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Are women more faithful than men?

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I know a lot of women with good men who would never cheat on their spouse or significant other. They're satisfied with their man romantically and get the attention they need. Some of these women I know wouldn't consider a sexually encounter with another man; even if he was taller, more alpha, had a better status, and better looking.

But it seems the same isn't always true with men. A man's woman can be a gorgeous sweat heart that gives him everything he needs, but quite often a man in such a situation wouldn't hesitate if another beautiful or even a less attractive woman dropped her panties in front of him.

I'm not saying all men with a good woman cheat, and I'm not saying a woman wouldn't cheat on her loyal man that was already pleasing her, but it just seems like a man is more prone to cheat. What do you think?
 
I don't believe that women or men conceal it better than the other. I Don't believe that one sex is more faithful than the other either. I believe that the reasons for cheating are generally different based on sex.

The genders are far more alike than people like to believe.
 
Animal Mother said:
I don't believe that women or men conceal it better than the other. I Don't believe that one sex is more faithful than the other either. I believe that the reasons for cheating are generally different based on sex.

The genders are far more alike than people like to believe.
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Wouldn't you agree that it takes a lot more work for a woman to cheat. An attractive woman can make one move on a married man and he's seduced. For a man to seduce a married woman sexually, he would usually have to go through a process of running his game. Not so easy like the former

Think about Arnold Schwarzenegger, John Edwards and all those guys.

And is there an evolutionary trait in men to spread their seed, and women to be more selective than men. Women have to bare child, and they are making a much bigger gamble than men. Hmmmm, maybe I'm wrong.

Maybe I'm being a sexist..
 
llama112 said:
No, I don't think it's a gender thing.
It's a personality thing.
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I agree. I have had both women and now men cheat on me. A friend of mine also has had this happen.

If someone wants to cheat or does cheat, it has little to do with their gender and apparently other issues are why it happens.
 
If someone is going to cheat, they're going to cheat. Has little to do with whether they're male or female.
 
swampdragon said:
..or maybe men admit it more?

I agree with alasdair.
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That's my point.. it's more acceptable for men to cheat so they are more likely to admit it. A man will brag to all his buddies about a conquest outside his marriage. A woman is far less likely to do the same.

Society has labels like "slut" for women who cheat. Men get called "alpha-playboys". Which one sounds worse?
 
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If someone is going to cheat, they're going to cheat. Has little to do with whether they're male or female.
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Exactly. It isn't any more "difficult" for any gender either.

severely etarded said:
That's my point.. it's more acceptable for men to cheat so they are more likely to admit it. A man will brag to all his buddies about a conquest outside his marriage. A woman is far less likely to do the same.

Society has labels like "slut" for women who cheat. Men get called "alpha-playboys". Which one sounds worse?
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Unfortunately, in this society, it tends to be more acceptable for men to cheat than women. In my opinion, I think it should be equally wrong. However I have heard many say that it's okay if a guy cheats but if a female cheats, she's looked down upon. Obviously not all the time but I have definitely heard it enough times. I have yet to understand, I do think that society seems to be getting more towards "equality", but it doesn't seem to be there 100% yet.
(it does seem much cooler to be called a playboy than a slut)
 
Okay, for the statistical research, some of you are saying that women are more likely to lie when research is conducted.

So, you're saying women are more likely to lie than men? But gender has nothing to do with cheating. That is a contradiction.
 
as said before. this thread has begun with a generalisation that one way or another might be proved by empirical research in years to come but ultimately will lead to lots of sexist nonsense in the current situation. individuals behave as they do and until you do large scale systematic reviews after lots of low bias RCT's you will have nothing but judge judy style heresay of the inflammatory kind.

hence closed
 
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