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Acts that you regret the most

GEtting drunk at the latest christmas party at work, then going home with this guy I work with, and later that night, confessing (to him) to having fucked a dog when I was 13 or 14.
 
I regret having cheated on my current partner. But I suppose in a way it was a catalyst to becoming who I am now (which is not that person); it forced to a head a lot of issues that needed to be dealt with, and since nothing can be done about it now, I prefer to see it as a lesson. It becomes a part of the tapestry of my life experiences, one of the not-so-proud moments, but a part nonetheless. I will never forgive myself for inflicting that kind of emotional pain on him though. That part is difficult to be pragmatic about. :\
 
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I dont have any major regrets in my relationships. I was friends with one or of idiots that I have nothing to do with now...but at the time I thought they were pretty good people. It was only later that I realised that they were not who they said they were and I feel silly now for ever considering them to be good friends. But I dont regret ever having known them or anything...its just a learning experience and Ive learned to not be so trusting around people I dont know that well.

The one thing I regret above all other things (in terms of relationships) is not showing more understanding with one of my former best friends who was going through a rough spot in her relationship. I turned my back on her and I miss her and should have just offered to be around if she needed to talk. Too much of a quick temper on my part. If we are never friends again that will be the price I have to pay for not being there for her when she needed someone.:(
 
No regrets. There are things that I could have done better....I mean I've done some dumb shit. But I wont beat myself up about it because thats the past. I'm happy with my life now and my future so why bring anything up?
 
I regret the way i treated my best friend when i got into drugs. It started off as a "i just want to try" it bullshit... yeah thats what i was trying to convince myself it was. I fucked her around so SO much it breaks me to this day 2 years later. Thank god she stuck by me to see me through it all. Never will i abuse someones being right beside me ever again.

I also regret the way ive treated family members in the past.. total teenage angst tied in with heavy drug use isnt a nice combo... Its like, i was so angry at myself so i took it out on the ones who loved me.. :\ and i regret the way i lost my virginity, that night, that person that whole day. I'll never get over that.
 
socko said:
GEtting drunk at the latest christmas party at work, then going home with this guy I work with, and later that night, confessing (to him) to having fucked a dog when I was 13 or 14.
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I trust that you do realize that to them, the age of consent is two and two-sevenths.
 
I was very good friends with a particular girl before, during, and after a very special relationship with another girl. I started out attracted to the first girl, but that went away as I got to know her better. After breaking up with the second girl and not getting laid for a month or so, I slept with the first girl. By this point I had actually found reasons to be turned off by her, but I was so damn desperate I decided to purposefully get very drunk and high and fuck her.

When she found out that I had simply used her (she had been very attracted to me for the entire time we'd been friends), and not just for sex, but for drug money and other 'favors' that I needed done. We didn't talk for a couple months.

Having sex with that girl is definitely one of the the most selfish things I've ever done; she has a history of unpleasant sexual encounters, and while I can assure you she enjoyed the sex, I feel bad because I know that was the worst.

If we're just talking about straight up regrets, then I'm gonna have to say smoking meth after promising my ex-girlfriend I'd never do it again. My numerous semi-addictions are the reason she left me, I don't blame her.
 
i wish i had learned to stand up for myself sooner.
although you learn a lot from letting people walk all over you for years, in the end, it's not worth it- it's so hard to change yourself when it's so engrained.
but that messed up a lot of stuff for me involving sex and relationships.
 
I wish I had not lost my temper with my husband. I regret that I was promiscuous when I was younger.
 
I regret never learning the quote in my signature til a few weeks ago.

Ever since, life has been better :D
 
socko said:
GEtting drunk at the latest christmas party at work, then going home with this guy I work with, and later that night, confessing (to him) to having fucked a dog when I was 13 or 14.
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what?!
 
well....

I suppose, seeing as how this is my first real post on Bluelight, that you are all going to think i'm some nasty, sly, dishonest little weasel...and you'd be right.

I have a huge regret. I won't jazz it up, as i do with my mates - i'll keep it simple and honest. A friend a I stole the combination to another 'friend's' Safe, and broke in (more than once) to pilfer her fantastic stash of pills. Of course, in the beginning, she didn't even notice when one or two disappeared - but when i got brazen and took twelve in one go, cracks began to appear. Yada yada yada...needless to say, she found out in the end what we'd done - upon final tally, we'd stolen almost fifty of her little whit (pink, blue, green, etc..) friends, and eaten them all.

I get headaches. A LOT.

