Anal play with my BF

[mistressmimi]

So, I am a 28 lady. I discovered I enjoyed strap on play when I was 19. My current BF of 2 years warmed up to the idea abt a year ago. He enjoys anal stimulation a LOT, but he acts like its embarrassing. He won't allow any lights on. As any of you who have participated in this type of play probably know, it is very difficult to be successful at it in the dark. Any advice?

 

[llama112]

Honestly, it may take him a bit more time. Start by having dimmed lights or even just a small light.

 

[tantric]

find porn on the net of girls with strap ons and guys...let him get used to it. also, use your webcam so he can see his ass closeup, what's going on - he may never have looked at his asshole. does he know how to clean? enema (do it twice). if he's clean and washed, eat his ass - he'll go nuts, and for some reason i can't explain at all, doing it is very hot, like we have dog DNA in our backbrains or something. just being frank....

and never, ever, never let him do it with a guy. the real things is much better, but you might watch gay porn to figure out the rhythms and techniques.