Please be more specific. What is Loafing? Is this slang for being on some kind of drug? Or do you mean sitting around in your boxers, scratching your ass and watching football with a ice cold brewski. Demanding every time you've completed a "brew" that your wife Thelma get you another "ice cold one" from the fridge. You might run out of potato chips and dip midway through the game, in which case Thelma will be required to fetch more from the local Mini-Mart. She'll pickup something for her self of course, with the cash that you gave her, perhaps tampons. You don't like this so you hit her when she returns. Are you saying that you beat your wife? Just what are you trying to say?