Are there any othe gay or bi men here who don't enjoy anal sex and can't cum from it?

[Noodle]

Let me see if I can find a working definition of the term Butterfly Queen online?


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No luck with a quick search.

A butterfly queen is someone that prefers oral sex....



I don't personally feel that being a queen makes one a fem, but that is just me. The politics of gender roles and controls isn't really something I give much weight.

I prefer to be an independent thinker.

 

[DrunkardsDream]

OK I had never heard the term "butterfly queen" used to describe a bi or gay man who likes oral sex, some of us call ourselves a "cocksucker" if the man is submissive or into BDSM and a slave, or I guess some people like that dirty talk during sex?

 

[Morphling]

In my experience, it's rather the other way around. I personally can't cum from a blowie, no matter what...but fuck me, yeah no problem.

 

[Letmeworshipit]

Well, I am gay and have never really enjoyed either giving or (especially) getting anal sex. But I love oral sex a lot! To me, it is the hottest form of sex between men, but I completely respect everyone's sexual proclivities. For me, however, I have this almost religious love for another man's cock and love it when they love receiving head more than anything.

 

[Letmeworshipit]

"Butterfly Queen"

I have never, ever heard that term in my entire life and I've lived on both coasts and in the south. Where in the world did that term come from?!?

 

[beakeradams]

From what I understand, you could be a straight guy, that just enjoys having sex with men. I have a GF, full time, but enjoy being a bottom with a guy. I don't cuddle, I don't kiss, I don't get romantic, that's for my woman. So I'm not even classified as being bi.

I watched this video long ago about this guy that was married and had kids with his wife. Military career. One day while getting an x-ray finds out he has fallopian tubes. So he starts wearing make up, dresses as a woman, etc. But he doesn't have a vagina, he doesn't have breasts, he doesn't have a woman's voice, He doesn't have a woman's face, he still has facial hair, and a mans penis.

Is he a woman, or a man? Well according to our doctors, he is what ever his mind thinks he is. I myself am 100% for people that have a sex change because they are living on the wrong body, or change their body to match their mind. I do however find it odd that this guy waited most of his life until he found out he had fallopian tubes to claim this. In my opinion, he jumped the gun.