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A Promise to my dad...

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Nernex

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Okay so me and my friends discovered e about 6 months ago now and since then I was going on nights out with it every 2-3 weeks.

My dad noticed a very sudden change in the music I was listening to and the fact I was going out a bit more than usual. After a long discussion about how "ecstasy fucks up your life" I regretfully promised him that I would never touch it again.

It has been 2 months now and I honestly did mean it when I said it, however my friends continue to party whilst I refuse to go simply because of the temptation and the fact that being on alcohol will be alot less satisfying. It's a birthday event this weekend and ALL of my friends are going London and I feel as though im missing out on so much.

I suppose im just trying to find a way of justifying me being able to go so that I dont have to feel so guilty towards my dad.. I dont think I have the heart to disapoint him like that.

What do you guys think about this?
 
Hey sometimes i like being sober at partys man..

I like to see my friends all fucked up and i just laugh at them, and play with them.. Its all about enter in the spirit.. Just go out with them and party like before discovering E..

Have fun..
 
Im just worried that after a few drinks il let my guard down with it and just end up popping
 
AHAHAH..

If it has to be it has to be.. Its not the end of the world.. You just have to be strong psychologically..
 
if by party you mean your going to some kind of club/rave/any where with dancing, just dance. and definitely stay away from alcohol, alcohol makes you dumb and the likely hood of you dropping is gonna increase 10 fold. if you really want to feel not sober why not drop a little L?
 
While being the "sober one" in a group while partying can seem boring or lame, if you watch out for your friends and everyone is safe and happy than that is pretty rewarding, and your friends (if they are good friends) will thank you for it. Plus having a sober driver is great.

Go out be sober and have fun with good people. Then occasionally when you can... have fun.
 
boring or lame? why? .. When i go to a psytrance rave i generally go to listening an artist not to drug myself til i blackout..
 
superelephant said:
I second this motion. Your dad is not going to find anything about lsd messing you up physiologically either.
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Really? As a matter of fact he also mentioned this as being worse in his own personal experience, says he even to this day has flashbacks of it from an experience when he was 14, frightens the life out of him apparently...

Not only that LSD doesnt exist around here (essex) ive mentioned it to a dozen connections and they are clueless to its whereabouts.

I couldn't go sober so im probably not going to go now, thanks for all the replies though
 
Once you give alcohol a chance again, youll realize it's just as fun as ever.
You need to be strong; if you are so passionate about not hurting your dad then it should be EASY to not do e..
 
Is there really anything wrong with taking e as long as he doesnt find out? Im not saying get back to old habits but for a birthday event and you being out all night anyway?

If you really want to stay true to your word then just drink, but make sure you maintain that willpower to not take md.

Whatever you choose, dont stay at home. Get out there and have fun.
 
LimaZ said:
Hey sometimes i like being sober at partys man..

I like to see my friends all fucked up and i just laugh at them, and play with them.. Its all about enter in the spirit.. Just go out with them and party like before discovering E..

Have fun..
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This is great advice. It may seem hard now for you not to take some E while your there, but honestly, if it's really important to you, you wont. Make sure your friends know that you don't want to be doing any E while your there, and you just want to be with your friend for his/her birthday. Being sober, or just drunk, around rolling people can be really fun. Also, don't give up booze because you think MDMA is more fun, I promise, when you get drunk, it'll be just as fun as it was before. There two entirely different versions of fucked up, it's like saying you don't like coke anymore because you discovered shrooms and think they're more fun, in reality, they're just different highs.

Have fun though!
 
I was at a birthday party and everyone else was rolling ballz, heck the birthday girl was probably the most messed up, bombing 240mg. I was sober and wanted to drop a couple soo bad. But instead i ended up doing a few bumps of K just to kinda "blend in". But really even before i was still having fun, just talking to people.

Theres nothing wrong with being sober, you just have to find a way use the vibes coming from everyone to your advantage.
 
The reason your dad doesn't want you to do it is because "it fucks up your life". If you continue dropping every 2 weeks then he's probably right.

If you are going to do it then be responsible, only do it every few months or something. Everyone's happy :)
 
Based on my own experience, I'm not so optimistic as the other posters. If you are new to Ecstasy, then you are right in the middle of the magic of the honeymoon period and it's almost certain that if you go party with friends who are using and then get drunk - you're going to use again. That's human nature and the almost irresistible pull of your brain's draw to intense pleasure. Studies demonstrate that will power alone will almost always fail in the presence of strong drives over a long period of time.

It took me 10 years of using before I now am able to go to night clubs or raves and am okay dancing with other people who are high on E while I just get good and drunk or drink red bull with vodka.

It sounds to me like you're a person with a strong value system, and I admire that instead of just going against a promise that you're trying to work through the conflict. It sounds as if you may have a solid relationship with your Dad, and perhaps honesty is the best policy. Sit down with him and explain what's going on. That may involve setting a new expectation with him and explaining that instead of promising him you'll never do Ecstasy again that you'll promise to do your best to stay away from it and if you ever do use it that you'll be as responsible as you know how to be. That's a realistic promise.
 
No one can tell you this we all come from such different backgrounds... reading your post I only wonder how old you are and why you asked bluelight the answer would have been really easy to come up with for me. But thats just me I suppose.

"Really? As a matter of fact he also mentioned this as being worse in his own personal experience, says he even to this day has flashbacks of it from an experience when he was 14, frightens the life out of him apparently..."

I also had a hard time taking this seriously but I can see why your dad would tell you that.


He may not have had that conversation with you if you only used once every few months? E doesn't fuck your life up, you do.
 
OH BUT I TOTALLY FEEL YOU on the "other drugs arent as fun" deal

But you just havent explored new drugs yet :3
 
MD > speed. and healthier too.

you're dad is just worried about you. imagine if you're kid was going out late at night doing sketchy pills.

tell him you use it responsibly (if you do, of course), and you've read on the health risks (mention that it's safer than alcohol too). just having an honest conversation with him would be the best.
 
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