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SFLraver

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So I was wondering if anyone has any Anxiety disorders and if so how did you seek treatment. I think I have some sort of anxiety problem. Everyday not all day but at least once or more times a day I am severely worried and stressed. I always think about death, weather it be my death or the death of people close to me. I think about what would happen to me if they died or got seriously ill. I think crazy stuff then I worry myself sick about it. If my phone rings too late at night I totally freak out and once I know everything is ok i have to calm myself down. I always think something bad is going to happen. I get nervousness and shaky sometimes too. My boyfriend says I worry too much but I can't control my thoughts. Sometimes it's overwhelming. Sometimes I am completely fine. I just fell anxious and worried all the time. I am kinda introverted when you first meet me and I am afraid to approach a doctor about it because I think there gonna think I am just making this shit up to get Xanax or something. Also I don't know if I should talk to my regular doctor or should I talk to some other type of doctor. If you met me you would never think anything was wrong, I am normally a very happy funny person. All my anxiety is in my head you know? Any advice would help
 
SFLraver

Firstly, be reassured that your not alone in what you feel. Actually, millions of people world wide deal with these very same symptoms everyday. I deal with these symptoms everyday. Anxiety is a very mentally frustrating and often hard to cope with experience. Especially when it effects you on a constant basis.

You do have several options that you can look at to help rectify the anxiety. Depending on how severe the anxiety is, and how you personally cope with it will help to determine your best treatment.

Firstly, if the anxiety is relatively mild, then you may want to try a natural way to help relieve the anxiety. I'm currently doing this and even though at times I feel like "Oh my God, I can't handle this" I still try and mentally pull myself through it.

I've found the combination of 2 natural medicines has helped work wonders for me. These are, 5-HTP for seritonin production and St John Worts, which helps with mild anxiety and depression, and helps effectively manage the seritonin in the brain.

Exercise is also very helpful. I know this is said often, but honestly it is. I started swimming each day and after swimming I would find myself on a bit of a natural high and my brain woulden't be thinking about these "false conditions" that I made up in my head.

You could also make a visit to your local doctor and talk about your current condition, the type of symptoms you are experiencing and his recommendation. He may recommend you start an anti-anxiety medication AND OR see a psychiatrist to talk more about what is subconciously upsetting you and how to effectively deal with these issues.

I'd really recommend trying to look at any alternative other then medications. For obviously reasons, medications have side effects and in my personal opinion are not the best option. However in saying that, medication maybe your only option if your anxiety is severe or persistent.

You mention that the doctor may prescribe you Xanax (Diazepam) or Valium. These are wonderful drugs for relieving anxiety BUT they are not a cure. They are simply a bandaid solution which takes away the anxiety momentarly but in return often causes another problem with is dependency on the drug. Being dependant on Diazepam is BAD. The withdrawl from diazepam is HELL. You don't want to spend your life relying on Xanax/Valium to keep you mentally stable.

Also - Don't be in the opinion that Xanax or Valium has a lot of recreational value. I will admit the first few times these drugs are used you will feel quiet relaxed and nice, calm and soothed but after about the first week of treatment these drugs simply just relax and calm you down. They don't have much of a recreational use when used for treatment. Tolerence builds MEGA fast to this drug.

The addiction to the drug Xanax/Valium is not one of a craving for it, but more an addiction that you need it to cope through your average day. You can't handle being in the outside world without it. So there for the addiction is very much not worth it.

My recommendation is to steer well clear of diazepam unless it's for a very short treatment time and I'd only use it when really needed. I promise you do become dependent on it very quickly and I've battled the withdrawl myself before which is extremely UNCOOL.

Anxiety can make you feel the worst in the world. It's such a scary experience. I often had the feeling as though I was about to die, or have a heart attack. I also mentally believed that I had some underlying health condition and made several visits to the doctor complaining of all different symptoms. If you experience this yourself, then normally it's an exageration of your normal bodily functions. When you panic you can often have an increased heart rate, shortness of breath, tightness in the chest, nausea, light headedness, an extreme feeling of fear, of dying, a disassocaition from the world. It's all very scary, but in saying that, it's all very mental.

The other thing is a well balanced diet. Try and eat well and balance your diet well. Avoid coffee, chocolate drinks, and fizzy drinks. Try and drink a lot of water and avoid high intakes of sugar.

