floatingaround
Bluelighter
Hey guys.
I met this girl(her name is K) the other week while at my friends(her name is C) place drinking. Me and K have similar interests and she also smokes weed which is fairly up my ally.
Anyway there seemed to be(what I felt) a connection from the start. K and C ended up going to the pub for a dance later that night I hung out with my other mates as I didn't have ID. I messaged K while she was out asking if she was still at the pub and she messaged me back saying "yes still here. Here's my number call me. I'll call you, what's yours?" I didn't read the message till the next morning.
We spoke each day this week and she told me how she likes talking to me and thinks I'm really cool. I said the same thing back(being genuine). Her friend, C who was the mutual friend In the beginning has been baiting me since I met K asking if I've "spoken to k today?" and she asks each day. She will also bring things up, like "oh K's good at cooking aswell!" Just to include her in convo to try get me talking about her.
C is saying similar things to K in terms of asking her if she's talked to me today rada rada. We are going to hang out again this Friday and me and K spoke and agreed they should just stay in this time and not go out. And then the following week after this weekend I brought up going camping with K and C along with a couple of my other mates and she seems excited for it and will also be trying her first dose of MDMA crystal.
Which leads me to this now. I'm clearly interested and I think that's noticeable some what, but I'm not leading too much on. I've not said anything to C about K either, I'm not sure I will. In the last day I've heard nothing from K even after I sent Her a message earlier. I'm not going to harass her but I don't want to stop contacting her you know? Do people think she is interested or that she's ignoring me and dosent want anything else but friends? My plan is to just wait till Friday and not even message her till then but see if she messages me. I just don't wanna allow thoughts and feelings to become cemented as they always do when this shit goes down.. I guess time will tell.
Sorry for the length. I'm a fairly anxious person and my mind overthinks to the point I make myself down and it eats still me so I had to get this out!
I appreciate your replys!
I met this girl(her name is K) the other week while at my friends(her name is C) place drinking. Me and K have similar interests and she also smokes weed which is fairly up my ally.
Anyway there seemed to be(what I felt) a connection from the start. K and C ended up going to the pub for a dance later that night I hung out with my other mates as I didn't have ID. I messaged K while she was out asking if she was still at the pub and she messaged me back saying "yes still here. Here's my number call me. I'll call you, what's yours?" I didn't read the message till the next morning.
We spoke each day this week and she told me how she likes talking to me and thinks I'm really cool. I said the same thing back(being genuine). Her friend, C who was the mutual friend In the beginning has been baiting me since I met K asking if I've "spoken to k today?" and she asks each day. She will also bring things up, like "oh K's good at cooking aswell!" Just to include her in convo to try get me talking about her.
C is saying similar things to K in terms of asking her if she's talked to me today rada rada. We are going to hang out again this Friday and me and K spoke and agreed they should just stay in this time and not go out. And then the following week after this weekend I brought up going camping with K and C along with a couple of my other mates and she seems excited for it and will also be trying her first dose of MDMA crystal.
Which leads me to this now. I'm clearly interested and I think that's noticeable some what, but I'm not leading too much on. I've not said anything to C about K either, I'm not sure I will. In the last day I've heard nothing from K even after I sent Her a message earlier. I'm not going to harass her but I don't want to stop contacting her you know? Do people think she is interested or that she's ignoring me and dosent want anything else but friends? My plan is to just wait till Friday and not even message her till then but see if she messages me. I just don't wanna allow thoughts and feelings to become cemented as they always do when this shit goes down.. I guess time will tell.
Sorry for the length. I'm a fairly anxious person and my mind overthinks to the point I make myself down and it eats still me so I had to get this out!
I appreciate your replys!
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