Any virgins here? when did you lose your viginity?

[killermunchies]

Btw the poll results are interesting. I'd have thought that us "drug people" tend to start with sex much earlier than rest of population and that I was an exception .

It kinda works both ways. People who use drugs tend to like trying new things, but drugs can also make people less desperate to lose their virginity. Casual sex is quite similar to getting high. For people who don't like chemically altering their consciousness, sex is the only thing out there to get off on. But with drugs, it's easy to feel great without having sex. That was kinda the case with me. I lost my virginity at 19 which is pretty late. However, I wasn't putting much energy into getting laid. I figured it would happen eventually and I was right. At the time though, I was content just chilling with my friends and getting high.

 

[Unbreakable]

I had opportunity to do it earlier but I choose to do with a girl I was in love with & not some random wet hole.... My First girlfriend was named Melissa and she was she was 16 years old & I was 17 years old at the time we both lost our virginity to each other so we looked like a mess.... So we both lost our virginity on a Kitchen floor in her parents summer beach house down at the NJ shore

 

[J.D.]

JD nothing with loving sex I can't get enough no days

Hahahah, damn straight.

 

[neur0net]

Just turned 21, and I'm still a virgin. I'm not exactly holding out per say, but I have turned down at least two probable opportunities to lose it, mainly because the time and person wasn't right. I guess on some level I want my first time to be meaningful and with someone I actually know and care about...a fact which I've been both complimented and ridiculed for by those I've shared it with.

 

[ZombieK]

3 weeks before I turned 19. So 18 lol. I kinda wish I had waited till I was in love like I had wanted to but oh well. You live, you learn.

 

[Eforeurope]

Shit so many prudes lol. Sex is great it's a bit better with someone you love, but it's nice and fun anyway :D I don't know how it is in other parts of the world, but here in Norway we boink our friends (of the other sex in my case) and usually boink who ever wants to do it ;p and don't think more about it. Of all natural things we humans do sex is the most natural of them all. Of course the only one who should decide when to have sex for the first time and all the times after that is your self.. Never do it if you feel pressured to it. But doing it at around 15-16 should be a good age to start having sex remember practice makes perfect.. And the longer you wait the more you are going to suck at it when you meet people that are more experienced than you, better to sleep a bit around than not knowing what to do at your wedding night at the the age of 27.. If god exists (something i highly doubt..) he/she don't mind you boinking a bit.. Old grumpy men a couple of thousand years ago decided that sex was a sin not god.. Screw them and find someone to screw i say!!

 

[rakeone]

I think I was 13.. .off a bottle of cheap beer.. in a parc... funny thing aside, I knew the girl was a garbage..but then I went to prison for teen.. and in a group of 9...5 of us random jail mates banged her.. LOL

 

[acidhermione]

taken a plethora of drugs. never had sex. paaahahaha i'm such a fail.

 

[ebola?]

The results of this poll are such that the response categories ranging from 14 to 21 need be further disaggregated.

ebola

 

[MindWeather]

I was sixteen. Lost it to my girlfriend on an empty football field after dark. It was horrible, but it makes for an alright story in social situations.

 

[chrissie]

22.

 

[AvLad.]

17. A word of advise to all the virgins, don't be stressing. I am a year younger than all my mates who lost theirs when they were like 13/14 etc. and I felt seriously immense pressure from all those around me wondering why I hadn't lost it too. I held out, lost it to an amazingly beautiful girl that I've now been with for 4 years. They're still slamming skanks in dirty country pubs, and not as regularly as they'd have you believe either. I've had more loven in the last four years with one great chick than they had in 10 years with 100 different drunken one night stands. And they're mostly now insanely lonely as well.

The popular opinion is not always the right one. Not saying that people that lose it early are bad people or anything like that, just pointing out that in high school, I always thought at the age of 21 our lives would be the other way around...

 

[bupropion]

11, with a 19-21 year old woman. In 2nd grade a girl said she had sex with me and another said she wanted to but I don't know if I would have got an erection (I didn't even know what sex was then but had just started masturbating accidentally on a piece of playground equipment). I might have had sex with my girlfriend when I was 9, but I'm not sure, as I have dissociative amnesia from likely being molested by my dad's colleague when I was 6 or 7. I know I had sex when I was 11 because the woman and I had a daughter who I first met a few years ago.

 

[Zardokk]

I was 15, just a few weeks before my 16th birthday. I was with my first "real" girlfriend, and we both lost our virginity to each other after about 3 weeks of dating. After that, we had sex about 5x a day for about a year, and stayed together for a little over 4 years, although we never had nearly as much sex as in that first year...but things gradually got kinkier. She broke up with me about 2 months ago on my 20th birthday. It's been rough for the past few months, and I've been hitting the bottle hard. I should be hitting some pussy, but I live out in the middle of nowhere and don't have a ton of friends. All the girls I'm ever in contact with are friend's girlfriends.

 

[Dr3wb34r]

Wow, this thread makes me feel bad, haha.
I lost mine at 13.
Just some awkward middle school relationship, we both got drunk on New Years and did it for about five minutes.
I didn't get off, we were 5 minutes in when her drunk ass friends started yelling for her to come drink more and knocking on the door.
Luckily I knew what a bit of I was doing from my avid pastime of watching porn on the family computer.
Yeah it was a bit young to do that but it's a good thing in some aspects. Now at 19, I am a great lover from getting such an early start.

 

[storran]

15. Ended up going out with the guy for 6 years.

 

[StrutterGear]

16, I didn't love her but I don't regret it. Gave me the confidence towards women I do these days, used to be petrified of women before that. Now I'm rolling in it [tongue firmly in cheek]