Are you sad because you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend? (Topic for all singles!)

[Belisarius]

Yes, though my past relationships have increasingly convinced me that I'm not cut out for relationships. Still, I'm dumb enough to keep trying.

 

[itsok]

Ever hear the saying, why go shopping in the dented can isle?

well, being a struggling heroin addict, wtf would someone want to date me? i want to be with someone who wouldnt glamorize my crazy history and look to me as a drug mentor and risk taking partner. However, I have a hard time enjoying mainstream activities like going out to eat (boring, imo most of the restaurant food isn't edible to me), talk talk talk, being around motors and cars,ughhh). ,

I am not saying im closed to a relationship. I just never put the effort into finding one, not my style...

 

[bunnymunro]

sometimes, i think that a relationship would be good for me, so as to be able to focus on other than myself and getting fucked up, however, by the same token, I don't like to be told what I should and shouldn't do...
Basically, if I was to have a relationship, it would need to be with a user, or someone who could entice me away from using.
Also, sometimes I have partnered friends, whom sometimes I envy, and sometimes feel sorry for. Depends on the circumstances.

 

[pofacedhoe]

Hi!

Sometimes when I see beautiful people outside, I remember how lonely I am, and how I'd want to be with someone.

I think I'm actually having an issue with having no girlfriend, while "everyone else" is having one. I could say I'm sad, because of this.

I've never had a girlfriend - it would be easier, if I would've had one at some point, but no ...

I just made this topic, to have some peer support, so I don't feel like I'm the only lonely and sad because of that!

So, how are you? Do you have an issue with being boyfriendless or girlfriendless?

i've only had one relationship (though mountain of balls to the wall sex over the years) so you're not the only one. i'm looking for a friend that i can bond with first before a relationship becomes the primary goal.

yes it is lonely, but you have to make the effort to chat up girls. everything will not land on your plate without you making some effort to get it there.

have a bit of faith and believe in yourself, but you will have to push yourself out of your comfort zones to go after the girl you want

i'm not really looking for a relationship. a baby though would be (career wrecking but) amazing. i'm more broody for a baby that i am needy for a relationship

 

[Noodle]

you sound like my gay ex

there is something to be said about having a "pet" that is also your own blood

no offense intended

 

[kytnism]

po, would you be more inclined to adopt or look for a surrogate?

...kytnism...

 

[datsunfan]

As long as youre happy thats the main thing,being in a relationship can be a big downer full of drama and crap you dont want or need.
Nothing wrong with being single,hope your happy in life.
Theres no rule book saying to be happy you have to have a realation-ship.
I havent had a mrs for 13 years and im happier than i ever have.
Enjoy life,be happy.

 

[Jimmy_Pop]

This is hard to answer for me.

I don't REALLY want a relationship, I've had my share in the past and I've always hated them (the practical details of having a relationship I mean, not the girls I was with). And I don't REALLY even want to have much sex either.

You know what I really want, come to think of it?

I just want to have the emotional experience of a relationship, without the relationship itself!

Like basically I wish I could just go out and find some girl and walk around with my arm around her, kiss her and talk about my heart with her, build a million inside jokes and "our special songs"... but never have to deal with the reality of living together, or planning a future, or having any responsibilities at all. Like that movie Before Sunrise, basically!

 

[username13]

Well im sorry to the OP if you have NEVER experienced one. If it is something you want you gotta put some effort into it, just try a little and see how it goes. I can imagine it would be upsetting to be lonely but just trust me on this, relationships can be WAY OVER RATED? Its like the grass is always greener for me,i get in one and i want out. I get out and i want it back, or to get in another one. Damn cant never win.

So yeah its kind of funny to read some other say, well im too fucked up for a relationship. I used to think like that but then i met some waaaaay fucked up people in relations and well it changed me, but yeah good to know your limits. Thats me, these days staying single is my goal, but stil good to go have some fun not be lonely or anything. Chao cuidate.

 

[kaywholed]

often. I also enjoy it at times, but it becomes tiresome.