Theres a lot of research material on the web about battling Anxiety and I think you should take the time to read some of it and familarize yourself with the condition.

But honestly, a trip to your local doctor woulden't do any harm and you can ask what treatments are available by avoiding medication. I'd be very suprised if the doctor prescribed anti-anxiety meds on the first visit. They should really try and offer you natural alternatives for coping with such a conidition first.

Let us know how you get on and please feel free to PM me if you have any questions, or need anymore information.

I really feel for for, I know how horrible it is to live with this awful thing that you feel you have no control over.


Keep smiling...

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shals..
 
Hi

Totally agree with shal

Firstly, you are not alone, after being diagnosed with General anxiety disorder, the first suprising thing is that you discover the person sitting 3 chairs away from you has the same thing, yet they look physically normal

In summary I totally agree with shal and what they've said

For about 4 months on and off I would get these acute anxiety attacks where for about 10 mins I get these internal panic atttacks (thinking going to die for no reason sort of thing)

Here are a few tips I can offer from my experience

The bigest mistake I made was not going to the doctor early enough. I let in lapse and get more stronger and more frequent - it gets harder to shake off the longer you leave it (like smoking)

I was under heaps of stress at the time and you name it, I'd experienced it on the stress test, Then what set me over the edge was using esctacy and this just totally fucked the anxiety levels into overwhealming levels

6 months since then I have leaned to manage it 80% of the time , although sometimes it just takes over and you can't stop feeling overwhealmed for no reason

Few tips - xanax is good when you have a really bad day and can't seem to shake it, and it is a good temporarily relief - but doesn't fix it or cure it, just gives you a couple of hours of feeling normal, how you used to be before this started happening
It is very easy to rely on it to get you through the day to feel normal, but in a very short time you need more and that's where you don't want to go

I on occasion have one on average every 10 days or so, but these are just really bad days and are like a back up incase all else fails

Antidepressents - i had 2 weeks work of these (zoloft) - the side effects I can say are terrible and were pretty much like the onset of an e, jaw clenching, lack of sleep etc, so I stoped taking those and wouldn't recommend them

Anxiety management clinic, a couple of sessions of this will be good to meet other people who are just like you, they teach you how to change your thinking. So when the anxiety happens you say, "so what", rather than , "shit , there it is again , my head is going to exploide"

A phschologist and phycharist can help you to and extent, not with my experience I found not one sole person can tell you everything you need to know

Exercise - every day 20 mins - not exhausting but at least something - help keeps the adrenaline from pumping through your body when your trying to sleep and I find calms the nerves

Don't drink coke, or V drinks or anything , that's a big no no and send you
into twitch land

I have tried 5htp for about a month but found it to not do anything really

I am trying this stuff called becalmed which not only has serotonin but all the other brain food chemicals so I am praying that it works

I also chcek this forum to see if there is a micicle cure but am still waiting for one.

Hopefully you can get it early enough before it takes over your life

eng
 
SFLraver said:
So I was wondering if anyone has any Anxiety disorders and if so how did you seek treatment. I think I have some sort of anxiety problem. Everyday not all day but at least once or more times a day I am severely worried and stressed. I always think about death, weather it be my death or the death of people close to me. I think about what would happen to me if they died or got seriously ill. I think crazy stuff then I worry myself sick about it. If my phone rings too late at night I totally freak out and once I know everything is ok i have to calm myself down. I always think something bad is going to happen. I get nervousness and shaky sometimes too. My boyfriend says I worry too much but I can't control my thoughts. Sometimes it's overwhelming. Sometimes I am completely fine. I just fell anxious and worried all the time. I am kinda introverted when you first meet me and I am afraid to approach a doctor about it because I think there gonna think I am just making this shit up to get Xanax or something. Also I don't know if I should talk to my regular doctor or should I talk to some other type of doctor. If you met me you would never think anything was wrong, I am normally a very happy funny person. All my anxiety is in my head you know? Any advice would help


honestly, i think this sounds alot more like depression then it does just anxiety..

