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Any virgins here? when did you lose your viginity?

  • Thread starter Thread starter Anonadude
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when did you lose your viginity?

  • < 13

    Votes: 6 3.6%
  • 14-17

    Votes: 73 44.0%
  • 18-21

    Votes: 66 39.8%
  • 22-25

    Votes: 3 1.8%
  • > 26

    Votes: 2 1.2%
  • still a virgin

    Votes: 16 9.6%

  • Total voters
    166
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Anonadude

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Are you still a virgin? If so, how old are you, and why have you decided to wait?

If not, how old were you when you lost yours?

I'm a 21 year old male virgin, and I'm still that way because I haven't had a chance to do change that.
I'm trying to take a poll to see how common/uncommon it is for people about my age or older to be virgins.
 
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I was 18, I was with the guy for a year, we were each others firsts. Was with him for three years but I have moved on. I don't regret it.
 
Are you still a virgin? If so, how old are you, and why have you decided to wait?
yeah, mid twenties, because pre marital sex is a sin.
 
Lost my virginity when I was 18 with my girlfriend of 2 years. Just turned 25 last month.

Honestly though, its not like some magical change happens to you once you lose your virginity. Its really not that significant except when you're actually in the moment, having sex.
 
I was 16 with my first boyfriend. Hurt a lot, and I bled for a week. Took a while after that for sex to actually be enjoyable.
 
21, still a virgin, because I haven't found a guy worthy of my sex goddessness. XD No, really.
 
17.

My brother is your age - he's still a virgin. He's just a shy lad, but there's nothing wrong with it - he just doesn't know how to release his inner animal enough.

Learn how to be more animalistic, don't second guess yourself, don't be scurrr'd and just keep it real. You'll get laid if you really really want it, when you're ready.

Nothing wrong with being shy, just accept it's an obstacle, and work on it - if you don't work on it, it won't change anytime soon, and you'll attract people you aren't really into...which is OK to start with, but if you get to THIRTY-one, and you've not had enough relationship experience, chances are you'll settle for the wrong person, and years later you'll be kicking yourself.##

Carpe diem - or just seize some ass.
 
Lost mine at 18, I am still good friends with him but we weren't in love or anything, just curious and horny enough to fool around beyond cuddling for once. Its the closest you can be to a person and an incredible way to bond, so don't be in a hurry to lose it to someone random.
 
Lost it a month before my 15th birthday. I remember this, cause it was a birthday gift from my GF at the time. We both lost our virginity together. I'm now almost 21.
 
Its the closest you can be to a person and an incredible way to bond, so don't be in a hurry to lose it to someone random.

I would have to disagree. You can be much closer(physical proximity maybe not lol) to someone in other ways of being intimate, just depends on the relationship with the other person (watch Doug Stanhope's Oslo show where he talks about fucking...and then how he helped a female friend of his when she had recently had a mastectomy, I tried to find a link to a clip...but ail - it;'s a great show regardless).
 
About a week after i turned 20, she was 24.. had a few good weeks that followed.
 
I was 15. Now I'm 20 and god I wish I had waited a lot more. I woudn't mind being a virgin today, it did bug me when I was 15 and I rushed into it waaay too much.

edit: it meant absolutly nothing for me, maybe that's why I don't think it is a big deal. It might be a big deal if you do it with the right person in the right context.
 
20, still a virgin.

Chance hasn't really arisen, and yeaa it feels a bit shitty at times but I don't think its hugely rare, I know for a certain a couple of friends are, although most aren't.
 
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