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Arseholes at parties.

Schizo

Schizo

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At Kryal my buddy saw a guy that we met at GC, so he goes up and says soimething along the lines of: "Hey, were you at Gatecrasher?" and this guy turns around and says "Fuck off!."
Now what I don't get is why this guy pays $50+ for a ticket to Hardware Universe, just to be an antisocial prick!
Just wondering what kinda meanies you peoples have met at parties...
Cheers,
F
[ 26 February 2002: Message edited by: Schizo ]
[ 04 March 2002: Message edited by: Schizo ]
 
LOL - how unplur... ;)
At risk of sounding unpopular (who me?) I actually really hate random's coming up to me at parties. They only want to talk to me cos they're all pilled up, where as normally they probably wouldn't go out of their way. It's worse if they try to fucking hug you too...
Sure, this guy's response was probably a little blunt, and when randoms do come up to me I at least try to be polite. But unless you're on a pill too, having some random annoy you is the last thing you want to happen when you're out.
This is why I've decided that I probably prefer "coke head" clubby crowds - in that environment you can just be there with your friends and not have to pretend you like everyone so you fit in. :)
This is Pleo the anti-plur, signing out... :D
 
I cant stand the city crowd (the bogans) who come dressed up in a singlet and stubbies, get drunk and try to hump your leg.
gday darrrrrl, oii think yorrr bewwwwwwdiful, wanna rooot?
*shudder*
Andromeda :)
 
Oh but i thought chixx like it when i come to 'raves' in a singlet and stubbies? i thought they like it even more if i try to 'root' them on the dance floor?
13 yr old grrls in short fluffy skirts turn me on!
oh and pleo, word to yO whole family.
i specially hate it when they r playing a track i like, i'm starting to get into it and some random loved up dickhead comes up to me and starts talking to me, hugging me and telling me how 'fucked' he is.
another anti-plur mofo signing out.
 
*hugs Pleo*
Have I seen you out somewhere before maaate?!?!? :)
It's even worse when you are trying to DJ and that happens. At Kryal, I had a guy come around BEHIND the decks to introduce himself and try and shake my hand. Difficult to do when in the middle of a mix, and even harder to tell someone in a nice way to "fuck off - I'm trying to play"
I'm with Pleo though - kinda. Dunno about the 'coke-head' thing. It's good to see a bunch of smiling faces, as long as they're not all trying to chew my ear off :)
Dan
 
Good example of an annoying pilled up mofo was at at a recent party, Dan u might have seen him.
We're all up the front enjoying pounding grooves banging it out and this dood just wouldn't shut the fuck up and kept annoying everyone, and aparently saying sum very stupid shit as well.
We came to hear the music not get our ears chewed off by sumone who can't control their consumnption ;)
Dont get me wrong, im all up for a chat, and heaps of the other randoms i chatted to that night were kool doods, but not during the main act while evrybodys into it. theres a time and place.
 
Depends on my mood as to whether I want random hugs or not. But more often than not, I don't.
Sometimes I like receiving a random chats too, but I usually restrict it to chill rooms or when I am away from the music.
But I usually have my own plurry crowd to hang with at parties. So if ever I need some huggin', one is never really that far away.
As far as saying "Fuck off" at parties when someone is just being nice... IMHO it just not on.
 
ahhh, heres a story... there i was minding my own business when some random walks up to me and goes, " Hey man!! How's it going! "
I replied with something along the lines of, "Farken awesome man, haven a great time... yaself? "
I was shocked when i got the reply, " Man, what the fuck are you talking about!! " and his happy face turned to an angry one !!
Deep feeling of... something hit me, and i was shocked that this cunt would be so nice then so rude!!
Later my mates told me i was severly mashed and that i wasn't talking properly at all... well, i thought i was at least.
This guy wasnt a meanie, but in my eyes he was :)
 
pleo... im stunned. its not like they want your phone number.
i guess im guilty of it too, esp when im on the dance floor, but if theyre cool and have something interesting to say- im up for it.
but dont try hugging me, even if we're mates. a hand shake and some serious eye contact is what it takes. i hate people who cant look you in the eye.
as for telling someone to fuck off... well if theyre a stinky, dumb fuck, a bogan with a beer in his hand asking were all chicks on extacy are or a slobbery chick- ill politely excuse myself. there's no need to be rude.
arseholes at parties always seem to outnumber the number of bottoms. but i reakon most of the "coke-heads" fall into that catagory. (present company excluded)
[ 27 February 2002: Message edited by: eddi spgeddi ]
 