you may be best to try something like paxil or lexapro. I have quite a bit of anxiety myself... my doctor keeps pushing these meds instead of xanax etc.
becaues they are closely related. For me, i don't have the symptoms of worry or death etc. and that type of thing really

its more like...i can't make a phone call.. someone has to call me first. i can't walk into a business that i myself OWN. if i feel like i know there is certain customers im going to have to talk to that day. i'll avoid it..ill avoid the stree that goes to it! becaues its like a 1000 lbs of stress just thinking of the idea.. of doing something simple..
only thing that eases that type of anxiety for me is such things as the xanax. these other meds dont do anything for me at all. hell to be honest, even the xanax or anything doesnt help most of the time. but what you say, is very common and very easily treated among millions



yet i know people, who take these meds for depression and symptoms like you say. and they feel like there now living there own life and are happy as hell.
I would suggest looking into the SSRis, for a long-term/short-term zoloft/paxil type medication. it may be the cure for you.
 
I have recently purchased 5-htp and I have found it to be helpful. I have also been working out regularly for the last 5 weeks and I eat right 90% of the time. When I am at work during the day I am usually fine unless I am really stressed out or if something is on my mind. Most of my anxiety happens when I am home thinking or at night when I try to go to sleep. I really don't want to be on anti-depressants. I have seen to many people have negative effects from it. I read a thread here on BL and someone was talking about panick attacks. Do you think if I don't see a doctor and just try to handle it on my own I might have a panick attack?

You all have some great ideas on how I can try to manage it on my own. If I had to take a medicine I would try to handle it like ENG said. Take a xanax only in a emergency situation where I might feel like I am losing control. I just feel like if I go see a doctor about this that now I am a crazy person. Someone who can't handle their emotions. I think I am going to try and keep using supplements and when I see my doctor on the 29th for my regular check up I will ask her what she thinks. I just hope I have the courage to talk to her about it. Thanks everyone :)
 
good idea - the doctor

make sure you get a basic check up, blood tests etc and make sure it's nothing physical

Don't be embarresed to tell the doctor anything as they get paid all day to listen to embarrasing things
Until you go to the doctor and eliminate any physical things ,you may work yourself into a state of wondering what is wrong with me and have an attack, so it's best to go in early and get it out of the way

I don't actually experience panic attacks where I am hyperventalting and things like that, I get severe anxiety attacks where you are so nervous on the inside. I can be having an attack whilst I am putting on an act to someone whilst I am talking to them that I am perfectly calm and relaxed. A skill leaned after about 280 anxiety attacks

Remember, you are not a crazy person, you will find that you are one of about 48 million people in the world suffering from this. Whilst you are visiting the doctor, the person next to you could be seeing the doc for the same thing as you. This is that common

I also found with me, zoloft gave me horrific insomnia and made my anxiety worse because the brain ticks over more when you are trying to get to slepp, and if you can't get to sleep, it just feeds on itself

Maybe try a sleeping tablet for a week or so, it is amazing what a good nights sleep does for the anxeity. I find it is more worse when I am stressed/tired
 
Stilnocs is an excellent sleeping tablet which is not overall addictive. You could suggest that to your local GP. I've used them and they work wonders.

shals :D
 
yep, stillnox are fantastic, that's what sleeping tablets i had, have those about 4 nights in a row and you feel so refreshed.

I found if you had them alot though they weren't as effective so Inow I just save them for a rainy/bad day
 
Don't you think if I ask the doctor for these specific drugs he is going to think I am faking it just to get meds? Or do you think they'll just give them to me? Also the stillnox sleeping pill you are talking about, how or why should I take it? Does it work in conjugation with the Xanax or the anti-anxiety medicine? Sorry I am just really nervous to approach the doctor about this. Also the doctor I am seeing is a nurse practicioner/mid-wife. It's my yearly (gyno) visit. Is she the right person to talk to about this or should I speak to another type of doctor? Thanks for all your help guys I really, really appreciate it!=D
 
some people say not to use stillnox with xanax, but my doctor said I was allright.

I don't know about anti anxiety/depressents though

Just tell him you have being speaking to people on a chat forum and that's what they said they used and it works for them

Doctors are very approachable

It's not like you get a buzz or anything like that

The xanax for me actually makes me feel like my normal self before all this happened. Not high or anything, just normal...relaxed

The stillnox just gurantees you a good nights sleep

These drugs aren't fun drugs or anything so don't worry about the doctor thinks .... just go and see him. They deral with people like you and me everyday
 
eng said:
yep, stillnox are fantastic, that's what sleeping tablets i had, have those about 4 nights in a row and you feel so refreshed.

