and not for everyone) but what i mean is that you just want to be with that person (espeacilly in the beggining) and that makes you happy
meh i don't even know what i'm getting at now...
oh that's right..
yeah i'm quite happy being single
I think i'm over it... (maybe)
I do like being single...i like going out and doing my own thing...meeting new people and playing with who ever i want
When your in a relationship you tend to forget your friends (well not always and not for everyone) but what i mean is that you just want to be with that person (espeacilly in the beggining) and that makes you happy
meh i don't even know what i'm getting at now...
oh that's right..
yeah i'm quite happy being single
doofqueen
Bluelighter
guess that trip to the zoo went well then?
Tarsarlan
Bluelighter
Damn you evil brissy girls and your bewitching ways!blue kitten said:maybe but i doubt it - she's a brissy girl like me!
now tarsy has an extra reason to come a visiting north
*shakes fist*
Euphoric Bliss
Bluelighter
hmm thought i'd drop in an "i'm single" vote....
I'm not too down about it though. I will find a man......ONE day! hehe nah i wont settle for any old person so I guess I am fine until i find that guy.....although I am on a high right now. I woke up on the right side of the bed. But yeah, singledom is good atm
I'm not too down about it though. I will find a man......ONE day! hehe nah i wont settle for any old person so I guess I am fine until i find that guy.....although I am on a high right now. I woke up on the right side of the bed. But yeah, singledom is good atm
neverwas
Bluelighter
BopGirl said:
yay!!! well done hun...
for me? well i am still single...it doesnt bother me much cause i dont want anything write now...but i got all teary eyed last night over my last x-factor chris...and i probably got the best words of wisdom from my dear friend i have ever got...it was... 'its never time to forget...but its time to let go.' that made me cry...i realsied i was still carrying a 'flame' for him last night but i also realised i have happy memories but i need to let go of the baggage
![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
Euphoric Bliss
Bluelighter
*starfalls69* said:'its never time to forget...but its time to let go.' that made me cry...i realsied i was still carrying a 'flame' for him last night but i also realised i have happy memories but i need to let go of the baggage
its so true. we should never forget. and letting go is the hardest part. good luck starfalls
Cosmic Mist
Bluelighter
i ditto that^^ i can relate completely. At least you realise it now, and not when you have found that someone who could make you very happy.
Don't worry Kel, it'll get better now that you've realised what the problem is. Things will get better by degrees...
Don't worry Kel, it'll get better now that you've realised what the problem is. Things will get better by degrees...
Don't you love it when you meet someone new and you think, "yeah, i could see myself with them" and then they say to you "hey we should hang sometime"... hehe.... (yes, a very american thing to say, but hey its coming from an americans mouth ) hehe... new things/new people... yay for spice.
) hehe... new things/new people... yay for spice.no i havent hes a mate who is over from nz for work.
actually i took him and a couple of people i know from another board i post on to gas. should of taken them to a rave. but then the pikers went home at 1:30am. leaving me at gas alone. saw quiet a few people i know so it was ok til i had a rude reminder of how sleezy clubs can get. im not goign to repeat wot some guy was saying to me. when he tried to get me to go to the loos with him (id sobered up a fair bit by then) i told him to fuck off cos im NOT INTERESTED.
ok so i was off my head but hey the people i was sitting with had hardly moved (i thought id seen them at the raves id gone to so id gone over and said hello turns out id seen them at subbies last weekend and quiet a few events ive been to as well) when this guy pounced on me.
ah well if i go out clubbing ever again im sticking with subbies its still the only place i havent been harrased at (home sat nites is a differant story tho) but gas is usually alot better than that.. guess i picked a bad nite to go there. i was going to drag my mates to one of our lovely all agers. a mate of mine actually went to it and said it went off. i kinda wish we stuck with going to it (we were goign to originally i dont remember why we ended up at gas probably cos the rave was out at blacktown and they werent too keen on sitting on a train for nearly an hour just to get there). I could of taken them to somewhere else but hey im not taking them to anywhere i wouldnt go. (they ended up having a big whinge about gas, i get the feeling they would of had a whinge about anywhere id taken them still. i did offer to take them somewhere else more "dressy" it was declined).
actually i took him and a couple of people i know from another board i post on to gas. should of taken them to a rave. but then the pikers went home at 1:30am. leaving me at gas alone. saw quiet a few people i know so it was ok til i had a rude reminder of how sleezy clubs can get. im not goign to repeat wot some guy was saying to me. when he tried to get me to go to the loos with him (id sobered up a fair bit by then) i told him to fuck off cos im NOT INTERESTED.
ok so i was off my head but hey the people i was sitting with had hardly moved (i thought id seen them at the raves id gone to so id gone over and said hello turns out id seen them at subbies last weekend and quiet a few events ive been to as well) when this guy pounced on me.
ah well if i go out clubbing ever again im sticking with subbies its still the only place i havent been harrased at (home sat nites is a differant story tho) but gas is usually alot better than that.. guess i picked a bad nite to go there. i was going to drag my mates to one of our lovely all agers. a mate of mine actually went to it and said it went off. i kinda wish we stuck with going to it (we were goign to originally i dont remember why we ended up at gas probably cos the rave was out at blacktown and they werent too keen on sitting on a train for nearly an hour just to get there). I could of taken them to somewhere else but hey im not taking them to anywhere i wouldnt go. (they ended up having a big whinge about gas, i get the feeling they would of had a whinge about anywhere id taken them still. i did offer to take them somewhere else more "dressy" it was declined).