Once again my parents decided to argue over stupid shit. I can't really blame my Mom for yelling because my Dad can be a real asshole when he is drinks to much, unfortunately he drinks to much to often, he is an alcoholic. But then she turns around and says something and then blah blah blah things escalate. Sometimes I wonder why they are still married lol. But that shit don't bother me at all. I got more important things to worry about and dwelling on bullshit like that begets only more bullshit. Not phased, I'm happy in life now and will stay happy. But all that shit, it makes me think...
If I get married I would never argue with my wife the way my father does. Raising his voice, yelling, slamming shit down and being a run of the mill asshole. That shit isn't right. Why act like that? It gets you nowhere. I don't care how much my wife pissed me off, I would never disrespect her. And that's another thing. Serious arguments and fighting in a relationship? I mean granted there will be disagreements but this fucking manic yelling shit? Fuck that. When two people love each other they should never argue like animals. I mean, its cool to joke around and playfully argue and raise your voice for the hell of it, but this serious business fighting? Nah brah, nah. Instead of arguing, I'll talk stuff out. And my fathers drinking. That's some bullshit. I would never let a drug or chemical come between me and my wife. When you get married you get married to the person you love, you don't get married to whatever poison you choose to pump into yourself. I really don't see how people can choose a drug over love. I have felt the highest highs and I can say with truth, love is the greatest feeling ever, its absolutly magical. If was confronted with the choice of being able to feel high for the rest of my life or feeling the love I experience with my girlfriend for only a minute and never again, I would choose feeling that one precious minute of love. And where is the romance? My Dad never really brings home flowers or gifts for my Mom. I'm not saying you got to bring home something everyday for the love of your life but something here and there that says I love you and was thinking of you is good. I don't care what people think, I'm into romantic stuff, flowers, poems, serenades, all that jazz. Hell, where is the basic acknowledgment of even being married? The communication? My Father rarely converses with my Mom. Maybe if he did he would know how to not piss her off lol.
One thing I will never understand how people fuck up, fight, and become displeased with each other in a realtionship. I see and hear about that shit just about everyday and it boggles my mind because its so ludicrous when you get down to brass tacks.
Seriously though, I love my Dad and all, but I will be better than him and make sure that if I ever get married, I treat my wife with respect and show her love.
If I get married I would never argue with my wife the way my father does. Raising his voice, yelling, slamming shit down and being a run of the mill asshole. That shit isn't right. Why act like that? It gets you nowhere. I don't care how much my wife pissed me off, I would never disrespect her. And that's another thing. Serious arguments and fighting in a relationship? I mean granted there will be disagreements but this fucking manic yelling shit? Fuck that. When two people love each other they should never argue like animals. I mean, its cool to joke around and playfully argue and raise your voice for the hell of it, but this serious business fighting? Nah brah, nah. Instead of arguing, I'll talk stuff out. And my fathers drinking. That's some bullshit. I would never let a drug or chemical come between me and my wife. When you get married you get married to the person you love, you don't get married to whatever poison you choose to pump into yourself. I really don't see how people can choose a drug over love. I have felt the highest highs and I can say with truth, love is the greatest feeling ever, its absolutly magical. If was confronted with the choice of being able to feel high for the rest of my life or feeling the love I experience with my girlfriend for only a minute and never again, I would choose feeling that one precious minute of love. And where is the romance? My Dad never really brings home flowers or gifts for my Mom. I'm not saying you got to bring home something everyday for the love of your life but something here and there that says I love you and was thinking of you is good. I don't care what people think, I'm into romantic stuff, flowers, poems, serenades, all that jazz. Hell, where is the basic acknowledgment of even being married? The communication? My Father rarely converses with my Mom. Maybe if he did he would know how to not piss her off lol.
One thing I will never understand how people fuck up, fight, and become displeased with each other in a realtionship. I see and hear about that shit just about everyday and it boggles my mind because its so ludicrous when you get down to brass tacks.
Seriously though, I love my Dad and all, but I will be better than him and make sure that if I ever get married, I treat my wife with respect and show her love.