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Any guys masturbate WITHOUT ejaculating?

UnSquare said:
I've recently been practicing a technique
where you retain your semen when you ejaculate.

You still ejaculate but you apply pressure
across-ways with a coupla fingers
bellow your scrotum in that space
between your testicles and your anus.

It requires a fair amount of discipline,
you gotta also grab the top of your penis
breathe in + hold as you cum,
then apply pressure downwards and
wait for it be be reabsorbed into your body

That takes about a minute.
Deep breathing + massage help this.

It takes a coupla months to get used to this.
Your brain is seriously hardwired to want to get
it out.

But the difference once you get used to it is phenomenal.
Both physically + energetically.

That spent, tired feeling that you have after
you ejaculate, regardless of whether you realise it's there,
is gone.

It seems that absorbing the proteins et al does
majorly mad things for your genitals, too.
My dicks bigger, both flacid + erect,
and my whole, well, genital region looks vastly healthier
from just two months of daily/twice daily practice.

This can be practiced with a partner, too,
something I'm working on...
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its going into your bladder and being pissed out afterwards. You are still releasing prolactin (the hormone that makes you sleepy/lethargic after orgasm) but your mind is tricking you into thinking that different things hormonally are going on.

I think there are tantric methods to recirculate prana in your body...but forcing your ejaculate back up into your bladder is not one of them lol!!!!
 
Matsuo Munefusa. said:
As I matured I began to realize that sex could be something else entirely than a bareback horse race to the orgasm. You could look your partner in her eyes and lock focus on her feelings and her internal joy in the lovemaking. You could position yourself delicately over her and kiss her lips eyes cheeks neck and breasts. You could whisper sentences into her ear about what you thought of her and what you imagined in the future. You could explore her body with your fingertips and tongue and lips, lingering in places that she found erogenous. You could make her wet with your tongue by finding the places she delighted in having pressure and gentle flicking rhythm applied to. Then you could slide your rock hard dick inside of her and let her grab ahold of you and act out symbolically everything she felt for you and you felt for her, hugging her tightly arching her back off the bed, her legs wrapped tightly around you, chest heaving, moaning, compassionate strokes against her G-spot, pausing and lingering in her wetness, embracing each other and exchanging "I love you"s. Focusing into her eyes and imagining the future with her, REALLY seeing the life you will create together. Remaining hard inside of her and stroking her vagina with steady rhythm, just how she wants it right then. Feeling your cum ready in your testicles, ready to spring out, the seed of the possible life you two can create, right then, right there, together. Holding on the edge of the explosion of this seed into her. Locking eyes with her, right hand under her body gently raising her torso toward your own, her body arching sexily off the bed, as deep as possible inside of her, feeling the opening of her cervix dilated to you, hungrily asking, begging, please, please, please fill me.
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you're the best bro <3

I'm so printing this out
 
Over the last few months i've been playing around (hur) with bringing myself to orgasm, backing off and using that muscle that i can best describe as 'somewhere between squeezing your cheecks and holding in your pee' letting the waves roll over the back of my neck and lower region, allow it to subside just a little then doing it over again. I took myself to 50 once and i swear it shot 10 meters.
Amazingly rewarding if you have the patience. ;)
 
Matsuo Munefusa. said:
its going into your bladder and being pissed out afterwards. You are still releasing prolactin (the hormone that makes you sleepy/lethargic after orgasm) but your mind is tricking you into thinking that different things hormonally are going on.

I think there are tantric methods to recirculate prana in your body...but forcing your ejaculate back up into your bladder is not one of them lol!!!!
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So you saying that the ejaculate leaves your body but
the prana continues recirculating?

I would be positing that the ejaculate is the physical
correspondence to the energetic structure of the prana itself,
you would say they aren't linked?

I've been practicing breathing + energetic visualization/circulation during/also.

Do you have any personal experience with actually retaining the semen, or any links that can, say, show that the sperm is being urinated out of the body?
 
I think the prana is linked to whether or not your brain releases prolactin to flood your system. If you ejaculate your brain is going to signal prolactin release.

No ejaculation and no prolactin.
 
^
?

"In Vedantic philosophy, prana is the notion of a vital, life-sustaining force of living beings and vital energy, comparable to the Chinese notion of Qi. Prana is a central concept in Ayurveda and Yoga where it is believed to flow through a network of fine subtle channels called nadis. Its most subtle material form is the breath, but it is also to be found in the blood, and its most concentrated form is semen in men and vaginal fluid in women." -wiki

What I'm sayin' is semen
is more like a physical outpicturing of the
prana, prana made material.