Random chats are fine if you are sitting in the chill room.
as long as the person is still able to have a good chat.
i have had some of the best D&M with random chat people. As for the hugging...that is saved for people i have knowen for a while.
But at the same time if someone starts a random chat and i am not in the mood you just don't input much in the convo and they normal get the idea and move on.
 
well for me it really depends really...
sicne i tend to talk to lots of people when i go to raves...i often got people recognizing me at the next event by my name as well as what i wore the previous rave and soemtimes what i do as well..pretty scarry huh..since sometimes i couldn't even remember where i met her or him....
but most of the time i really appreciate people throing smilez and hugz at each other...well to a certain point anyway.....i mean...
eventhough i'm off my chops..i could still tell the difference between friendly and freeky... ;-P
but i would never come up to someone and say fuck off when they said they met me somewhere ...it's soo not on...what a dick!!!
nuff said '
ravy1
[ 27 February 2002: Message edited by: ravy1 ]
 
I don't have anything against random chats at all, ive met some great people from random chats, infact @ war of the worlds 3, i started talking to this guy and even ended out going back to his place after the event for a mix on his decks and still to this day we are good mates and go to events and stuff still.
I personally dont see anything wrong with random chats, though if someone comes to try and chew my ear off when i am getting into a track i like, i will be polite but still i will be a little pissed off.
Note: Do not approach me during Jeff Mills, Mauro Picotto or Tiesto @ Two Tribes :P lol
PLURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR....... :P
 
In agreeance with most points made here...but i certainly wouldn't tell someone to Fuck off...for saying hi...that's pretty lame.
With regards to hugging...getting hugs from GOOD friends who you hang with, etc is awesome, but people who you don't know or don't spend alot of time with that think it's the norm to hug are annoying...for both the samadhi's, hugging is quite an intimate gesture of friendship/love, etc, and just hugging for the sake of "raver etiquette" (or what the fuck ever) is just fake and even more lame. Whenever we've been hugged by people we don't wanna be hugged by, it feels wrong...
On the arsehole issue...there's just no real need to be an upfront arsehole...if the person is chewing your ear off, be nice and say..not now dude/dudette, wanna just enjoy the music, relax with my thoughts, etc...now if they still won't shut the fuck up ( i think we all know people like that) then....hehe...go to town, i say!
:D
[ 27 February 2002: Message edited by: samadhi ]
 
Originally posted by eddi spgeddi:
if theyre cool and have something interesting to say- im up for it.
In keeping with whole anti-plur theme - when was the last a goggle-eyed pill-fucked random had anything interesting to say to you.
This is faaarken awesome.
Gawd I'm faaarked.
How many you on tonight?
Do you know where I can get anymore?
This is faaarken awesome.
Fuck off
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I dont mind talking to people but when they come up and all they want to do is ramble about pills then I get pissed. a rule of thumb for if you want people to get the hint and stop talking to you is no more than three word answers and never ask questions stick to these two rules and all goes well.but as for arseholes, while at a party once (a party party, not a rave) I was reallllly drunk so I dont remember it but this is how my freind told me about it, I was standing in the kitchen of the house we were in and some cunt Id never met just starts abusing me and says to his mate "I hate cunts with long hair and tool t-shirts" I mean really! arseholes are one thing but when people deliberately pick fights it pisses me off!! so my freind just said "time to go Harraser" and draged me away.probably for the best.
I dont mind hugs from people I know or even people Ive been chatting with but never met before but it actually has to be a chat not "Hi Im ....(insert name of rolling wanker here)" and then they try to hug you, I get paranoid about things like that....
 
I can't talk in clubs anyway, my voice doesn't compete with loud music well at all, so if a random comes up to me they're not gonna get anywhere... And if they won't shut up even when i'm not paying any attention to them I'll find some excuse to wander off... Like 'I love this track, i've gotta go dance...'
I try not to be too snobbish tho, who knows, maybe it's their first time, can't really blame them for not being able to control themselves in that situation...
 
