SmokingAces
Bluelighter
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OTW is right charisma will get any guy laid. Helps to be good looking or at least look fresh and like you've made a bit of effort.
Never had that much luck with tinder tbh, a couple but you usually find you'll get fed up quick because you've been lying about everything from the beginning and have nothing in common. It's not like you selected them on anything other than looks there.
I've had more and better success just being a bit cheeky when out and about asking for random girls numbers. You can read a bit more into it then by eye contact (crucial) and bodylanguage. You have to do it with conviction. If you do it right she'll remember you, cheekiest best looking cunt she will see all day. Even if she doesn't like you she won't forget you soon. If you get turned down its her loss that way and shouldn't effect you. Was just some chick in a supermarket after all, right?
Composure is a large part of it I think. Never ever feel awkward. Being able to make them laugh a bit helps break down barriers especially if you can be a bit cheeky to them with it aswell. Bit of cheap innuendo, the flirting will come soon after, you've impressed her why wouldn't she want to fuck now? That other guy? He's a fool, say that, you wouldn't trust him either blah blah blah.
People think there is a distinction between girls you smash and girls you date. There's not to begin with. Many will come a cropper with meeting the dream girl, playing the nice guy, eating up everything they say, agreeing with them, waiting so many dates to get laid then getting friend zoned when they loose control and some petty argument springs up and the jigs up. "We're better as just friends", then you risk the next 6months with her going through your friend circle asking you is she good with them. You don't want that now do you? If it's heading that way do something to annoy them quick or you become uninteresting.
This is not just a lesson with women it's a lesson in life. Sometimes when you want something you have to be able to detach yourself from the situation and remember what you really want out of it. This might sound cock and bull to some but try this, download "the straight line persuasion system - Jordan Belfort", it's the same system just applied to different ends. You have to be able to identify the signs you have a chance, or don't, be able to sack it off not loose hope and get straight back to trying it on another one. learn to choose your words carefully and ti read the signs the situation is going out of your control. It is definitely much easier away from your home area and if they don't know a thing about you, you can tell them whatever suits you on that day.
You'll probably if you spend some time focusing on this it will reinvigorate you. women need expensive creams for this shit. Men just need attention. Try it.
Never had that much luck with tinder tbh, a couple but you usually find you'll get fed up quick because you've been lying about everything from the beginning and have nothing in common. It's not like you selected them on anything other than looks there.
I've had more and better success just being a bit cheeky when out and about asking for random girls numbers. You can read a bit more into it then by eye contact (crucial) and bodylanguage. You have to do it with conviction. If you do it right she'll remember you, cheekiest best looking cunt she will see all day. Even if she doesn't like you she won't forget you soon. If you get turned down its her loss that way and shouldn't effect you. Was just some chick in a supermarket after all, right?
Composure is a large part of it I think. Never ever feel awkward. Being able to make them laugh a bit helps break down barriers especially if you can be a bit cheeky to them with it aswell. Bit of cheap innuendo, the flirting will come soon after, you've impressed her why wouldn't she want to fuck now? That other guy? He's a fool, say that, you wouldn't trust him either blah blah blah.
People think there is a distinction between girls you smash and girls you date. There's not to begin with. Many will come a cropper with meeting the dream girl, playing the nice guy, eating up everything they say, agreeing with them, waiting so many dates to get laid then getting friend zoned when they loose control and some petty argument springs up and the jigs up. "We're better as just friends", then you risk the next 6months with her going through your friend circle asking you is she good with them. You don't want that now do you? If it's heading that way do something to annoy them quick or you become uninteresting.
This is not just a lesson with women it's a lesson in life. Sometimes when you want something you have to be able to detach yourself from the situation and remember what you really want out of it. This might sound cock and bull to some but try this, download "the straight line persuasion system - Jordan Belfort", it's the same system just applied to different ends. You have to be able to identify the signs you have a chance, or don't, be able to sack it off not loose hope and get straight back to trying it on another one. learn to choose your words carefully and ti read the signs the situation is going out of your control. It is definitely much easier away from your home area and if they don't know a thing about you, you can tell them whatever suits you on that day.
You'll probably if you spend some time focusing on this it will reinvigorate you. women need expensive creams for this shit. Men just need attention. Try it.
