Approaching people in public

[negrogesic]

Slightly off topic, I just read this last night and thought it was hilarious:



"Fuentes identifies as an incel (or "involuntary celibate"), although some of his supporters have criticized him for being a "voluntary celibate" after he admitted that he kissed a girl while he was in high school"

WTF

And this part:

"having sex with women is gay ... What's gayer than being like, 'I need cuddles. I need kisses ... I need to spend time with a woman.'"

Although while that first phrase about sex is insane, he kind of has a (partial) point there at end. While I have a live-in girlfriend who I deal with 24/7, and who of course requires a degree of affection, no woman in this world could ever, ever get me to do shit like this:



I wouldn't be caught dead even doing this:



My girlfriend already knows this though (as well as any woman I've ever been with), and she accepts it happily.

I'm not intentionally macho, nor do i aim to be, nor am i politically or socially conservative (I'd like to think that I'm beyond ideology to a degree). It's just that my balls are too big (in a very literal sense) which has conditioned my brain dimorphically in a way that makes me averse to certain things, almost as if it were an allergy (at times exceeding my intellect, such as a physiological desire to fight other men, despite knowing better, etc). I swear, once I hit 8th grade and my balls started to really kick in, I in many ways changed. I turned from being highly social and popular with many friends to having a much smaller, close knit group of friends -- a group I led essentially in a gang leader/hooligan-like fashion with the aim of creating trouble/destruction and doing dangerous things. Frankly it wasn't a good shift or a particularly happy one, but it was absolutely testosterone mediated. My brain is still similarly conditioned, despite sometimes knowing better. It's an odd internal conflict between my balls and my brain (who frequently disagree on things).

But i don't think that's Nick Fuentes problem, he's got something else going on

 

[AngelsandFairiesarereal]

Slightly off topic, I just read this last night and thought it was hilarious:



"Fuentes identifies as an incel (or "involuntary celibate"), although some of his supporters have criticized him for being a "voluntary celibate" after he admitted that he kissed a girl while he was in high school"

WTF

And this part:

"having sex with women is gay ... What's gayer than being like, 'I need cuddles. I need kisses ... I need to spend time with a woman.'"

Although while that first phrase about sex is insane, he kind of has a (partial) point there at end. While I have a live-in girlfriend who I have deal with 24/7, and who requires a degree of affection, no woman in this world could ever get me to shit like this:



I wouldn't be caught dead even doing this:



My girlfriend already knows this though (as well as any woman I've ever been with), and she accepts it happily.

I'm not intentionally macho nor am i politically conservative (I'd likely to think that I'm beyond ideology entirely), its just that my balls are too big (in a literal sense) which has conditioned my brain dimorphically that has made me averse to certain things, almost as if it were an allergy (at times exceeding my intellect, such as a physiological desire to fight other men, despite knowing better, etc). I swear, once I hit 8th grade and my balls started to really kick in, I in many ways changed. I turned from highly social and popular with many friends to having a much smaller, close knit group of friends -- a group I led essentially in a ganger leader/hooligan-like fashion with the aim of creating trouble/destruction and doing dangerous things. Frankly it wasn't a good shift or a particularly happy one, but it was definitely testosterone mediated.

But i don't think that's Nick Fuentes problem, he's got something else going on

lol, I’m a female and don’t think I’d be able to do that thing with the horse either

 

[fairnymph]

Slightly off topic, I just read this last night and thought it was hilarious:



"Fuentes identifies as an incel (or "involuntary celibate"), although some of his supporters have criticized him for being a "voluntary celibate" after he admitted that he kissed a girl while he was in high school"

WTF

And this part:

"having sex with women is gay ... What's gayer than being like, 'I need cuddles. I need kisses ... I need to spend time with a woman.'"

Although while that first phrase about sex is insane, he kind of has a (partial) point there at end. While I have a live-in girlfriend who I deal with 24/7, and who of course requires a degree of affection, no woman in this world could ever, ever get me to do shit like this:



I wouldn't be caught dead even doing this:



My girlfriend already knows this though (as well as any woman I've ever been with), and she accepts it happily.

I'm not intentionally macho, nor do i aim to be, nor am i politically or socially conservative (I'd like to think that I'm beyond ideology to a degree). It's just that my balls are too big (in a very literal sense) which has conditioned my brain dimorphically in a way that makes me averse to certain things, almost as if it were an allergy (at times exceeding my intellect, such as a physiological desire to fight other men, despite knowing better, etc). I swear, once I hit 8th grade and my balls started to really kick in, I in many ways changed. I turned from being highly social and popular with many friends to having a much smaller, close knit group of friends -- a group I led essentially in a gang leader/hooligan-like fashion with the aim of creating trouble/destruction and doing dangerous things. Frankly it wasn't a good shift or a particularly happy one, but it was absolutely testosterone mediated. My brain is still similarly conditioned, despite sometimes knowing better. It's an odd internal conflict between my balls and my brain (who frequently disagree on things).

