And Whipped Dream, many moons ago when I was looking for psychiatrist who I trusted and felt like he knew what the hell he was doing, I literally saw 6 before I found the one I liked. I am still seeing him. I started seeing him in 2000.
He also doesn't make you wait forever. If he says the med takes 2 weeks to start working, you can call him at the 2 week mark if it isn't the right one and he will call you something else in. He is excellent at pharmaceutical maintenance.
Another thing, it took about a year of changing around and trying different meds to get the right combo (which is 30mg Cymbalta, 200 mg Lamictal, Vyvanse 60 mg, I am Bi-Polar 1 and ADHD predominantly inattentive).
Another idea is to have extensive testing. For years, I thought I just had Major Depressive Disorder. Several years ago, I did extensive testing. 3 written test with over 300 questions each, 1 test you listened to and answered 150 questions throughout, and then discussed the results with a psychiatrist. It is difficult, if not impossible, to self-diagnose and things that she may think are inconsequential are indicative of a psychiatric abnormality.