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Social Anyone ever had a threesome -?

Omg. I believe in free love (done SAFELY, I have never had an STD in my life) so in college I was in threesomes and foursomes and orgies, lol. My favorite was with 2 other women. It was wonderful!!! But I’ve also been in a groping mass of people, it’s confusing and erotic and satisfying (humans need skin to skin contact, it is soothing)

Then, with my ex-husband, our sex life got stuck in a rut. We were both bored with it. I suggested swinging. So we got involved with the swinger scene. Sooo many times I was taking one for the team, fucking the less attractive male so ex could bang the gorgeous female. But sometimes I enjoyed it. I got to have girl-on-girl sex. We met people on sls.com and we met this chick in manhattan but she was more into me than him. She invited me over and introduced me to some of the best lesbian sex I’ve ever had. Scissoring, the works.

Another good app if you are merely looking for a third is Feeld. Sls.com is mostly couples, but occasionally they’ll have a “unicorn” (single woman) looking to join a couple.

It was fun, and I find it extremely hot to watch my partner fuck someone else. We are definitely planning a threesome in the future. It be awkward, because you have to pay attention to the needs of more than one person, and make sure everyone gets equal attention so they don’t feel left out. But still worth trying, I highly recommend it to anyone!
 
i'd love to have a threesome someday😵‍💫

on the ground rules of:
  • be attracted to both me and my bf!!! not one or the other only!!!
  • we have known each other/been talking for a while
  • know its no strings attached, and will never result in a relationship
  • wear a condom if you have a penis
  • you gotta host cuz my bf's house is small
i used to be fucked up abt threesomes but now that i've mellowed out i'd like one someday and my bf agrees we could try it if the circumstances were to arise. i have some people in mind, but id feel bad abt asking.

another thing is, i'd prefer to have a threesome with a trans man, as ive always.. uh... wanted to fuck one, but have only ever had sex with: one cis man. thats it.

trans women is on the table also, as i have a supremely attractive tgirl friend who is realllyyyy nice to talk to abt. sexual stuff ahhaa. but id highly prefer a tboy... however : most trans people i have met dislike cisgender people and do not wish to fuck one, ever ; which i totally get. however my bf is uh. cis male. so u see where it can get complicated yea.

for reference im a bisexual (male (whether cis, trans, or nonbinary) preference however both sexually and romantically) trans man.
 
i'd love to have a threesome someday😵‍💫

on the ground rules of:
  • be attracted to both me and my bf!!! not one or the other only!!!
  • we have known each other/been talking for a while
  • know its no strings attached, and will never result in a relationship
  • wear a condom if you have a penis
  • you gotta host cuz my bf's house is small
i used to be fucked up abt threesomes but now that i've mellowed out i'd like one someday and my bf agrees we could try it if the circumstances were to arise. i have some people in mind, but id feel bad abt asking.

another thing is, i'd prefer to have a threesome with a trans man, as ive always.. uh... wanted to fuck one, but have only ever had sex with: one cis man. thats it.

trans women is on the table also, as i have a supremely attractive tgirl friend who is realllyyyy nice to talk to abt. sexual stuff ahhaa. but id highly prefer a tboy... however : most trans people i have met dislike cisgender people and do not wish to fuck one, ever ; which i totally get. however my bf is uh. cis male. so u see where it can get complicated yea.

for reference im a bisexual (male (whether cis, trans, or nonbinary) preference however both sexually and romantically) trans man.
also forgot to mention, im mainly monogamous with some wiggle room for sexting friends platonically ONLY / sending nudes and fetish videos and posting them online, receiving platonical flirtation / sexual thoughts, etc. i tell my boyfriend about it also and he's cool w it. our libidos dont line up a lot, and also our desires for fetish i like (i can only get off to this fetish, and while he loves it also, it's not the forefront fetish for him) etc etc
 
Isn't this sex stuff complex?
I don't like to be touched, in general.
So it happened that I participated in a sexual act with two other people who both liked to be watched while they played bdsm games I suggested.
Not something I would like to do every week, or even once a year. But the three times I did were all interesting experiences.
 
Most guys don't know how to break the touch barrier. or go kino.
I find the easiest way to do is to touch the girl on the back of her arm just above the elbow.
as if you're leading or directing her standing side by side.
No more than a second or two.
 
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