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Affected by a trip gone wrong

thats good to hear...

but i don't care how much you want to break up with someone, if your tripping on DOI thats really not a good thing to tell someone "this relationship is over, im leaving, your pathetic, bye"

That will fuck with someones head in ways that no one really deserves. Im happy you reconciled, but that is a pretty fucked up thing to do to a significant other even if you are dealing with personal issues....
 
psychedelics including e can be a catalyst for relationships. while awkward and weird the end result can be not only real, but for the best. the words might not make sense, the images might not make sense.. but that was real. you can't discredit what happened because you were "on drugs".. just like its not okay for people to cheat because they were drunk.. its a sign of something larger. this does not sound like a healthy relationship. it was not a "fluke". i wish i could tell exactly what happened.. was he making a good point? is he a jerk? but it really doesn't matter right and wrong.. this is a relationship.. relationships do not exist in a vacuum.. if it wasn't the 2-ce.. it could have been a new job, or a new baby.. as weird as it feels, there's no shame in it, and you have to listen to your heart. are you comfortable being in a relationship with this person? no. i hope that helped and im sorry.. ive been through some stuff like that with psyches and it can be tough, but in the long run its a relatively harmless thing to have happened.. even though it doesn't feel like it now.
 
EnneaNovem said:
I wanted to post a reply, I have been a bit caught up in my life.

Thank you for all of your replies. I ended up showing him my post later the same night I made it, and we talked extensively about what happened. I forgive him, which I really had already done - the pain was still there but I know how trips can be, especially under stress, and I knew he wasn't really being himself.

Since then everything has been... excellent. My trust in him has been restored, and I took the chance of tripping with him again, which solidified this. We were close and comfortable together during the whole trip and he made me feel renewed and normal again. In sober moments he made sure to stop me when he saw me digging myself into a hole of self-mistreatment (something I am sometimes prone to) and has made me appreciate myself as a person a lot more. I knew I had to talk to him further about it initially, but talking here first gave me the courage to do that. I'm happy to say that we are back to the way we were before and on a personal basis I am happier with myself than I have ever been. I also took what he said as an indication that at least a few of my own self-noticed flaws are a little too noticeable, and began enacting change. I've been bettering myself but without the usually included side of self abuse, and I can already see myself being happier because of it.

Thank you all so much. I really appreciate that you seemed to care about my situation and it helped immensely to have somewhere to vent my feelings.
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didn't catch this before my last response.. there are some problems here. i don't think you can "sweep this under the rug".. nor do i think forgiveness means that its okay again.

EnneaNovem said:
I also took what he said as an indication that at least a few of my own self-noticed flaws are a little too noticeable, and began enacting change.
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this is unhealthy.

..you're moving out of the realm of psychedelics here.. i would recommend going to loveshack.org for relationship advice.. but not mentioning the trip thing, just talk about your relationship.. they might get hung up on it. btw i don't work for loveshack or have anything to gain by sending you that way.. they might be able to help.
 
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sorry to hear that

you'll be fine in a few months at the most (more like a week at the most)

the strange feelings will dissipate and you'll be ok

keep your head up!
 
That's 2c-e and most RC's for you, they lack the FEEELING and SPIRIT of true psychedelics.

Honestly, I couldn't ever see something like that happening on LSD or mushrooms. Breaking up with someone WHILE TRIPPING?

I can understand how your boyfriend thought that on 2c-e, 2c-e isn't exactly the drug where you connect with your emotions as much. Sounds pretty cold, but as it 2c-e....leaves you feeling like a zombie.
 
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