Over the last 2 and a half years, someone very close to me has been using synthetic cannabis. Now he's added added a new legal high to the mix, synthetic speed. His usage has escalated, apparently until 11 weeks ago, he was using every day, including at work and even when at home alone in charge of his two year old son. His wife has now taken away his cash cards, passport and photo ID, so he can't get money. He has still relapsed three times, most recently when looking after his son. This is when he was able to get money, so he goes to the head shop 15 mins down the road. I've tried to get him to seek help on several occasions. He saw a mindfulness counsellor last year - useless as far as I can tell. He's not seeing anyone at the moment and seems resistant to getting help or accepting how serious things have got.
Here's some of the things that he's done under the influence of synthetic cannabis in particular:
Assaulted a public transport worker - he was held in the cells, no charges
Passed out in the street, was taken to hospital. Refused to give blood, was threatened with being detained under the Mental Health act, eventually agreed.
Walked round the local park singing to himself then collapsed (this was in the last month)
Gone onto public trains and recited poetry to the train carriage on his own.
Gone onto public trains in a wolf mask and barked at people
There's also a general pattern of weird behaviour, saying the wants to do plans to leave a legacy that lasts for a 1,000 years, thinking that some wildlife photos he took are the greatest photos ever taken (they're good amateur shots, not world class). He claims his stunts on the trains are some kind of performance art and are really creative. He'll go off on strange obsessional tangents in conversation (not sure if he's high or not at the time).Wife is considering divorcing him, but wants to make it work for the child and is worried that he will descend into total meltdown if she does. Think he's unhappy at work, unhappy in his marriage and is depressed.
The really strange thing is that he's a devoted father, but still thinks it's okay to get high when he's alone in charge of a two year old. This guy has a well-paid job in the City, comes from top university and school - so lots to lose basically.
So I'm trying to help, seeing if he will consider checking himself in, if not for rehab but as a psychiatric admission for a week - to give his wife a break and him a chance to get his head right. I know you can't force anyone if they won't admit there's a problem and I don't want to drive him away.
I'm posting to see if anyone else out there has seen synthetic cannabis screw people up this way or had issues themselves. Maybe the legal speed is just as bad, I think the synthetic cannabis is worse. SWIM tried it, never again, never said that about any other substance. Really strong, not in a good way.
Suppose all addictions are the same in the end, but worried that the drug has altered his thinking and induced some kind of partial psychosis. SWIM likes to get high and has indulged in all sorts of silliness. SWIM went a little crazy with mephedrone back when it was legal, came out the other side. Nothing like this guy is behaving. Never encountered something like this before, seen people lose it with coke, booze etc. This is new.
This site is one of the few places where there's no judgement, I've checked it out before, more for recreational tips. Anyway, any advice much appreciated, this is really f**ked situation. I want to do the right thing, help someone who is in a bad place. Or maybe people who've been there and are better now.
Here's some of the things that he's done under the influence of synthetic cannabis in particular:
Assaulted a public transport worker - he was held in the cells, no charges
Passed out in the street, was taken to hospital. Refused to give blood, was threatened with being detained under the Mental Health act, eventually agreed.
Walked round the local park singing to himself then collapsed (this was in the last month)
Gone onto public trains and recited poetry to the train carriage on his own.
Gone onto public trains in a wolf mask and barked at people
There's also a general pattern of weird behaviour, saying the wants to do plans to leave a legacy that lasts for a 1,000 years, thinking that some wildlife photos he took are the greatest photos ever taken (they're good amateur shots, not world class). He claims his stunts on the trains are some kind of performance art and are really creative. He'll go off on strange obsessional tangents in conversation (not sure if he's high or not at the time).Wife is considering divorcing him, but wants to make it work for the child and is worried that he will descend into total meltdown if she does. Think he's unhappy at work, unhappy in his marriage and is depressed.
The really strange thing is that he's a devoted father, but still thinks it's okay to get high when he's alone in charge of a two year old. This guy has a well-paid job in the City, comes from top university and school - so lots to lose basically.
So I'm trying to help, seeing if he will consider checking himself in, if not for rehab but as a psychiatric admission for a week - to give his wife a break and him a chance to get his head right. I know you can't force anyone if they won't admit there's a problem and I don't want to drive him away.
I'm posting to see if anyone else out there has seen synthetic cannabis screw people up this way or had issues themselves. Maybe the legal speed is just as bad, I think the synthetic cannabis is worse. SWIM tried it, never again, never said that about any other substance. Really strong, not in a good way.
Suppose all addictions are the same in the end, but worried that the drug has altered his thinking and induced some kind of partial psychosis. SWIM likes to get high and has indulged in all sorts of silliness. SWIM went a little crazy with mephedrone back when it was legal, came out the other side. Nothing like this guy is behaving. Never encountered something like this before, seen people lose it with coke, booze etc. This is new.
This site is one of the few places where there's no judgement, I've checked it out before, more for recreational tips. Anyway, any advice much appreciated, this is really f**ked situation. I want to do the right thing, help someone who is in a bad place. Or maybe people who've been there and are better now.
