Bluelight Couples - Part IV - "Start something wonderful... We did"

[Mirage]

 

[Sllip]

Guys your making me cry now.

 

[Miss Peks]

Yeah I don't normally get soppy about couples not working out, but Leecie that post just made me feel really sad.
I hope everything works out for you both.

 

[deeCee]

WTF is the world comming too?? ... sheesh
The impossible happens... Just happens to the wrong people!.. thats all...
There must be something anti-plurry in the water north of the border!
[ 01 July 2002: Message edited by: deeCee1 ]

 

[sweetaskhandi]

well I was going to post something really happy, but I feel a little wrong doing that now. lil leecie, I can understand how you felt about Mirage, I love my boi like that too, he's my soul mate, I'd give up my life for him...thankfully we're still together. The only thing I can say is that if you are truly best friends and soul mates, somehow (even if it's just friends) you will come back together. Maybe this happened for a reason?? I don't know, maybe it's true that sometimes bad things just happen to the wrong people. Hang in there, you'll get through it.

 

[lazer licker]

i'm sad to now!
i so relate to you leecie, i love my steven like that x100.
but to try and brighten things up, i've got only 10 days until i get to see my boi!
He's a soldier in East timor and has been there for 2 1/2 months...
he gets to come home for 8 days! i cant wait!!!
we'll both be at utopia, so if you want to meet the most happiest girl on the night, you'll want to meet me and nixx.

 

[neverwas]

...offers everyone in Bluelight a box of tissues...
'LIL LEECIE...ur my best friend...i love you hun *HUGS
MIRAGE...ur a great close friend too... *HUGS*

 

[leecie]

you'd think it would get easier but fuck it gets harder and harder. i feel incomplete and confused and in a constant state of sheer sadness. its the most horrible experience and what makes it worse is that i am comforting myself in a false sense of security that maybe i can fix it and make it better when that probably wont happen. i am just clinging to hope now which is futile. but what am i supposed to do when i love someone more than life itself and i know they love me back but dont want to be with me *sobs some more*

 

[DJC*]

(((Big DJC Huggles)))
You and me girl, Utopia, talk!!!
I've known the both of you for ages now, and its devastates me to hear this news.
Fingers crossed for 'lil leecie and Mirage
DJC*

 

[jakoz]

*Debates making a breakup thread*
Sorry to hear it leccie and Mirage
I know you're feeling now, and wouldn't wish it on anyone.

 

[*goldie*]

...wow, I don't look at Bluelight for a week, and look what happens? *huggles* for all the sad ppl, I know what you're going thru. We can all comfort ourselves in the fact that it will get better tho! I promise! (do I sound like I'm trying to convince myself? )

 

[lazer licker]

leecie, i know all you prob want to do is be near him and i've been there with the whole 'clinging'. The best thing i've found is too distance yourself (i know this can be hard) and keep yourself busy. Hang out with girlfriends and *try* to have some fun.
I remember the last time i was 'dumped' and i had to (well my friends did) physically stop myself from calling/ sms him. i know it's hard. but it will start to not hurt as much when you wake up. i promise.
________________________________________________
I've got only 7 days, 15 hrs and 30 mins until i get my hands on my boi! wooo hooo!

 

[RobertRollie]

*makes a daring entrance to soppy thread to give leecie a big hug*
If its any consolation hon, I know exactly how you feel being separated fromt he one dearest to you. Its really hard but the pain will lessen over time. The best advice i can give you is surround yourself with friends who care about you and try not to dwell on it too much. *big hugs*

 

[plazma]

I love a realistic "bluelight couples" thread, its a useful reminder that its not all hot sex and whatever on that side of the fence.
Far too many people have such a naieve "the grass is greener" approach to the relationship quandary.
Anyways. Condolances to the now single in all cases.
-plaz out-

 

[neverwas]

DJC: u gotta queue fo r a lil leecie huggles im first
'lil leecie:it does get easier.i can promise you that hun. but all thing take time. you will be happy again and eventually u will fall in love again but the hurt you are feeling will subside.in the eman time dont let it over whelm you. you have friends who can help if you want to talk. or to listen. even if you just wana shoulder to cry on...you have friends...and you will ALWAYS have my best friendship baby.
HUGE HUGS

 

[lazer licker]

This time next week, i'll be cuddled up with my man! woo hoo!
We'll prob be making dinner together actaully... mmm i love cooking together!
And my kitchen bench is just that perfect height to...
chop carrots, yeah!
let me think... 6 days, 12 hours and 30 mins...

 

[GlowGurlz]

*bounces round*
well im quite happy with myself for keepn a relationship goin for over a MONTH...... shock horror things are goin really well.... and i can honestly say im happy in a relationship NOW

 

[CuTiFuL*]

*sigh* thats exactly why i havent posted in any of the bluelight couples threads... because when a relationship ends there is so much hurt... and sometimes it doesnt really help to have to explain to a msg board that you and your partner are no longer together...
*huggles for lil leecie and mirage*
theres not much i can say to make it any easier... but i am sorry and i hope that you both are ok

 

[lazer licker]

Well, just a short post to express "where i'm at".
The past week as been the best of my life. It was a little holiday, a fantasy where i got to spend time with my boyfriend.
Never will i take anything between us for granted again. "Distance only makes the heart grow fonder" they say... well i do agree that it makes you appreciate all those little things so much more.
I literally beamed for the whole week. With his presence, i felt free. I had no stresses. It felt fantastic. We had SO much fun. We are so tuned into each other, on the same level (you know, says thing/thinks things at the same time) *has a toke of the j gesture*
We talked about our future. We are including each other in our futures.
It's exciting.
I'm so in love, and i know he loves me even more
nixx, you're the best.
oceans of love, me.

 

[Russ]

Ahhh, that is so sweet.
It would be so nice to get into a relationship like that.
I am glad you are so happy.