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Being checked out by a friends lover

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JerseysOwn

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Ok so I'm in a relationship that I couldn't be happier in.. I have a good amount of friends but one of my best friends is always with his girl every time we hangout. I like her and I'm fine with this but she is very weird in the way of checking me out. When I'm rolling a blunt she watches me lick the leaf, she stares at my bulge even when I'm talking to her. The thing is she seems like her relationship is perfect always kissing my friend. This only became a problem when my girlfriend started noticing it and she hates.... What do I do?
 
If i were you, Id bring it up to your bestfriend... That's really weird that she does that unless she has a crush on you? It's better that your bestfriend talks to her about it and see what he says.. If I was your girl I'd actually talk to her lollls Just my personality.. I am pretty much dead straight up honest to your face typa girl lols
 
I just don't want my friend to feel compelled not to call me to chill anymore because of her. I legit wear long shirts even she's Around lol
 
I dunno, I don't think it's a problem. She's not making any advances or anything. Thinking someone is hot/aesthetically pleasing and going in for the kill are different things. It's like taking a long, lingering gaze at SL 65 AMG parked on the street vs breaking the window and hot-wiring it. The first one is normal and fine, the second one is not cool.
 
If your girlfriend notices her gawking too, it needs to be addressed. She's obviously attracted to you and maybe doesn't even realize that she's staring too much. It's going to be awkward bringing it up to your friend so don't bother. Maybe next time you catch her fixated on your crotch, just say it jokingly "What - do I have a stain? Quit Staring!" Unless she's really thick, she should get the message.
 
I would feel like shit if I knew my girlfriend was checking out my friends, but I would want to be told.
 
So she's been checking you out? Is that all? Or is there something "more"?
If you're good looking, isn't it expected that people would check you out? So she thinks you're good looking? I find a few of my boyfriend's friends good looking. That does not change the fact that I love him. I'm not hitting on them either.

Of course your girlfriend will notice when another girl is checking you out. Many girlfriends/boyfriends know when someone else is checking out their s/o.

Now, if this girl is being creepy about it, then I'd definitely say do something. Once I had some guy who liked me who would follow me everywhere. It was when I was in school. If we were in class and I would move two steps to the left, he would move two steps to the left. It was weird. I don't know the extent of what this girl is doing though.
 
My BF's friends look at my boobs all the time. They're pretty nice, so it's fine by me.

Can't say I've ever checked out anyone's package, but if she's just looking at you it probably doesn't mean anything.
 
I don't think it's a big deal or "needs to be addressed". Just reassure your girlfriend that it's not a big deal and you're not bothered by it. Maybe even jokingly tell your gf that she just checks you out cuz you're so hot! Haha. You just need to focus on you and your girlfriend's relationship--who cares about everyone else. :P
 
Why do you wear nice clothes or get your hair cut if it isn't to encourage other people to check you out? Unless she is making moves then there is absolutely no harm. The world is full of beautiful people, it seems a shame to let it all go to waste if you ignore it.
 
I'm all well and fine with being checked out. The problem is she breaks eye
contact to look at my crotch. My girl loves if women drool over me but she stares and it's creepy. According to my girl she looks at my front back and laughs at every joke I say even when it's not funny...
 
You should let your woman know your hers, and that the other girl isn't getting you.
Then, ask your mate if he wants to spit roast or dp his woman together ;)
 
rangrz said:
I dunno, I don't think it's a problem. She's not making any advances or anything. Thinking someone is hot/aesthetically pleasing and going in for the kill are different things. It's like taking a long, lingering gaze at SL 65 AMG parked on the street vs breaking the window and hot-wiring it. The first one is normal and fine, the second one is not cool.
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Spot on, bonus points for bad ass metaphor.
 
The only thing you can do is to tell her that you are uncomfortable with this. Do not tell her boyfriend (even though he probably already notices it, this will only lead to drama).
 
JerseysOwn said:
I'm all well and fine with being checked out. The problem is she breaks eye
contact to look at my crotch. My girl loves if women drool over me but she stares and it's creepy. According to my girl she looks at my front back and laughs at every joke I say even when it's not funny...
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Lol well welcome to our (girls) world.
 
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