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Bopgirl said:
(QUOTE) Backo, I'd listen to your project talk hun

*Please see bluelighter you'd most like to FUCK thread

geez... ive been playing this game all wrong:(

all i have to do is put forward my liking for breasts and women start literally opening up to u.... %)

Bopgirl you would you really enjoy listening to me harp on about my assignments hey ;).... excellent then it wouldnt be pushing it by asking for blowjob in return for an accounting textbook. =D.
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Firstly I just wanna say, you're all stars, so have a star. Yes you are!

LOL

Okay... I did that singles test.

you're single because you don't want to commit


(Complete bullshit)

And then it tried to match me with other Emode members...

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=D

No wonder I don't want to commit.
 
took that test and got "not ready to commit"

i think that test is stupid!! i am ready to commit when someone comes along who is worth committing for ;)

belisimo: giving up a chunk of your social life isnt that bad if your guaranteed a hell of a lot more shags!!! :p

alot more has got to be better then none!! hehe :p :p :p
 
Originally posted by doon:
i think that test is stupid!! i am ready to commit when someone comes along who is worth committing for
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Now ain't that just a load of bs! :P :P :P

doon, you gotta know a good thing when you see it matey ;)

Backo: dunno about accounting, but a good law text book might get you a nice blow =D
 
^^^ no probs just bought the butterworths legislation on coprporations....
*unzips fly* =D
 
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Is it just me that feels totally and utterly inept and not designed for any of this crap? *vent*

It's just total confusion all the goddam time, and whenever I even attempt to figure out what the fuck I'm supposed to do, I end up worrying too much and I don't do shit, then end up feeling frustrated at myself.

BAH TO IT ALL I SAY.
 
But what about not being able to do what you want to do because of stupid irrational feelings and thoughts that you can't shake?

It's harder then... :(
 
The worst thing about being single is having to sift through hundreds of boring/ arrogant/ narrow-minded/ selfish/ religious people to get through to the one or two who share your sense of humour/ are tolerant of weekend activities and who you actually get along with...

And then you find you're just not attracted to them sexually but they'd make a great friend.
 
Dante: I know your situation quite well (well something similar to it anyway)

Its the old "thinking too much" type of thing. And it fucking sucks.
You over analyse things and just think things through in general way too much, are too concerned with what other people are thinking/feeling, and not recognising what you're feeling.

As hard as it is, try and get your mind out of the way for a while... Try and act on impulse as a refreshing change
As selfish as it sounds - fuck how other people feel for a while. I mean, within reason..,
But concern yourself with your well-being, and your feelings and then you'll be better equipped to deal with others.
Trust me. I know its not easy, but do try man.

Good luck.

(hopefully i haven't totally misinterpreted what you're saying... if i have, well... MEH! Someone else can get advice from what i just said)

Heres a quote from a mate that has helped me as of late

"Don't be the victim of an overactive conscience"

and heres a nice quote from Sigmund Freud (a little unrelated)

""It is that we are never so defenceless against suffering as when we love, never so helplessly unhappy as when we have lost our loved object or its love"

Adikkal
 
Adikkal said:
Dante: I know your situation quite well (well something similar to it anyway)

Its the old "thinking too much" type of thing. And it fucking sucks.
You over analyse things and just think things through in general way too much, are too concerned with what other people are thinking/feeling, and not recognising what you're feeling.
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DINGDING we have a winner! :p

That's it pretty much...

As hard as it is, try and get your mind out of the way for a while... Try and act on impulse as a refreshing change
As selfish as it sounds - fuck how other people feel for a while. I mean, within reason..,
But concern yourself with your well-being, and your feelings and then you'll be better equipped to deal with others.
Trust me. I know its not easy, but do try man.
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Hmm, that's actually some pretty FUCKING GOOD advice at the moment. I haven't been feeling myself recently, so I might go along with it for a while and act totally out of character as well... LADIES BEWARE... seriously, beware... i'd be scared if i came over towards you too
 
I think that the over-analysis of a given situation and blowing things out of all proportion is something that we have all been guilty of at some stage in our lives... the important thing is to remember that it is human to do so, and when we catch outselves doing it, we need to take a step back and look for an objective point of view...

People are too hard on themselves these days, i believe... I've taken to just relaxing with friends and seeing where the nights progress to - no stress, no pressure. Fuck looking for someone - when the time is right it will happen, because you will be ready for it, and if your mind is in a state of anarchy, then i'd suggest that you probably don't really know what you want anyway... even if you think you do. (From my experience anyway)

Oh and Queenbeat - it think you're spot on there hon... couldn't have said it better myself. :)
 
Addikal- very well put, bro. And I wholeheartedly agree.

Thing is, if we didnt over-think and over analyse, we'd have fuck all to talk about in this goddamn thread.

8)
 
I did the test and i think it is completely retarded.
It said i was single because i dont want to compromise.
But the retarded thing was, in my respose to one q i said i lived with flatmates and then in their summary of me they said i live alone, i went back and checked and i made sure i had ticked the right box and i had. I think it is retarded and just gives you a random answer.

Anyways i know why i am single:
1. Because i want to be, and,
2. Because i dont like anyone at the moment anyways.
 
As hard as it is, try and get your mind out of the way for a while... Try and act on impulse as a refreshing change
As selfish as it sounds - fuck how other people feel for a while. I mean, within reason..,
But concern yourself with your well-being, and your feelings and then you'll be better equipped to deal with others.
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good advice, that's been my philosophy for a few months now.

i was given the same piece of advice last november and i am now at the extremes of it, yo-yoing between that and being too damn empathic.

funnily enough, i have just been told a couple of weeks ago that i might be too inconsiderate and unaware of the people around me.

i actually consider that a compliment! :p =D
 
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