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are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY

Are you happy with your genitals?

  • Yes

    Votes: 189 70.8%

  • No

    Votes: 26 9.7%

  • I am undecided

    Votes: 23 8.6%

  • I would like to have my genitals altered in some way

    Votes: 29 10.9%
  • Total voters
    267
  • Poll closed .
I love what I was given at birth. I have been told many times I am big which has made me more confident because I always thought I was average. I have never once had any complaints. I do love the reactions of girls when I send them a picture of it for the first time. So thank you dad for the great dick lol.
 
Happy? Eh. I would rather pack a bit more heat but I can't complain. It is what it is.
 
Definitely happy with it, I get plenty of compliments on it.

Someone mentioned something about it being kind of annoying sometimes though when you have partners that you can't penetrate all the way or it hurts them from girth. It's really shitty actually and it was a big problem in a relationship I was in for years. But then other women love it, so eh.
 
So short answer, no Im not happy with my genitals. I'm 5.6 inches (could go to 5.9 on a good day ;) ), dont have big girth to compensate and have no confidence in that area at all. Actually I have almost no confidence in general, and it shows in the number of times I've had sex. I've only had it 1 time with a girl and had a blowjob from another, both times I didn't blow a load (was able to get the 1 girl off a number of times that night tho, so at least 1 positive :P). Needless to say the girls didn't want to meet again after that. I'm 23 haven't had a gf, had sex with one girl where I didn't cum (prob due to the condom and I kinda gave up after a while) and have a small dick, so I'm not in a great place in my life atm.

I'm trying to improve my confidence by improving my body image by going to the gym. A couple years ago I went from 203 to 165 pounds over a 6 month period and have been trying to gain some muscle mass over the last year with some success, but my confidence seems like it doesnt want to budge. Lack of interest from the females might be the reason for that. Ive been told from a couple female friends that I'm not 'ugly' and am average looking (someone even said good looking, she might have been lying to make me feel better tho) but dont seem to believe it. They say I need to get confident with myself, but kinda hard with the problems I'm mentioning.

On top of all this I have a slightly tight foreskin. I can retract it when flacid (for cleaning purposes) but not fully when erect. This does not help with my confidence when I know I will enter a bedroom with a girl where I would have to get naked. I went to get it checked and actually went to the hospital to have a consultation to get a circumcision, but this all happened in Germany (where I was staying at the time) and the doctor didn't speak good english so I wasnt confident in messing with my manhood without proper understanding on the procedure, recovery ect. Plus language barriers while living in foreign countries for my studies hasnt helped on the 'finding a gf' front. So thats where I am at, dont see my life changing much over the next few years. Sorry for writing my life's story but felt I needed to let it out somewhere and I have no one I feel confident talking to about my issues.
 
I know it could be worse. I'm certainly not small and I have girth but an inch of length & just a bit thicker and I'd be perfectly happy.

I seem to be right in the middle. There's about the same amount of people bigger as there is smaller. I've never had complaints, its my personal wishes.

P.s I have met men who are genuinely small & I feel for them because it does seem to affect them. But Penetration isn't the be all, end all of good sex. If your small then perfect other skills. I give killer bj's according to just about everyone who gets one lol(obv I'm gay)

The possibilities are endless!!!
 
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My vag and I have a damn good relationship. My labia minora are almost non existent, which makes my clit easier to find. (Downside is that it's not as sensitive as a lot of clits. I refer to it as battle hardened.)

Sex doesn't hurt, I lube up like a slip and slide naturally, I have fun flying solo. I'm pretty damn happy with what I got.
 
I am extremly happy,muh dick isnt circucised,mushroom tip have good shape,not too pointy,my japseye is textbook some men in porn had it weirdly positioned.

isnt sideways curved,only very slightly upward otherwise straight.I have these little small white bumps at the bottom of my tip,it helps stimulate the G spot as I thrust back,I am proud of it.I honestly wouldnt change a single thing about my cock,my body is perfect except my teeth I am sad parents didnt gave me braces when I was little,this year I should get some so I will become fully confident
 
I'd like my dick to be a little longer, but i doubt it would matter that much. I want to be a little tighter above my groin instead
 
I'm pretty happy with mine. I wish I were about an inch bigger...not because I'm small or because anyone's ever said anything...it's just a narcissism thing. Size aside, though, I like the way it's shaped. An ex once said it looks like it belongs on an Italian Renaissance sculpture, but bigger, so I guess I can't really complain about anything. I do with I had much bigger balls, though. (They shrank somewhat after my third or fourth steroid cycle a few years back, so I miss having big ones. I'm sure the Vyvanse I'm taking, and the vasoconstriction that comes along with it, aren't helping).
 
My cock is too hairy I think. Like, darkish hairs running about halfway upt he underside of the shaft (when limp far more prominent). Pretty sure no-ones ever noticed (except when I point it out), but makes me somewhat insecure nonetheless.

Otherwise i'm pretty happy. Wouldn't want it any bigger (except for cockwaving purposes), and it curves to the side a bit, but whose doesn't eh (except evidently DOB) :P
 
I have hair kind of running up the underside of my shaft, too, but I keep it shaved. No one had ever said anything about it, but I used to find that I'd inevitably be getting hairs pulled out while beating my meat, so I figured it would be ::ahem:: safer that way. I envy the curve, somewhat. As odd as this probably sounds, I've always wanted to have some kind of a curve to it, preferably to the right. Mine is perfectly straight, and I guess I've found that somewhat boring in the past (no pun intended).
 
Yeah, generally, I am.

Length wise at least, (about 8in), but it also seems a little more flat on top and bottom, then on the sides.