If you ejaculate without letting the semen leave your body
(you actually come, you release the sperm
but it does not come out the end of your penis)
(while practicing bhavana
exercises that circulate the energy too)
you still feel orgasm,
in fact the orgasms I'm now experiencing
are much more powerful than ever before,
but the energetic sensation afterwards is VERY different.

Try it.
 
I've tried it and failed imo its dangerous for your sexual health. Semen is not meant to be backed up under pressure into your bladder. I think what you are doing is dangerous for you and you should reconsider.

imo the best way to conserve prana is to not ejaculate. Ejaculation is not necessary for sexual pleasure (refer to my earlier post in this thread! I love sexualintercourse without ejaculation for increasing prana and a way to bond with your mate).

If you are bothered by the post-orgasm feeling then perhaps you should investigate a prolactin inhibitor. These are dopamine D2 agonists they strongly inhibit prolactin from being released...cabergoline...pramipexole.
 
Matsuo Munefusa. said:
I've tried it and failed imo its dangerous for your sexual health..
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Thanks,
but I'm trying,
succeeding
+ it's doing great things.

Ejaculation is not necessary for sexual pleasure
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100% agree.
Using this method takes the focus further
away from the moment of ejaculation.
NB. Love your work on the previous page.

If you are bothered by the post-orgasm feeling then perhaps you should investigate a prolactin inhibitor.
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I'm not,
just noting what I experienced
before employing this technique
+ after.
 
I do this (masturbate without ejaculating) all the time, especially since I get really REALLY unusually drained and sick after ejaculation (look up POIS, or Post-Orgasmic Illness Syndrome).

I used to do it before I had POIS, though, because it would make the eventual orgasm a hell of a lot stronger.

Sometimes getting aroused without climaxing is energizing if you intend to harness the energy and expansive feeling toward your well-being. I notice that I am able to breathe more deeply after being aroused, and I feel energy moving more through my body.

I love getting aroused without acheiving orgasm.
My girlfriend on the other hand HATES it. Makes her feel awful.
I think I hate it too, but I like the result I get for myself, if you know what I mean.
 
thanks for the info!

Matsuo Munefusa, curious what your take on this is. I know it's different for all guys especially as we get older. But generally speaking, for a guy in his late 20's to mid 30's, how often should he ejaculate? I've read once every two weeks.

Also have you ever read Think and Grow Rich? A very interesting chapter "sexual transmutation." Gist of it is how many successful men became successful in their later years when their sexual energies were diverted to other areas of life rather than just chasing tail.
 
Jeez, I'm so shallow. Sex with myself or with a woman without an orgasm is like decaf coffee or non-alcoholic beer. Some of you folks have amazing discipline!8o
 
Only if im drunk/on drugs/have done it 8 times that day already (dont do that anymore, but boy was i one horny teenager).

happens semi-frequently when im having sex, because i usually try to put off cumming, and if i dont do it within the first 15-20 minutes, i usually wont. not that i mind...still feels good fucking a girl for an hour or more.

have gotten blue balls from doing that a couple times though....worst feeling ever. like getting kicked in the balls repeatedly for several hours.
 
Its very hard (pun)

It is very hard (pun) but its worth practicing, I started a couple months ago and I cant do it yet but my stamina has increased a lot. You get yourself close to climax then slow down or stop for like 30 seconds then start again and repeat. The key is to focus on your muscles and try to control them rather than let them spasm.

Its the muscles you use to take a piss and stop midstream, one way is pushing and the other is holding back. Also when you do it dont think about cumming try to just focus on the muscles as best as you can.

Sorry for being so graphic but as a guy I feel the need to pass this info to other guys. I used to cum embarrassingly fast, first time I lasted about 15 seconds, a month or two later a few minutes, then after a couple years I peaked at around 7 minutes. Then I started "practicing" for 2 and a half months and now I can completely control orgasm for a little over ten minutes and then I can last for 5-10 more. Sex is a physical and mental activity no different than any other skill or sport (from a biological standpoint) so it makes sense that practicing will make you better.

The one thing I must stress is commitment. You have to do this everyday for around a month to notice results because you are training your muscles but more importantly your brain. Our brain is wired to cum quickly because back in the day if you came quickly you were more likely to get pregnant and evolution took its path, in modern times this isnt the case but we are talking about millions of years of evolution so training your brain against this is not easy, but it is doable.
 
toocrazy2yoo said:
Jeez, I'm so shallow. Sex with myself or with a woman without an orgasm is like decaf coffee or non-alcoholic beer. Some of you folks have amazing discipline!8o
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I think he's talking about having an orgasm without ejaculating, apparently if you can master this technique then not only can you last forever but you can have multiple orgasms in one standing.
 
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