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best sites/apps preferably free or cheap for getting a ride?

Tryptamite

Tryptamite

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I've used tinder and badoo before a little with very limited success. As in no action. Could be that I'm kinda remote at the minute. Small town.

Any other ways to meet people and have fun?
 
not gay sex now, I'm a man looking for a woman, or at very least a man that looks very much like a woman, not afraid of a todger if she's a cracker! ;)
 
Yeah tinder is fairly useless, I've used tinder mostly in Milan and London, matched with hot girls since I only use the 'super like'.
However it doesn't even matter with how many girls you match with, it always ends in nothing.

The only reason why a girl would go out on a Tinder date is if she's really desperate, if not she won't bother going out with a complete stranger.

If you want to fuck, escorts are the best bet.
 
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BecomingJulie said:
Not wanting to sound like a ranty feminist killjoy or nothing, but talking about "a ride" like that is unlikely to endear you to anyone. Maybe you should try treating women like human beings sometime?
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You do sound like a ranty feminist killjoy, yes.
 
BecomingJulie said:
Not wanting to sound like a ranty feminist killjoy or nothing, but talking about "a ride" like that is unlikely to endear you to anyone. Maybe you should try treating women like human beings sometime?
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I am simply being honest. I want to find a girl I can hang out with and have a laugh. I'd like there to be some chemistry between us. I know there's a girl out there for me but I'm not quite ready for her yet. I've to work on myself.

I'd like a friend with benefits. But a cool sexy funny one. I've never disagreed with anything you've ever said Julie but I was just being honest I want a lot more in a woman but failing that I just want a ride.

I don't have the money for prostitutes nor do I want to go down that road. I'm a mature student (not that mature I'm still in my twenties!).

I guess if the Internet fails which it looks like it is (any positive hook up stories?)

It's back to meeting people the old fashioned way. I come on pretty fast and honest I obviously don't say I want a ride I ask of they want to go for a drink or a coffee with me, or ask for or give them my phone number. I'm actually fairly decent looking I don't know if girls are a bit intimidated by my frankness (why do the bullshit??) I feel like I should go for slightly younger girls but I've an old head on my shoulders.

Any tips?

I suppose by definition I am actually a feminist.
And I seriously couldn't care if she has a willy as long as she's sexy so I'm very accepting.

Going back down to a low dose of methadone and staying off the gear until I can kick when my course finishes so I'm horny as a mountain goat.

I'm excited I'm hopefully going to study chemistry in September for four years. I'm getting my life back together. I missed out on a lot of sex during my late teens early twenties due to drug use. It's not a crime that I want to fuck and catch up now.
 
I wouldn't take much notice of what Julie. Her name is Julie thinks most women want. You could probably write down her past years sexual adventures on a post it note and still have enough room to write a novel.

If you are failing on tinder there are one of two things going wrong.

One you are ugly, not a lot you can do about this other than be rich or post a doctored photo. Either way the jig is up as soon as your date sees you loading up with free peanuts at the local boozer on your first date. Charisma will still get most men laid but it becomes more of a numbers game.

Two you are boring. This you could fix. Write down the five most interesting things you have done in the past six months. If three of them involve your parents or you were drunk then you have to seriously reconsider what you are bringing to the dating table. It is hard to impress a woman simply via text, so your window to their pants has to be your profile bio. Keep it too simple and you are just one in 50 other local boys texting her at 10pm, make it too wacky and they will understand why you are single.

You need to create an irresistible mystery about yourself, one that has them begging to come along for the ride. You are asking them to spend time with you so you must tell them about the things in your life they are missing out on. Write down a list of things that you would do if you suddenly arrive in your home town as a tourist. Quirky and hidden adventures that only a local would know perhaps. It might be a cool park or a small intimate restuarant that has a quiet cocktail bar and tell a story of a day in the life. It doesn't have to be over the top mills and boon, it only has to be one day in the life, but it must appear exciting enough and with enough humour and intelligence for any potential lay to convince themselves that they are missing out. Most importantly it mustn't send off rape vibes at any time, you have to come off as not giving a fuck if you have to go on this adventure alone.
 
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The only ever good place online for booty calls used to be chat rooms, msn etc...believe it or not.
Took a bit of effort but could be worth it as it was easier to convey that you're not the rapist kinda dude and that you give a fuck for a while about them even if you trying to have two or three at the same time on the go.

Don't try them pay sites, they've got a ratio of horny testosterone raging geezers vs old fat slags with saggy tits of 2000 to 1 and it doesn't help your confidence when the latter don't even reply to you.
 
im not going to be your old woman fubar, sorry. i will however hop on the back for a spin. any erection development would be purely from the vibrations i hope you understand. please send racy pics. of the ehm bike, thats needing rode.
 
is that an actual thing? i had an affair with a married woman with bipolar(only discovered after the fact) for about 2 weeks. DID NOT END WELL!
 
.thaifriendly.com

You may need to book a flight,but otherwise it's like shooting fish in a barrel. Free!

Plenty of men with tits on there too, if you aren't scared by a todger;)
 
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