Right. Bluelight isn't the place for ex boyfriends and/or ex girlfriends to attempt to get back at each other. As I have mentioned before, place him on ignore and you can forget that he exists. If he continues to bother you, report the PMs or posts that he's making that are bothering you and let staff handle the situation.
Any farther discussion regarding this issue should be taken to PMs with a staff member in the forum the abuse is occurring in, or via the report feature.