I found if you had them alot though they weren't as effective so Inow I just save them for a rainy/bad day


dont have them 4 days in a row, unless you want to spend the following 4 days without sleep
 
SFLraver said:
Don't you think if I ask the doctor for these specific drugs he is going to think I am faking it just to get meds? Or do you think they'll just give them to me? Also the stillnox sleeping pill you are talking about, how or why should I take it? Does it work in conjugation with the Xanax or the anti-anxiety medicine? Sorry I am just really nervous to approach the doctor about this. Also the doctor I am seeing is a nurse practicioner/mid-wife. It's my yearly (gyno) visit. Is she the right person to talk to about this or should I speak to another type of doctor? Thanks for all your help guys I really, really appreciate it!=D

If you have a history with your doctor, as in you've been with this doctor for a while, chances are they'll understand. I'm not saying this would happen with a new doctor, but generally doctors can tell if someone genuinely needs help.

I've asked for certain scripts for years from various doctors, and I've never encountered them being suspicious. It usually shows that you've done a little homework and you are concerned for your well being, in most cases.

I lost it a few years back because of work stress, and I told my doctor I needed meds to get myself to even go to work. She ran through a quick evaluation, and we worked through it with therapy and meds.

As other posters have mentioned, there are ways to get through anxiety/depression/what have you without medication and with proper therapy.
 
No, I don't think your doctor is going to think you're just faking it to get drugs. You honestly have the condition, and it's very common. It's very common to know drugs that can be used to treat the condition, and you bringing them up to your doctor to ask his/her advice on them and possibly get a scrip is nothing abnormal.

You can definitely talk to your gyno about it. I've gotten antidepressants from my gyno before. They deal with that kinda stuff too.
 
Synapse999 said:
you may be best to try something like paxil or lexapro. I have quite a bit of anxiety myself... my doctor keeps pushing these meds instead of xanax etc.
becaues they are closely related. For me, i don't have the symptoms of worry or death etc. and that type of thing really

Benzo's and SSRI's are not clsely related at all actually....
 
My friend started taking Lyrica for anxiety and apparently it's working quite well.

I'm quite prone to anxiety as well, but I get on quite fine as long as I've had enough sleep and don't drink or take drugs too much. Exercise is definitely helpful, though I'm too lazy to get into it regularly.

Is it common to experience more anxiety if you sleep less? It's quite ridiculous for me, the difference I feel between having had 8 hours' sleep and 6 hours. If I sleep less than 6 hours, that's me worrying about everything and anything the whole day, and being terrified of talking to people. Weird. Really annoying and inconvenient too, as I wish I could sleep less. I can handle being tired the whole day due to a lack of sleep, but the depression and anxiety that accompanies it just isn't worth it.
 
I've been saying this a lot lately, so I'll be brief. Taking benzos for anxiety is a short-term bandaid solution that will leave you with a miserable addiction. I know this from first-hand experience. Try a non-pharmaceutical psychological treatment, like EMDR. It worked wonders for me, and in a VERY short timespan.

PM me if you want more info.
 
Go to the Doc. & get try to get Benzos... Dont listen to the negative hype associated with benzos. Benzos are definetly highly addictive. But they also saved my life. I was once a lazy asshole who didnt give a fuck about school or work or any other place where i might be forced to interact with strangers.
Since i started taking benzos my whole perspective about life has changed.
I now work , go to school & feel like a social butterfly / Ladies man:)
 
i totally feel the same way you do, but sometime it feels like the whole world is on needles and everything is going to go wrong at once, so i totally feel ya on this one. I been kind of scared to see the doctor for fear of him telling me im a frickin nutjob. Ive found that self medicating with weed and once in a while when its real bad a xanax helps me out tremendously.
 
Great! Now stop taking them and see how you feel ;) (@ warehousepunk)

I went from severe anxiety to none in less than three months without taking pills. YMMV, but I'm glad that I don't have to take a pill to feel normal, and IMO most psychological disorders can be successfully treated without meds.

But, like I said, YMMV. And besides, the drug companies have got bills to pay too :)
 
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