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BopGirl said:
PS. Update - I'm going to the zoo with this guy on Saturday ;) aww ...
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Do NOT get caught making out in the night animals area and do NOT get high and play in the petting zoo. Taronga frowns upon these things.

I speak from experience :\
 
sugarpony said:
hoptis:
I'm saying that there seems to be some sort of hang-up with the few - 3 in number - girls I have actually proposed the idea of sex for fun. I feel as if our youth culture - affected by Home and Away & Neighbours - seems to have somehow forgotten about sex for the purpose of gratification.

I'm not in any hurry for this to occur to me in particular. But I ask myself two things, and propose something for the masses:
a) why is it that a relationship is what these girls are after;
b) should I bother pursuing this line of thinking, 'cause so far it doesn't seem possible;
masses) Is there a balance out there, or I am getting all the anomalies
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a) Not ALL girls are after relationships- im guessing its in part those three girls may have there own reasons- or another reason could be, it was just an excuse to say no to you. (not trying to sound rude, i dont know u, just could be possibility.)

But reasons they COULD be after it, they might be at the age they want to settle... they might have been there, done that when it comes to casual sex... and more importantly, girls dont NEED sex like guys do... its a known fact. Sure, girls like sex, girls can have fun having sex, however, if the girl doesnt think its going to lead her anywhere, she mightnt bother, hence saying no.

Personally, i've been there, done that with the casual thing, but nearlly all of the times i went into it knowing it was only casual, but HOPING it would lead to something more... (which is very rarely the case...) and getting hurt many times over in the process.. which is why at my point in my life im saying big NO to casual sex. lol :P

And to El Scorch- do u really think a girl is going to find a picture of a gurning raver appealing to fall in love with?

hehe...
 
sugarpony said:
I'm saying that there seems to be some sort of hang-up with the few - 3 in number - girls I have actually proposed the idea of sex for fun. I feel as if our youth culture - affected by Home and Away & Neighbours - seems to have somehow forgotten about sex for the purpose of gratification.
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From my point of view, I feel like "our youth culture" can't seem to find or look for anything else. :\

It depends a lot on when you propose the idea. If you've just met someone and the second thing you say to them is, "want to have mutually benefical, fun, kinky, ongoing, casual sex?" then I think I can see where you're going wrong.

What I've found works is after the first time you have sex (so you know what to expect in bed and vice versa) but before any discussion about having a future together is a good time to spring it. It depends on the person though, some girls you can just start talking about sex with from the moment you meet them. Anyway, enough state secrets for now... pfft.... not like I have any use for them now I'm a Born-Again-Virgin! 1.5 weeks and going strong! w00t! =D
 
Thanks star_beats ;) Will let you all know how the zoo goes!

PsychoKitten - DAMN! I wanted to get high and play in the petting zoo heheh :)
 
Man, you can only kid yourself for so long that you are happy being single. This no bitch situation really sucks a phat dick. :(
 
The one person i never thought i'd see here ever again is back in town.
The inevitable has happened, Beckasaurus and myself have split. :( :( :( The one true person who was my rock and my life and my true soulmate.
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Sorry, soo many emotions.......
 
DJC: hun after our talk today hun i aint going to say anything in here because it is presonal and you know what i have already said. you know how to get a hold of me if you need me to yak to. thats what friends are for angel.

i do believe and told you this that things will work out for the best of both of you no matter what way they go...

love ya hun. kel.
 
Thanx Guys,
All your support means the world to me, but i don't mean to sound selfish or anything, but the only support i feel like is that of Beckasaurus'.
Its hard to find the right person for you in a lifetime, but to stumble across them by accident, and find that they really are your soulmate and have that taken away from you is quite possibly the worst feeling ever in the world. :(
Beck if you are reading this, you have become the most amazing and beautiful human being over the past 2 years, and i'd like to think that i played a large part in that happening. I really hope you can get over your issues, and find it in your heart to come find me one day. We both know we're destined to be together, so please make it sooner rather than later, for both our sakes.

To those that know me, i'll be moving back to cold old CBR for now, so come say hello, or drop me a line. And if anyone has or knows of anyone who needs someone for a tourism job, please let me know.

DJC* :(
 
Everything I could have said to you I said last night - on monday I'll ring our recruitment department down in SYD for you and see if they know of anything in CBR. It's worth a shot.

Much love, my heart really does ache for you both.
 
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DJC*, I'm really sorry to hear that.
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sugarpony sends an URGENT delivery of skittles to DJC*
 
DJC - My heart goes out to you! Hope your doing okay matey!

I dunno if I can post about my next date now - seems a bit harsh after this bad news :(
 
DJC - he got his grant :( which means i'm in the same boat as you.

aww honey hell I wish things could be different :(


*sigh* at being single again
 
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