Never had complaints, just something I've noticed.

I also have Vitiligo which is very noticeable on my scrotum and the under part of my shaft.
 
Loner10090 said:
So short answer, no Im not happy with my genitals. I'm 5.6 inches (could go to 5.9 on a good day ;) ), dont have big girth to compensate and have no confidence in that area at all. Actually I have almost no confidence in general, and it shows in the number of times I've had sex. I've only had it 1 time with a girl and had a blowjob from another, both times I didn't blow a load (was able to get the 1 girl off a number of times that night tho, so at least 1 positive :P). Needless to say the girls didn't want to meet again after that. I'm 23 haven't had a gf, had sex with one girl where I didn't cum (prob due to the condom and I kinda gave up after a while) and have a small dick, so I'm not in a great place in my life atm.

I'm trying to improve my confidence by improving my body image by going to the gym. A couple years ago I went from 203 to 165 pounds over a 6 month period and have been trying to gain some muscle mass over the last year with some success, but my confidence seems like it doesnt want to budge. Lack of interest from the females might be the reason for that. Ive been told from a couple female friends that I'm not 'ugly' and am average looking (someone even said good looking, she might have been lying to make me feel better tho) but dont seem to believe it. They say I need to get confident with myself, but kinda hard with the problems I'm mentioning.

On top of all this I have a slightly tight foreskin. I can retract it when flacid (for cleaning purposes) but not fully when erect. This does not help with my confidence when I know I will enter a bedroom with a girl where I would have to get naked. I went to get it checked and actually went to the hospital to have a consultation to get a circumcision, but this all happened in Germany (where I was staying at the time) and the doctor didn't speak good english so I wasnt confident in messing with my manhood without proper understanding on the procedure, recovery ect. Plus language barriers while living in foreign countries for my studies hasnt helped on the 'finding a gf' front. So thats where I am at, dont see my life changing much over the next few years. Sorry for writing my life's story but felt I needed to let it out somewhere and I have no one I feel confident talking to about my issues.
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Dont worry about it (size). I'm kinda long but thin, which I'm told is a good cock to suck or take up the ass. For a while I viewed that as a left handed compliment. It's also circumsized, asymetrical, hooking to the right, up, and has a small degree of twist (one of my gf's calls it "Captain Hook"). It's definitely different looking than any pornstar cock Ive ever seen. Nice color and head shape tho for years I was bothered by its thinness, and it didnt help my confidence at all when my first sexual encounter, the girl laughed at my dick (turns out her first encounter was with a guy about 10" long and about as thick as my then 14 year old wrist).

For confidence, learn anatomy and reading body language. Even if I didnt have a dick, I can get a girl to have numerous full body orgasms with just my thumb and pointer finger (clit and g-spot massage) and my tongue. Hell, Ive given a woman an orgasm by using the bridge of my nose and talking dirty to her while performing cunnilingus! and being able to back that up... lets just say my current gf was a dancer/stripper whose had sex with over 100 guys in her life, and I'm the only one whose gotten her to squirt, pass out, multiple orgasms... the best lover she's had.

Learning to eat pussy like a champ is a huge confidence builder, but making a woman feel comfortable about her body, learning it, pleasuring it, will get you far far more than a 10" dick. Most women dont want their cervix pounded.

Sure, Id like to be a bit thicker, but the only thing I'm not really happy with is my balls, they hang low and are so fkn sensitive as to be a liability during sex. I havent had any complaints with my dick, I have awesome nipples for a guy, and my ass is very tight (guys cans do the equivalent of Kegel exercizes too), and it doesnt mind a bit of punishment now and then. Also have very little gag reflex, so men and women are happy with me. Right now losing 20 lbs would do more for my confidence (and stamina) than any increase in dick size. btw, even if you're hung like a horse, you'll eventually meet a woman for who that isnt enough. Enter the fist...

We are often our own worst critics. and btw Ive never seen a labia that looked like it needed surgery... maybe a good bathing or penicillin (once, yuk!), but big meaty pussy lips are hot.
 
I like that sort of thing one of my exes had this issue I must say I ate her out more then any other because it was funner for me. more to explore and play with
 
Happy? More accept

Been told by every girl i have a gorgeous cock and im average girth lil longer then average length. Im more of a grower then a show(er) and that annoys me but hey what can you do.

I tend to not care about what i cant control.
 
I am a grower not a shower, I guess that could be embarrassing in certain cold situations.

"Oh no . . . wait . . . just give it a second it's massive . . . honest"

On a serious note it has a slight kink which I would rather not, but I am comfortable with the size. I am not slaying Dragons with it or anything but the various surveys have me somewhere in the top 10-25%

I do have to watch in some positions not to cervix punch so whilst every guy wants a bigger one, most do not want to inflct pain.


I laugh so much when everyone on the internet has 9 inches. Either bullshitting or measuring from tip to asshole. Only like 1 in 1000 or less have 9+ iirc

As for labia, most are hot.

Same goes for women too, there is to me at least no set of parts that make the perfect woman.

I could one day get off to watching a thin tattooed chick with perky breasts, but then the next day a woman with a big ass, thick thighs, a bit of a stomache and big naturals.

It's the extremes that turn me off, like super fat with no shape. Or skinny with a bony ass and skin taught over a rib cage. To me a woman is usually attractive do long as there is some shape

I must confess to bring an ass man.

Some guys might like that though and physical appearance is not the be all.

There is a big girl who works in my local supermarket and I see guys laugh at her, like 16-18 year olds. She must see it too. I feel bad for women who worry is much about their looks, there will be guys who will like their body type. I would complement the girl in the supermarket but I am old enough that it would be super creepy.
 
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