femmme fatal
Bluelighter
Sometimes I think I should become an architect, but not for the reasons you maybe thinking. You see, I like to build bridges. Not actual physical bridges, but figurative bridges, the kind that span between people. I use different facets of my personality to communicate with those around me, kind of like all the different materials one needs to build a bridge. I use warmth and interest as an element to fill the stretch, and empathy and compassion as the brace with which to hold it up. Mine is a personality that draws people across the bridges I build. I do this by being outspoken and frank about myself. I am candid about my own experiences and feelings, and in turn people are prompted to share about themselves. I am this way because I like to learn things, things about people, general knowledge, others' points of view. I am optimistic, I think that even if I don't agree with or like a person, I can still learn something from them. However, there comes a time when some bridges fall. Some of my less congenial personality traits, such as jealousy, stubborness, and bitterness, sometimes wreck the bridges I work to put up. This is when I become cryptic and uncommunicative and isolate myself. This doesn't happen often, it's just one of the many sides of my personality. Although when I display these traits I do not make attempts to put up bridges myself, I am usually prone to having them cast my way by others, and when this happens I almost always take the time to cross them and shake it off. Yes, bridges do make up a big part of my personality. Now if only they offered psychological architecture in university.
what'd y'all think??
aj the femme
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the extra M is for MmmMmmmm
Be Good!!!
what'd y'all think??
aj the femme
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the extra M is for MmmMmmmm
Be Good!!!