But i don't think that's Nick Fuentes problem, he's got something else going on

Both of those photo scenarios are super cringe. As is Fuentes. Negrogesic, you need to start giving seminars (we could call it project big balls) or something to help men with their masculinity. The world needs more highly masculine men!

 

[TheGyattDamnRizzler]

I haven't dated in like 4 years. I don't feel like I have anything of value to offer anymore. I don't know what is like where you live but I was always social in like music and art communities until I became public enemy #1 lol.

Just try to make friends with people and communities in general. Maybe something that your interested in and then go out to bars too I guess.

All my major relationship's were people I was friends with first and then that friendship turned into something much bigger. I have never had success with dating apps and advise against them, people just want to use each other on there.

You should also have a strong relationship with yourself and be secure with yourself before dating another person. I try to practice what I preach but it's a daily struggle. You have to be able to let go if needed.

Relationship's are major responsibility that you will have to nuture and manage or the relationship will eat you alive. I wish you the best of luck on your endeavors, if it doesn't work out there is alot more to life than being in a relationship.

 

[Zopiclone bandit]

Hey all

28M been single for about 3 years now. Mostly have been taking time to work on my mental health, strengthen relationships with friends/family and find new hobbies. I spend a lot of my time reading, gaming, training muay thai, producing music, skating and just being outside. I do like going out but am more inclined towards introversion. I do drink but not very often. Mostly just smoking weed a couple of times a month and periodically taking MDMA, LSD, 2cb and occassionaly ketamine.

Ive recently been wanting to put myself out more again. On one hand im pretty happy with my single life but cant deny that meeting another person in any capacity would be nice, as I definitely am someone who does well in a relationship, casual or serious, and I do get lonely at times.

Ive spent the past year working on going out more and talking to strangers. I try to get myself out to shows, skate parks, social events and occassionaly go to the barcade near me. Ive gotten better at talking to strangers and women im attracted to, its definitely resulted in a few new friendships. I try my best to just be authentic. I seem to still have trouble meeting people or getting women whos numbers/socials Ive gotten to follow up on dates. Im definitely not being overeager or overbearing with my communication over text (I generally keep texting pretty relaxed until Ive gotten to know someone better). I havent really met anyone through my direct social circle, and online dating has just mostly been a bust for me.

Im curious if anyone has any advice with how to be more productive with this aspect of my life. Talking with strangers definitely isnt my natural instinct and takes more motivation but I am able to do it, it just hasnt seemed to result in very much. I do get anxious with girls im attracted to but am generally able to still go through with talking to them. I try to be pretty true to myself and go to do things I personally have an interest in (such as going to metal, goth and electronic shows) but also try to put myself out there in new places too (such as a bar).

Im definitely not on some incel/redpill bullshit, and I do like myself quite a bit, this whole procees has just been getting frustrating and im curious what other peoples experiences here have been

I'd sell everything you own, move to Thailand & go train under Buakaw Banchamek (บัวขาว บัญชาเมฆ).

Ive spent the past year working on going out more and talking to strangers.

NOBODY wants to be the person that is forced to speak to the Stranger, Women will think you are some kinda Serial Killer & will tie them up & stuff them in some Cage under your House till you decide to eat them one night.

 

[Asclepius]

Zopoclone B, is like a Dr Phil for South East Asian Incels.

What even is an "Incel"?
Identity politics bs.
Women who didn't marry, used to be termed "on the shelf"...same difference - different decade - same shame-based bs to, control people towards culture-wars, to herd 'em (divide & conquer) into voting for populist agendas, L/R.
Fuck that bs noise.

 

[TheGyattDamnRizzler]

Zopoclone B, is like a Dr Phil for South East Asian Incels.

What even is an "Incel"?
Identity politics bs.
Women who didn't marry, used to be termed "on the shelf"...same difference - different decade - same shame-based bs to, control people towards culture-wars, to herd 'em (divide & conquer) into voting for populist agendas, L/R.
Fuck that bs noise.

Feminists are female incels.
Incels are male feminists technically.
It's so stupid, American culture isn't
even real it's a psyop. What are we fighting for, What are we really trying to save?

 

[Asclepius]

^ it's not JUST American culture (global psy op bs), mate - it's terrestrial media headlines, spread to online media/tiktock/anything globally data driven, that grabs attention for spin to make the cash for bs. It's everywhere.

 

[Jeanpauldash]

My personal experience is to only date people you have met in person.