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Acts that you regret the most

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On occassion I hear drunken stories from people about how awful they have treated a best friend or how they fucked around on a SO and I wonder what Blers have as their most regrettable decision regarding family/friends/lovers/yourself.

I abandoned my mother during a difficult time period in her life because I was young, selfish, and pissed off leaving her to deal with her divorce and struggle with alcoholism alone.

I disrespected myself by sleeping with this total loser 30 yr old when I was 17, who ended up in jail for not paying his child support. Wow I regret that, I shudder just to think about that one.

Well, what do you regret doing the most to yourself or someone you know?
 
Quite recently and just after my Mum had passed away from cancer. I had been seeing a girl for a few months everything was going really well with her and was probably the best relationship I have ever had.

Only a couple of weeks after the funeral my best friends sister told me she had strong feelings for me. At first I told her to fuck off I was happy but she kept it up and 1 drunk night I slept with her.

I had had stong feelings for this girl for years and we had agreed that I would break up with the girl I was seeing and she'd break up with her boyfriend. I did it straight away and told the girl I was seeing the truth. She told me it was a bad time for me to be making decisions and if I changed my mind I should come back and talk to her.

Time went on and my friends sister kept telling me she was going to break up but it never happened.

In the mean time my feelings became even stronger for her and only last weekend after talking to my best friend found out all she wanted was a fling.

Now I'm alone at a time I really don't want to be
 
oh man......... that sucks.... :\

although you should never feel "alone" just because you're not in a relationship.
 
When i was 7 my 2 best friends were brothers that were 2 and 4 years older than me. We always used to fool around in the tub but i wish it went further before i had to move T_T. They were fucking hot.
 
When I was drunk I was very disrespectful to a mate's girlfriend. The worst part was I didn't have the balls to apologise. I'm a different person now but it's too late to apologise and it damaged our friendship.
 
1. having sex with a friends gf, when we werent really mates and now were mates it holds me back a bit. he still doesnt know.

2. having sex with the high school captain chick. not good having bookmarks and posters up everywhere of a chick thats meanta be a goody two shoes, and being reminded everyday. those were the days
 
Never making the effort to really get to know my father (he died when I was 13).

Putting off breaking up with this one guy (who was a really good friend both before and after the relationship too) because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Basically I couldn't tell him I had no feelings for him, I sort of left him hanging and did a lot of things afterwards (like getting together with one of his friends) that hurt him. He was a great friend though.

Apart from that, I don't think I have any regrets. I've done my fair share of shitty stuff but doing it is what has made me what I am today. There are very few things I would change in my past if I could.
 
Nothing really, I have no room for regrets.....but I am quite appalled and disgusted at the memory of a couple of relationships I had :p
 
a long time ago during hs i hurt a good friend who i knew really liked me when i hooked up w/ someone more popular instead. the latter eventually fucked my (former) best friend (among other people) & it really shattered me for a while.

....that and my friend became distant :\
 
Putting up with a relationship where I was caught between this guy, and the possessive, extremely emotionally unstable (and sometimes psychotic) woman he thought could do no wrong.

Shortly after leaving that relationship, getting stoned with a "friend" and having unprotected sex, right in the middle of the fertile part of my cycle. Thankfully, no pregnancy.

Engaging in gossip. Every time that I have.

Not nipping a crush in the bud at the beginning, as soon as it was obvious it wasn't going to lead anywhere (nearly 12 months now, much harder to give up).

I dunno.
 
Cheating on my ex boyfriend, having a second drunken one night stand with the guy i cheated with and having encounters with a stranger (later finding out he has a gf). Thats all in the past and i hope i never repeat such behavior!
 
Being completely drunk and fucking this girl in front of two of my friends. We were in my friends basement and they were basically forced to guard the door and watch since if they left the door one of my friends parents might've came down. She was a total freak too, since earlier that day she was talking about giving two guys head to get into a gang.

It's not that regrettable, she was decently hot, I'm not losing sleep.
 
Allowing myself to br dragged into a vicious love square, in which the person i wanted to be with was using me to make his ex girlfriend jealous so that he could get back together with her.

Letting one very special person go, through a mutual agreement.

On the whole though i don't regret much... always regretting things means that you can't concentrate on what is happening now...
 
Last summer I came back from a year abroad. I met up with one of my old best friends and drank like a 40 of gin... Her boyfriend showed up, she pissed me off and to make a long story short I fooled around with him. Things between her and I are better now (obviously not normal, plus I live in a different city than she does at this point) but I still really regret hurting her so badly. I guess we live and learn though, eh?
 
I regret my first kiss, because I didn't really even like the guy, and was kind of peer pressured into it, or was a bit scared I guess.

I regret being so friends-oriented in my younger teenage years that I really didn't care how I treated my parents or brother.

Not knowing my grandmother too well before she died. She was an amazing woman, very spiritual and humble. Ah well!

I regret going out with this girl in high school, who was kind of going out with my other friend. We had liked her at the roughly same time a year before, and eventually my friend made the moves on her and they were a couple. When someone told her that I liked her, she ditched my friend and... well I probably have a more active role in her ditching my friend, but I don't remember exactly.

I regret doing so much drugs to the point of my health really deteriorating for a time.

But I don't kill myself over them. Just things I wouldn't do over.
 
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