I take solace in the fact that i didn't do it to make money by selling them... NO. I was trying to kill myself in the most joyfull way i knew how - tripping.

Needless to say, it didn't work - for here i sit, all bi-polar from lack of substances, and boring the pants off you with my tale of woe. That's my regret. I'm still alive...


...hehe.
 
Hmm... my sig didnt change
it was meant to say "To obtain, something of equal value must be lost"
 
Not to be disrespectful towards you charming lot, but these 'worst regrets' are WEAK.

I got drunk and threw my laptop (which i used for many hours a day) and broke it a week or so ago.

I got drunk after ODing on Somas the night before which left me totally obliterated and went to hangout with a girl I had a thing with and her friend, and ended up going apeshit when the girl I liked hugged an old friend of hers that we came across. I was trying to burn them with cigarettes and calling them cowards and fuckers and being totally out of control.

I came to school drunk and fell asleep in 1st period and couldn't be woken up until 2nd period and got in a bunch of trouble for that.

I got a DUI on tramadol+soma+oxycodone+xanax on New Years Eve. People called 911 when they saw me running redlights (I was nodding out HARD at the wheel) and driving eratically. This has totally devastated my college plans and my entire life. I'm currently on (parental) lockdown in my house, not as punishment, but because they don't trust me at all outside the house.

Me and my girlfriend were trying to buy xanax and the dealer stole our money so we chased the car and called the cops and said they mugged us. I eventually pinned them in and one got out to fight me but I wouldn't because they had a carfull of people. The cops picked 2 of the 4 up and we made statements against them. Then I made the HUGE mistake of leaving a message on the dealers phone saying, "How the piggies treating you, fatty?" I made sure not to say anything incriminating cuz I thought the cops might be monitoring his phone, but the message pissed them off and made them think something was up, so they took my GF out of school and interrogated the fuck out of her and made all this shit up about a 'voice stress test' (when they pulled this on me I was like, "You got that with you?" and it was obvious that they didn't, they said "It can be arranged" or some bullshit after a short pause.. my girlfriend, however, believed them) that is apparently 99.9% accurate or some horse shit at telling if a story is true. My GF totally caved and made a statement against us telling the entire truth and now I am on PAY (Prosecution Alternatives for Youth) which means piss testing (marijuana has been the only thing keeping me sane, happy, and productive in life for the last 3 years, I'm a miserable fuckhead wreck without it, and not because of mental addiction, just how I naturally am) and community service and blah blah blah. Basically probation for minors, which is funny, because I'm going to end up being on real probation at the same time at some point due to my DUI.

I got drunk about 4 days ago and my sister and her (military boy) fiance were over. Sister knew I was drinking.. I ended up blacking out (NEVER good in my case) and went in my room and started screaming 'fuck you' and doing all sorts of things I have been way too embarassed to ask about. My sister came in, we got into some sort of lame little struggle that resulted in her hitting me, me hitting her back, and her screaming bloody murder. Her boy came in and put me in some kind of hold and pinnned me and wouldn't let me go until I assured him that I was calm. This is the only part I remember, being pinned. All very, very embarassing. I haven't seen my sister since.. I don't want to.

I got drunk last night and broke my nice headphones (on purpose).

There's plenty more, but this is getting depressing. I've decided to quit drinking, by the way. I'm not an alcoholic by any means, but when I drink, I tend to drink a LOT, and due to the recent stresses in my life, I have become an angry, crazy drunk, instead of the loving happy drunk I once was. All of this gets me into too much trouble for it to be worth the shitty high (why can't opiates be legal and alcohol banned? society would be much more pleasant in every way).

Oh, and I totally devasted my parents and my relationship with them by doing the above things and PLENTY more.
 
i regret not fucking Juan, three years ago when me and my husband were seperated. he was a short mexican guy with alot of 'flesh on his bone'. maaan. Dammit!
 
This guy liked me for a while. Many times he tried, but never got anything from me. One night I got so fucked up on G with him and ended up having sex. Now I have people coming up to me asking me about it. I told no one, but him being a guy....

Fucking my then-friend's boyfriend. Of course it ruined the friendship.

Starting a relationship with a long time friend. We're still friends, but it'll never be the same.

Cheating on my ex. I didn't really cheat. I kissed the other guy, but he found out about it. We got back together after that but it was nothing less than hell. I still feel like it was my fault. :\
 
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kissing my best friend's boyfriend when she was in Brazil. I know it doesnt seem like much but i felt so bad about it...

not talking to my dad for about 6 years after him and my mum split up
 
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