i told my current girlfriend i love her but im not sure if i do. she was pressuring me so i just decided to say it, it felt right when i said it for the first time. but now, i sometimes have trouble saying it back when she says it to me.
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Acts that you regret the most
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lastregrets
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i regret..
having intentions but never acted upon it.
deteriorating my health by dieting. now my memory is bad.
losing contact with my friends on purpose or never had the time.
having intentions but never acted upon it.
deteriorating my health by dieting. now my memory is bad.
losing contact with my friends on purpose or never had the time.
milhouse_ptfc
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threelibras99 said:
I can understand that one. I'm really looking forward to living on my own, a life of blissful solitude...
'medicine cabinet'
Bluelighter
cheating on my ex gf. we had been together for over 2 years, spending so much time with each other. then when she went to school in LA, i didnt know what to do. i was lonely and found myself getting fucked up way more than i had before. getting fucked up more led me to make some bad descisions, one of them being sleeping with 3 girls she knew. i totally broke her heart.
ladyinthesky
Bluelight Crew
i regret who i lost my virginity to
fatallyflawed
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i only have a regret in the way I did someting but at the same time I felt it was nessicary for me to get my point out in doing it..........
When me and my wife where still in high school we had an intresting realationship so to speak! We became really good friends and she started dating my best friend (whom is still a brother to me), after they broke up I tried to pursue her but she dated another person who treated her badly in their realationship and she was always telling me how she wanted to be with me. We went to movies and hung out cause we where really good friends but it started eating at me inside bout how much of a tease it was.....I dropped her off at home and told her that we couldn't be friends anymore cause I wanted more and she said she did too but was involved so couldn't see me! (here's my regret if u will) While she was talkin bout how she never could find the courage to break it off I grabbed her and gave her one of those movie style passionate kisses! After i kissed her I grabbed her by her shoulders and said goodbye and someday maybe we could be together but for now, it was nice knowing her and turned and got in my car and left her crying on her front pourch!
The only reason this was partially regretable was cause I helped her cheat on a boyfriend she wanted no part of and I dont like cheaters. I only felt it was nessicary to get my point across and I wouldn't have sat there and made out with her, and the next day it was over between those 2 and we started our realationship!
When me and my wife where still in high school we had an intresting realationship so to speak! We became really good friends and she started dating my best friend (whom is still a brother to me), after they broke up I tried to pursue her but she dated another person who treated her badly in their realationship and she was always telling me how she wanted to be with me. We went to movies and hung out cause we where really good friends but it started eating at me inside bout how much of a tease it was.....I dropped her off at home and told her that we couldn't be friends anymore cause I wanted more and she said she did too but was involved so couldn't see me! (here's my regret if u will) While she was talkin bout how she never could find the courage to break it off I grabbed her and gave her one of those movie style passionate kisses! After i kissed her I grabbed her by her shoulders and said goodbye and someday maybe we could be together but for now, it was nice knowing her and turned and got in my car and left her crying on her front pourch!
The only reason this was partially regretable was cause I helped her cheat on a boyfriend she wanted no part of and I dont like cheaters. I only felt it was nessicary to get my point across and I wouldn't have sat there and made out with her, and the next day it was over between those 2 and we started our realationship!
Samadhi
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* I regret not spending as much time with my nonna in the last couple of years of her life. I know she missed me, and it tore me up, but i also know that she was secure in my overwhelming love for her, and she knew she was always in my heart. I was 14 when she passed away, and was pretty much beinga teenager. No excuse, just the reason.
There are other things i regretted doing, but they are far more personal and not something i'd be comfortable sharing. I don't have regrets anymore, anything i've done/not done in life that i've regretted, i've learned to integrate into my life and i've either learned from it, or have just moved on. I've wasted way too much time feeling guilty about the past and worrying about the future... It only froze me in the present - I wasn't living life.
There are other things i regretted doing, but they are far more personal and not something i'd be comfortable sharing. I don't have regrets anymore, anything i've done/not done in life that i've regretted, i've learned to integrate into my life and i've either learned from it, or have just moved on. I've wasted way too much time feeling guilty about the past and worrying about the future... It only froze me in the present - I wasn't living life.
S P I T F I R E
Bluelighter
Telling one of my ex boyfriends I loved him when I didn't. Messing up everything in my life and not having a close enough relationship with my guy that I've been with for 3 years to be able to tell him. Always being the strong one and never letting anyone take care of me especially now
stellablue
Bluelight Crew
^ Oh sweetie, that is just awful, and I have to say, you are very strong. I do think it is time you let someone else care of you for a bit. Every strong woman needs a break, and breather. I think you are in a period in your life where you are not feeling love for the man you were with for a long time, and you need to know this does happen, and you are not the only one that realizes this. Sometimes, it is just over. You know?