This thread has just made me absolutely fucking paranoid now... Gawd. Dont know what to say, granted I dont wander up to guys usually.. well actually I wander up to everyone thats around me at the front and say hi and shake hands... :P
Though if I've done it a thousand times (yeah, itd be that many) ive got 1 negative response.. and that was from a totally smashed guy who I wasnt meaning to go near...
Maybe everyones being nice and wishing I'd just fuck off in their minds.... Thanks lads :P
 
Respect to respect... :)
Everyone seems to be saying "I don't mind as long as they have something interesting to say", or "I like having good conversations with randoms", and stuff like that... but how often does that happen unless you're mashed too? ;)
I guess it depends on your definition of a random: are they anyone that you don't already know that starts a conversation with you at a party? Or are they just restricted to those pill fucked tools that are feeling some chemical connection to you where as normally you'd struggle to get the time of day off them? Personally I'm referring to the latter - but at the same time I think that most random's that start conversations usually are the latter...
Anyone that wants to start a conversation with me at a party while straight I usually don't have a problem with, because they're being who they naturally are. I'll take the time to find out if they're interesting and will talk to them for a while because straight people usually have something interesting to say. But I don't really care how gacked a stranger is, I don't want them to tell me about it and about "how much they love the world right now".
Werd to Komplex too - time and a place... if the main act is on or it's clear that I'm into the music at the time, I don't care how nice someone wants to be - I don't want to talk to them. That's why I usually go sit on the matresses near the back at the Sunny morning sets... :)
So in answer to the topic, I wouldn't say that I'm exactly one of those arseholes at parties that you refer to. But I'm definitely a bit anti-social with strangers sometimes. I don't think a rave/party is a good place to meet people believe it or not - from experience I've never gotten a lasting friendship from someone that I've only met while out. In fact now I think about it, I don't think I've ever established a lasting friendship with a total random - they've always been friends of friends, or bluelighters, or something like that where the connection was already at least partly established. So that's why I don't really have all that much time for total randoms... :)
 
God some of the responses to this topic are bizarre.
I'm not suggesting you walk up to people and annoy them, nor do I like people to do that to me but having a nice, pleasant normal conversation, and YES of course in the goddam chillout room or sitting outside, I'm not suggesting on the dance floor since you can't hear yourself much less anyone else. I would think that'd go without saying. Nor am I suggesting that you ask the person you talking to if they'll marry you, if you can bear their children, move in with them or even ever see them again *sarcasm used here*
I can't even believe how often the word 'random' is being thrown around - "oh god, a bizarre weird strange little person who's not in my crew is trying to talk to me. Are they worthy? ...."
A N Y W A Y
Must be an I'm so fuck off cool melbourne thing.
yada yada a million smiley faces inserted yeah yeah
:) :) :) :) :)
 
Pleo: Maybe you've never made a long-term friendshup with anyone you've met at a rave because you have preconceptions that they're all "pill fucked tools".
Seriously dude, look at the effects of mdma. Makes people more open, confident and lowers inhibitions. So yes, they will come up and talk to you which they may not have done when straight, so fucking what? Heaven forbid a bit of interaction with 'strangers'.
"I don't think a rave/party is a good place to meet people believe it or not"
Agreed, their are people who are just drug fucked and talk shit to you, usually i just smile and nod and say shit like "Yeah man, really? Cool. I gotta go now, i'll seeya later"
But i still give em a chance and hear what they have to say. If you immediately have the idea that someone who comes up to talk to you is a 'pill fucked tool' then obviously theres not going to be much chance of having a good conversation when you've closed your mind, even if it is just a faint idea.
I'm not tryin to be a bitch or anything i just find it kinda strange, but i guess everyones different. As long as you politely let em down, just smile and be like "Yeah alright, i just wanna have a dance rite now, sorry!"
Most of em should be cool with that then scuttle away into the sea of other prospective ppl to chat too. Personally one of the main things i like about raves is meeting new people, and yes mdma aids that process. So, yay!
Adikkal
 
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