^^ Hey mate, thanks for being as honest as I was in this thread! Kudos to us
You sort of opened the doors & allowed my courage to flow. I posted in this thread because it felt cathartic. None of my friends know of my condition, well maybe if they read bl they know now. Cheers :D
![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
I knew there wasn't anything wrong with me, but I worried that maybe other people would think it was unattractive. For awhile I considered getting labiaplasty at some point in the future, if/when I could afford it.
Like I said above, it sucks that people are made to feel so insecure about such relatively unimportant differences of their bodies. If it's any consolation, as a female, if I ever encountered something like that, it wouldn't bother me at all, if I even noticed it at all. Not all of us are detail-oriented, shallow snobs lol. I think you're so fucking awesome for posting that. Not many women would have the gumption to share something personal like that. I really hope it works out for you, and that it's covered and if/when you go ahead with the procedure, there is minimal cha cha pain
That was so cool of you Neo. Your confidence and honesty is beautiful I hope the procedure goes well too, good luck!
Agreed!
No. Why would I? And I certainly wouldn't talk about it, let alone make fun, to a guy's face, like guys have done to me. Why do you even ask? I like pretty much any dick that's std-free and inside me, preferably attached to someone I care about at least a little.
Some of the best sex I've ever had was with a guy with a 4 inch dick, so I really don't give a damn what it looks like - I care what a guy can do with it.This.ThaiDie4 said:
But this is the sticky part... Especially with the job I was in before, it's hard not to compare yourself to others and feel insecure. Just like if you see a girl that's skinnier or has bigger boobs or whatever. It was a more pronounced part of my life than for most women, so the insecurity stuck. I've actually had guys rave about how great my snizz is, and I know that I smell and taste better than average (to the complete shock, albeit pleasant, of my current boytoy, poor guy!) - fwiw, I know lots of guys like my coloration (much darker than most white chicks) and everything I've got is symmetrical and tidy-looking. But that's kinda like how I know guys fuckin love my curves and I'm not fat but I still want to lose 20 pounds...
don't you insult / judge guys based on their size and say size matters and all that stuff?Nice thread topic! I considered starting a similar thread awhile back, but I never had the guts to
I'm glad that you shared this ^ :D I have had similar feelings. Mine kinda stick out too, not to a point where it is uncomfortable or "abnormal" (for lack of better word), but definitely not tucked up in there like porn stars.
I never really thought about the appearance of my "lips" until I started hooking up with girls and noticed that most of them had less pronounced labia minora than I did. At first it made me feel kinda self-conscious
After awhile though, I realized that the only person who made a big deal out of it was me. It was pretty obvious that none of my sexual partners were turned off by it, at least not enough to stop hooking up with me or have any kind of noticeable reaction to it. Any repeat encounters with partners who gave me oral continued to do so. So, really, what was I so worried about?
RnR, you've always seemed like a pretty confident girl, so I hope you don't buy into anyone's crap who makes you think less of your lady bits :D Not that we don't all have insecurities, but I just think something as trivial as the shape of your pussy lips should not make anyone feel self-conscious. It's so dumb that people set appearance standards on something as natural and functional as genitalia. I get the idea of shaving\trimming your pubes or whatever, because that's a relatively easy and temporary change, but what is someone supposed to do about something like the shape of their labia, or the size of their penis?? 8) Other than costly and painful surgery, there's no way to change it.
