deewallace
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jun 18, 2015
- Messages
- 186
Does your orientation predict any of these types of behaviors? I am gay myself and have never had these type of thoughts to grope someone or do something ridiculous. The thing is I come from a very conservative family and they said the family research council has damning evidence, didn't use the word damn obviously, lol, that gays are more likely and then lesbians are more likely. I really don't believe this is true and I tried a google search and it left me to a dead end. I don't know if I believe all these harassment stories either because it comes out everyday and it seems ridiculous to me. Although I do think weinstein did it but these others just seem like maybe they're jumping on the band wagon. I am gay and it is tough. I am in therapy and my psych says there's nothing wrong with me. He's the coolest psych in the world, I also do cognitive thereapy for my ocd which has helped. Just my parents put these thoughts in my head and it makes me crazy and I research it nonstop and can't get any real answers. My friend Zooey told me about this site and said it's got such a variety of intelligent people. She also told me to be openminded. And one more thing my parents keep saying over and over is.....we saw the craigslist ads so that proves that homosexuality is bad because you don't see straight guys getting on there and trying to get women. And they said gays try to have sex with straight guys and stuff. IDK I'm so confused. I was groped by a gay man at a gay club. It upset me to be honest. Now of course my friend zooey says that's not ok but not indictive of gay men. Now the thing is I look on craigslist and see gay men nonstop trying to seduce straight men. The thing is though you don't see straight guys doing that to women on craigslist. So what do i do? Do I be gay or do I not do it because it may be wrong? I really don't know if I want to be a self hating gay man or should I do something else?
