Nurse Bloop
Bluelighter
which is fine with me. but how can i explore bdsm type shit without cheating? he's so vanilla he won't even tie me up and spank me so i'm at a loss
Why don't you tie him up and spank him for being such an uncaring boyfriend? Not everyone wants to be the dom
Why don't you tie him up and spank him for being such an uncaring boyfriend? Not everyone wants to be the dom
Well, not everybody is into tying up and spanking. Was that your only request of him?
There are plenty of guys out there who would love to have a girl who was eager to experiment and have more fun sexually. If this guy is really that repressed that he thinks your fantasies are too "cliche and gross" to try, even just to make you happy, then he sounds kinda lame. Even dirty talk is a turn off to him? That fucking sucks. Dude should be at least somewhat willing to meet you halfway and make things more fun, since that's how healthy relationships work.
Well.....now you have no sympathy from me. If you have found a puritanical gay male lover in a world of uninhibited gay male sex you must have been looking for as much. It's not like it's hard to find kinky horny gay men in 2012. Seriously - good luck....