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Being blown off here or overreacting?

Right on dude, I'll wait till after Halloween for that. Maybe next week Tuesday I'll call back and ask for it. I'll wait and see if she actually get's back to me between now and the weekend. I know lot's of people wonder why girls blow guys off like this and it can be for a number of reasons. But when we were out it was always a good time. Laughs, kino, intellectual conversations and attraction. Maybe she just wanted a F#ck buddy... well at least I was able to close and sleep with her several times and the sex was good. However, I was actually looking forward to knowing more about her outside of sex as I did find her interesting.


alasdairm said:
call me crazy but try calling her and saying. "hey, i left my dvd at your place. could i get it back please?"

alasdair
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Haha very funny^ Well if it makes it any better, I'm hanging with my friend on Halloween tomorrow who is Puerto Rican and French. We've been friends for a few years maybe four. We met at work (where I no longer am, neither her). I've always had the hots for her and I'm pretty sure she does too. She's beautiful but I'm not sure if I'm willing to jeopardize the awesome friendship we have for the puss. However, we do flirt when together which can be natural I'd say. Anyway I'm going to a spot tomorrow and invited her to join in first round of drinks on me. She accepted so we'll see how that turns out. Two weeks ago we hungout and there was some serious kino going on so not sure how I'd handle this one haha.
 
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Thanks, I'll have to take a look into that. On a side note two things happened tonight that on Halloween that I'd like to share. One, the girl who I thought blew me off contacted me back and said she's sorry for not getting back and has been slammed with work and wants to chat with me tomorrow. I text her back saying Hey, sounds good let me know when you want to get together. Kind of awkward but what do you all think in terms of hooking up again?

Secondly, I hung out with my good friend on Halloween, in fact I just got back. It was f-ing awesome. Problem is there's attraction in the air and I was super Kino the whole night. Windy/ cold here in the city, We were holding hands going threw crowds, she tied it around my arm and squeezed tight, looked at each other with deep attraction and I placed my hand around her waste every opportunity while leading. It's funny too because she's 41 and I'm 30. Not that it matters but she's beautiful divorced for several years and she know's I'm single. My whole issue with this is that we're friends and I don't think I'm trying to hangout much on these terms if she's cheeking it at the end of the night. I mean I know we're friends but I feel like she might be playing games. I also feel as though I can pull her out of the friendzone, she already likes accepts it when I touch her and stuff. Also I'm not spending anymore cash when going out with this girl. The one who blew me off ( or at least I thought she was) put out, gave me hot sex but shady, busy and cool at the same time lol. Plus she paid for shit sometimes like drinks, movies, etc. However, my friend and I have lot's in common. Not sure how I could tell her nicely without being a jerk that we're obviously attracted to each other. Also thought about just keeping the friendship and messing around with her because sometimes I do enjoy the Kino and attraction without the close, but not the cost lol. Any tips will be greatly appreciated.
 
Yeah, exactly what I thought as well... generally what do you do in these situations, go with the flow or bail? I was thinking of bailing or just hook up with her and smash if possible. However, this can be a waste of time. Any tips on the friend?

severely etarded said:
I think the girl who was blowing you off probably thought she had a better option for awhile tbh and it didn't pan out the way she planned. Just my $.02
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Here's a tip. Stop asking about every little scenario and wondering about every little life fart. Just chill. If you want to hang with this girl, do it. If not, don't. Crawl out of your head a little mate, you're spending too much time in there over thinking everything.
 
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