Addicted to rough damaging sex

[Artificial Emotion]

I can only seem to get off on really brutally rough sex and masturbation. The problem is this is causing damage to myself as I've snapped my frenulum several times and my foreskin is so stretched there are stretch marks and when I'm flacid it just sort of hangs off and flops around which is very unsightly and annoying. I'm posting this is because I wanted to ask, is there some sort of therapy you can recommend that I can use to break the addiction? And do you guys have any tips for dealing with the addiction? I would like to get circumcised but I don't think I can get that on the NHS and I can't afford to go private for a while but that would be a temporary stop gap until I deal with the issues deep down inside.

 

[oh_yeah]

I can only seem to get off on really brutally rough sex and masturbation. The problem is this is causing damage to myself as I've snapped my frenulum several times and my foreskin is so stretched there are stretch marks and when I'm flacid it just sort of hangs off and flops around which is very unsightly and annoying. I'm posting this is because I wanted to ask, is there some sort of therapy you can recommend that I can use to break the addiction? And do you guys have any tips for dealing with the addiction? I would like to get circumcised but I don't think I can get that on the NHS and I can't afford to go private for a while but that would be a temporary stop gap until I deal with the issues deep down inside.

Counsellors cover all kinds of subjects. Just Google psychologists in your area that focus on sex addiction. I have a therapist and she knows more about me than any other person in the world. She's been a godsend, helping me through issues I've felt so alone over.

 

[qsbl]

I can only seem to get off on really brutally rough sex and masturbation. The problem is this is causing damage to myself as I've snapped my frenulum several times and my foreskin is so stretched there are stretch marks and when I'm flacid it just sort of hangs off and flops around which is very unsightly and annoying. I'm posting this is because I wanted to ask, is there some sort of therapy you can recommend that I can use to break the addiction? And do you guys have any tips for dealing with the addiction? I would like to get circumcised but I don't think I can get that on the NHS and I can't afford to go private for a while but that would be a temporary stop gap until I deal with the issues deep down inside.

I
think this is called death grip. I was single for about a year and suffered from the death grip. Once I found a girlfriend it stopped. I would try and seek counciling...maybe MIND who are in the UK? Speak to your doctor as hard it maybe they might be able to help with counciling. If you find a girlfriend you won't enjoy sex until this stops because your penis is not senstive to the vagina feeling.

 

[d1nach]

A tight grip is normal I'd say your prob just trying to mimic the contractions of vagina just use lotion and alot of it

 

[Intense]

Try and stop jerking it and stay away from porn. Probably going to be difficult for you, but whenever you are thinking of masturbating go do something productive instead. Gym, a hobby etc..